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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

probably been asked a zillion times. but as a couple we are going to meet our first single male for a coffe and see if we all click. HELP!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Help you click?? Not something we can control um afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

should worded myself more precisely. never met anyone with the intention of "doing it" before so nerves are the biggest part for us both. he, has met couples on here before so knows the ropes etc.

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By *reybearMan
over a year ago

medway


"probably been asked a zillion times. but as a couple we are going to meet our first single male for a coffe and see if we all click. HELP! "

Arrange a signal beforehand so you both have a 'get out' option, agree how far you will let it go and just have a good chat with the guy.. Oh, and find somewhere quiet to meet where you don't have half the place straining to listen in on your conversation lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Just be yourself, ask anything you want to know and be as frank with him as you're comfortable with, don't drink too much and enjoy it its fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"probably been asked a zillion times. but as a couple we are going to meet our first single male for a coffe and see if we all click. HELP!

Arrange a signal beforehand so you both have a 'get out' option, agree how far you will let it go and just have a good chat with the guy.. Oh, and find somewhere quiet to meet where you don't have half the place straining to listen in on your conversation lol"
bloody good advice

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

only advice I could give is know your rules before you start and enjoy it the nerves the meet and the doing it just remember you are the one that is always incharge and hopefully it will turn out to be a great night for you both xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can attend a rehearsal

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Also don't assume that he won't be nervous, he's outnumbered and will want to make a good impression.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks. phew. yes, he is nervous, or at least says so. it is a coffee, not alcohol in a café in a neutral place. we both have our limits set and we both have spent about two months getting to this point, although I opened this account a while back, we never came here for various reasons, but I have yet to find a better place than fabswingers.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Also don't assume that he won't be nervous, he's outnumbered and will want to make a good impression."

remember also that he is checking you both out.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I really enjoy social meets its really nice to be able to chat and flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its good to feel safe with who you are meeting

If you feel that you are safe the rest will be a walk in the park

So they say

But you will always have butterflies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well. we didn't meet after all. so, we were left all weekend with a box of tissues and some redtube videos

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