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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have I read this wrong or am i completely misunderstanding the situation?

It seems that everywhere i look at profiles, i'm reading Verified meets only or must have had previous meets or needs green tick. This is really common in my area and surrounds as well.

Now i'm new here and i haven't had a meet yet, no problem, i'm patient but if you can't seem to meet without a verification and you cant get verified without a meet.

Then how does a new guy get any chance at all?

Have i read that right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who have been on here for months without verification may find it harder to get a meet. One week is hardly a problem. You can meet people at socials clubs etc. It's not that difficult if you really put yourself out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cool, thanks for the reply. I will have to dust off the smart clobber then.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


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Then how does a new guy get any chance at all?

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Go to a social, job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what they said goto a club....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get verifies by cam

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

There is a social in Peterborough this weekend! Awesome opportunity to meet people.

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"There is a social in Peterborough this weekend! Awesome opportunity to meet people. "

there is? Where.. when...

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By *ungle-FeverCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Bristol/Gloucester

A social is a good place to start!

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Details of Peterborough social here http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/187234

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"Details of Peterborough social here http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/187234"

bah.... not clever enough to find that on my phone.... will try trawling through meets... I'm at a loose end and close to Peterborough...

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"Details of Peterborough social here http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/187234

bah.... not clever enough to find that on my phone.... will try trawling through meets... I'm at a loose end and close to Peterborough... "

It's near the top of the list in the meet requests and parties forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like they all say go to a club...

your profile is open and honest so start with a few social meets at clubs. good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a social in Peterborough this weekend! Awesome opportunity to meet people. "

Ooh could you pm me details of Peterborough social please maybe just what I need thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice, very much appreciated. I will be at the Peterborough Social on Sat, come say Hi. I'll be in the corner with an orange juice lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't sit in the corner on your own sit at the bar keep a smile on your face. I was nerves the first time I went to a club but soon they left as people said hello. so relax and have fun remember your there to get started not to meet the hand holding lass you want to find but who knows first time lucky and all that hope you have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks all for the advice.

I will be a bag of nerves on the night, always am in new situations but i will do my best. Im not going with any expectations. Just going to say hi and get on the radar so to speak, urgh!! that sounds awful. Make new friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you cannot meet at all then you can a;ways try and get a verification through the chat rooms.

get someone looking at your cam, you dont have to be pulling your pud, just sat on cam, approach someone for a chat then ask if they would kindly veri you as a real person.

then the rest is up to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks. I do have a cam and hace braved a few of the chat rooms and short of a cattleprod or a very loud noise, its very difficult to be noticed, especially in the busier rooms.

i have used my extra cunning plan "b" to make myself known to some of the community so i have some people ready and dare i say willing to at least talk to me on Sat.

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