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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am genuinely perplexed as to what I'm doing wrong and why I get the majority of messages deleted without being read. I'm always polite, can spell, punctuate and use English. I also know I'm not brad pitt! Any feedback greatly appreciated

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am genuinely perplexed as to what I'm doing wrong and why I get the majority of messages deleted without being read. I'm always polite, can spell, punctuate and use English. I also know I'm not brad pitt! Any feedback greatly appreciated

Thanks in advance"

Send me a message so I can see what your putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the thread single guys if I can , may give you a few pointers may not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am genuinely perplexed as to what I'm doing wrong and why I get the majority of messages deleted without being read. I'm always polite, can spell, punctuate and use English. I also know I'm not brad pitt! Any feedback greatly appreciated

Thanks in advance"

It's just the curse of the single male, wouldn't think about too much

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

You are a nice looking guy, nice body. Not been here long...message sex on the beach...shes lush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its only been 8 weeks!!!!

the only suggestion i can make is get to a club or social. get your face known.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

profile looks fine to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cute butt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you need to do is..........

1/Hang round post on the forums for a bit make out you know things even if you don't.

2/Make a few friends suck up a bit lots of flattery and smiles.

3/Then make a dramatic departure put a thread up possibly go for an encore

4/Then make a dramatic return shag someone you chatted to before and you will convince your self its as easy as taking the skin off a rice pudding.

Ok op I say in jest but less serious more humour will always yield better results so try it with people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you need to do is..........

1/Hang round post on the forums for a bit make out you know things even if you don't.

2/Make a few friends suck up a bit lots of flattery and smiles.

3/Then make a dramatic departure put a thread up possibly go for an encore

4/Then make a dramatic return shag someone you chatted to before and you will convince your self its as easy as taking the skin off a rice pudding.

Ok op I say in jest but less serious more humour will always yield better results so try it with people. "

Loving no 4

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Your a good looking bloke with a decent enough profile and pics. It's only been 8 weeks and you've had a meet already.

Rome wasn't built in a day x

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

you should go to the york social

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I am genuinely perplexed as to what I'm doing wrong and why I get the majority of messages deleted without being read. I'm always polite, can spell, punctuate and use English. I also know I'm not brad pitt! Any feedback greatly appreciated

Thanks in advance"

Is that a pint of fosters in your hand ,? If so that ll be why, the ladies don t like guys into pee,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the response! Guess I'll be attending some socials in the near future then, seems easier than the whole deleting and returning profile plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the negative status?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our usual "cut and paste" reply to all these types of threads.. amazing science here.. it actually works!!

Ready?? Here goes..

Too many people put too much emphasis into messaging to get meets.

Reality check - not that many will respond positively.

Get out from behind a pc screen (or whatever you use), get along to a club, social, private party etc to meet people and network!

Stand out from the crowd - get seen, be seen, meet others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

delete your account and open one with a sensible name. as a couple we would not entertain you just because the name is what we think, stupid. sorry, but that is what some go by. also, some are ignorant and ignore single males. we have stopped them as we had too many and were only looking for couples or ONE single male, not a bus load. if it is couples then you need to say what they want to hear, so be slow and very deliberate when you reply, as one sentence or bad spelling can put people off. also, you need to cater for the two of them and both their feelings, tricky stuff, good luck

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