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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ihave a problem when immaking love to a girl, as soon as i start to go at a fast rhythm i start to get the tingling or tickling sensation that makes me want to come,so inevitably I have to stop which sometimes annoys the woman.

Any hints or tips on how to go hard and fast and for a long time without the urge to want to come?

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By *aulsussex5Man
over a year ago

nr Gatwick


"Ihave a problem when immaking love to a girl, as soon as i start to go at a fast rhythm i start to get the tingling or tickling sensation that makes me want to come,so inevitably I have to stop which sometimes annoys the woman.

Any hints or tips on how to go hard and fast and for a long time without the urge to want to come?"

Nah mate... your screwed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine its Margaret Thather your ontop of, that should slow you down!

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By *aulsussex5Man
over a year ago

nr Gatwick


"Imagine its Margaret Thather your ontop of, that should slow you down! "

Really?... that has me finished in 2 pumps!! Amazing lady and not for turning apparently!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fook have always suffered this just wanted to overcome if if there is any way of doing so

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

All hope is gone, or try and cock ring and patience (not the card game)

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By *aulsussex5Man
over a year ago

nr Gatwick

Ok Joking aside it is a real issue sometimes and 99% men at some point have siffered with it (The 1% lie that they havent).

There are delay sprays and also numbing lubes but I dont know if they will affect the lady too. I personally have used the "auto-pilot mode" where i focus the mind on anything other than the job in hand andjust maintain a rythm but that can make it seem you are not into the woman so you can only do it for a fairly short period of time before coming back into the session.

What I think you need to remember is most women prefer lots of foreplay, oral and touching before pentration with a cock so jist fucking is unlikely to be the main goal for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine its Margaret Thather your ontop of, that should slow you down!

Really?... that has me finished in 2 pumps!! Amazing lady and not for turning apparently! "

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Try and relax your groin. When you have hard/fast sex you tense up. The same muscle group as you use to stop peeing mid flow. If you can relax those muscles you can go on for ages without looking disinterested.

However a lot easier said than done...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok Joking aside it is a real issue sometimes and 99% men at some point have siffered with it (The 1% lie that they havent).

There are delay sprays and also numbing lubes but I dont know if they will affect the lady too. I personally have used the "auto-pilot mode" where i focus the mind on anything other than the job in hand andjust maintain a rythm but that can make it seem you are not into the woman so you can only do it for a fairly short period of time before coming back into the session.

What I think you need to remember is most women prefer lots of foreplay, oral and touching before pentration with a cock so jist fucking is unlikely to be the main goal for her. "

spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try and relax your groin. When you have hard/fast sex you tense up. The same muscle group as you use to stop peeing mid flow. If you can relax those muscles you can go on for ages without looking disinterested.

However a lot easier said than done..."

I have mastered the art of holding back, not sure I have done it but now I have the opposite problem that I when I told back for to long I cant cum at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok cheers for the advice much appreciated. I dont have problems going slow i can last ages that way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male half of a couple here.

When you want to go the distance on a hard fast bang here's what I do.

Either have lots of sex, daily or multiple time a day daily.

Or aim for the hard fast long bang to be round 2 or 3 in a session.

This seems to work for us and I rarely have a night off

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By *aulsussex5Man
over a year ago

nr Gatwick


"Male half of a couple here.

When you want to go the distance on a hard fast bang here's what I do.

Either have lots of sex, daily or multiple time a day daily.

Or aim for the hard fast long bang to be round 2 or 3 in a session.

This seems to work for us and I rarely have a night off "

And you can f**k right off.. lol!!! Lucky sod if you are getting that much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you could try the something about mary trick and masturbate before leaving for you meet.

