FabSwingers.com forum: Bruises

By *isa 59 OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I experimented earlier in the week with a very nice guy who only did what I asked of him but I didn't realise that I would bruise as I have done...mostly from bites.

I'm now in the position of not knowing whether I should meet anyone else until the bruises have gone.

If you turned up for a meet and the lady was bruised would it put you off?

What is/is there any etiquette for this kind of situation?

Should I simply say that I can meet but I'm marked and leave it up to the other person to decide if they still want to meet me or not?

Does anyone know how I can get rid of the damned things any quicker than just letting nature take its course? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I experimented earlier in the week with a very nice guy who only did what I asked of him but I didn't realise that I would bruise as I have done...mostly from bites.

I'm now in the position of not knowing whether I should meet anyone else until the bruises have gone.

If you turned up for a meet and the lady was bruised would it put you off?

What is/is there any etiquette for this kind of situation?

Should I simply say that I can meet but I'm marked and leave it up to the other person to decide if they still want to meet me or not?

Does anyone know how I can get rid of the damned things any quicker than just letting nature take its course? lol"

Arnica or witch hazel can help sometimes...

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Yep arnica will help.

And 1959 was such a good year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I massage bruises to try to dissapate the blood in them. I think it helps.

We were in Chams a while ago for three nights. on the first night I was whipped by an inexperienced girl and she bruised my inner thighs really badly.

I then had two more days feeling very self concious but it didn't seem to put anyone off. Still had lots of fun. xx

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Oh and I meant to say, bruises wouldn't put us off as long as we knew they were consensual. It may be worth mentioning them to any potential meets for that reason

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

i bruise like a peach... even an overtight hug gives me them! Let alone when Master has been with me for the weekend!

Go ahead and meet... I like your style x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd only like to know that you'd received them with consent, rather than the alternative. It might put me off my mojo a little as I'd be conscious of not worsening them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can also try to take aspirin as it works as an anticoagulant and you won't bruise as much in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can also try to take aspirin as it works as an anticoagulant and you won't bruise as much in future."
.... Well that's certainly not true ! You will bruise ten times as much just ask anyone who takes asprin as a blood thinners . People who have a little knowledge are dangerous . Though i suppose you will say your a nurse next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take Aspirin daily and can assure you it will not prevent bruising,but may well make you bruise a lot more.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Can also try to take aspirin as it works as an anticoagulant and you won't bruise as much in future..... Well that's certainly not true ! You will bruise ten times as much just ask anyone who takes asprin as a blood thinners . People who have a little knowledge are dangerous . Though i suppose you will say your a nurse next

Agreed, I've been on daily aspirin as a blood thinner after a heart attack and I look like a bloody dalmation sometimes. Prolly doesn't help that I'm a clumsy twat

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By *isa 59 OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"i bruise like a peach... even an overtight hug gives me them! Let alone when Master has been with me for the weekend!

Go ahead and meet... I like your style x"

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By *isa 59 OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

So basically I need to avoid aspirin, arnica can help get rid of the buggers and continue to meet but disclose that I've got them (with consent) up-front.

Thanks guys n girls...much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in the same situation a few weeks ago, had a complete set of fingerprints on my boob

I also bruise like a peach. I read everything I could on bruises after that one, it took nearly two weeks to go. The best way to treat bruises are as soon as you knock yourself or know you are going to have a bruise, get ice on the area. It closes the blood vessels down and stops the blood flowing into the surrounding areas and showing a bruise. As far as healing goes, it says on line when the bruise is there put heat on it to open up the blood vessels and help it dissipate to heal quicker. Hope this helps !

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I will admit, I do enjoy my bruises, it just makes the meet last longer as I can look back and remember how that one got there

I just let nature take it's course and they are mostly gone by about 7 days, I have in the past not even looked for a meet whilst I have them, but these threads do seem to read like wear them with pride, and let your potential play partner know they were fully consented to, it's what makes us individuals with different tastes about what we enjoy

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By *elkel1979Woman
over a year ago

Cumbria

Well i am a nurse PLEASE DO NOT TAKE ASPIRIN.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

i too bruise really easily in fact have been asked by folk if i ave been beaten up

by my now ex so its prob good job he didnt

do that as i would never have been able to hide them as they last for 2 weeeks and go from black purple to green then yellow

isn't lavender oil good for them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well i am a nurse PLEASE DO NOT TAKE ASPIRIN. "

I'm not a nurse but as close as I can be .... I also agree do not take aspirin please x it does not help

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By *irtyslutgirlWoman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Massaging bruises help them disappear. I like looking at my bruises after a play session... mmmm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always let a meet know then he can make his own mind up. Most have not minded, but one did ask to rearrange as he felt me having bruise boobs would be a turn off. Completely respected his honestly and had fun at a later date x

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

"Massaging bruises help them disappear. I like looking at my bruises after a play session... mmmm..."

definitely.... x

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