Personally, i have been blessed / cursed with a lack of sensitivity due to nerve damage as a toddler, so i can go for hours, the only limits really are fitness, back spasms, lubrication and boredom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag some ugly birds instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok a few ideas to try first google male kegel will help you learn to control the muscles responsible for climax. Second practice on your own learn to recognise the symptoms and work with them. There are some good delay sprays, creams and condoms around look at love honey they won't affect the lady if your not doing bareback and a few you apply and wash off before hand.

As has already been said most women don't just want a hard fast fuck foreplay is key.

As for thinking about something else if it works then fair play but rember it's swinging what's the point if your thinking about everything but your meet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

aww thanks for the advice guys will look up all you have told me xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her to give u head before u fuck.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ihave a problem when immaking love to a girl, as soon as i start to go at a fast rhythm i start to get the tingling or tickling sensation that makes me want to come,so inevitably I have to stop which sometimes annoys the woman.

Any hints or tips on how to go hard and fast and for a long time without the urge to want to come?"

Two free options:

Masturbate prior to meet, or

Tell your date she's made you so incredibly horny you'll cum in seconds, and then you'll be able to give quality foreplay during your recovery period (and her wish is your command)...

it might work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or cheat super p force

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Ihave a problem when immaking love to a girl, as soon as i start to go at a fast rhythm i start to get the tingling or tickling sensation that makes me want to come,so inevitably I have to stop which sometimes annoys the woman.

Any hints or tips on how to go hard and fast and for a long time without the urge to want to come?"

Stop watching so much porn, and being conned into thinking that's what women want, being rogered senseless for hours on end. Remember; those films are edited to make the sessions seem longer.

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By *adrewMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

Have a wank an hour or so before you get down to it then foreplay should get you going again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ihave a problem when immaking love to a girl, as soon as i start to go at a fast rhythm i start to get the tingling or tickling sensation that makes me want to come,so inevitably I have to stop which sometimes annoys the woman.

Any hints or tips on how to go hard and fast and for a long time without the urge to want to come?

Two free options:

Masturbate prior to meet, or

Tell your date she's made you so incredibly horny you'll cum in seconds, and then you'll be able to give quality foreplay during your recovery period (and her wish is your command)...

it might work "

I do loads of foreplay first anyway but yes may try coming quick first then start foreplay again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, as the woman, always try and give the guy a BJ first before we get to foreplay centred on me.

Aim is to make it harder for him to cum second time around - like the wank before a meet idea.

While we're then enjoying some foreplay he gets hard again and we're away...

Simple but effective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what, just enjoy it

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Ihave a problem when immaking love to a girl, as soon as i start to go at a fast rhythm i start to get the tingling or tickling sensation that makes me want to come,so inevitably I have to stop which sometimes annoys the woman.

Any hints or tips on how to go hard and fast and for a long time without the urge to want to come?"

Dont think of it as love mate. As its not.

that might be your first hurdle?

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By *aulsussex5Man
over a year ago

nr Gatwick


"I, as the woman, always try and give the guy a BJ first before we get to foreplay centred on me.

Aim is to make it harder for him to cum second time around - like the wank before a meet idea.

While we're then enjoying some foreplay he gets hard again and we're away...

Simple but effective"

OMG I think I am in love ooops sorry I mean LUST!!!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


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Tell your date she's made you so incredibly horny you'll cum in seconds, and then you'll be able to give quality foreplay during your recovery period (and her wish is your command)...

it might work "

I have no issue with a man cumming quickly the first round. In fact I always enjoy the second round better. As long as you are offering a second and third round it's not an issue. I like to think it is because I turned them on that much.

Honestly don't worry about it too much. I know I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes well it just takes me an hour or so to get hard again after I have come, but most women do tend to prefer it slow and sensual so perhaps im worrying over nothing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get totally smashed and have some viagra, then hit the vodka and redbulls to think you are ok, you wont cum for days the you will fuck like the porn stars and go on amd on like the durecell batteries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get totally smashed and have some viagra, then hit the vodka and redbulls to think you are ok, you wont cum for days the you will fuck like the porn stars and go on amd on like the durecell batteries

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