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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

... or does nobody meet on here any more?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i meet people

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By *lackboaWoman
over a year ago

greenock

so do i.....when they turn up !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i hear ya there boa!!

it kicks your confidnce a bit when they dont turn up and puts me off new meets!! but when u get a good un it all worth it! xx

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By *eznhannahCouple
over a year ago

leeds

we never meet off here just cant be arsed with all the timewasters, and effort going in to planning a meet as we work very strange hours, however we find this site great for keep in touch with couples we have met in swing clubs, or couples who are reccomended to us

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We meet people off here but only couples now because of single guy's wasting our time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet lol xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"We meet people off here but only couples now because of single guy's wasting our time. "

funnily enough i have only been let down a couple of times and each time was by a couple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't, now just now, short on time, however we have been known to arrange a last minute like thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, well when the opportunity arises,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...got to the point when I've just put no longer meeting as I've got enough playmates and not enough time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah nobody ever meets off here, the verifications are all just a myth like gravity (yup there is no such thing as gravity the earth sucks)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we meet

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

I meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too and had a lovely time last night

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By *arandjasCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

we meet too, when the opportunity arises

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By *assybutclassyCouple
over a year ago

Swingin seaside resort....

we meet...but must admit it is getting more and more difficult to sieve out the genuine guys on here.....xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... or does nobody meet on here any more?"

It's just you. We all meet each other tons of times but we just don't tell you.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I met myself coming back from the loo - bloody scarey!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it one of those 'whose the beauty in the mirror' moments ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it one of those 'whose the beauty in the mirror' moments ?"

Oi fancy a meet Granny xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We ve met loads off this site, maybe weve been lucky but everyone has turned up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet people off here but only couples now because of single guy's wasting our time. "

have to disagree with you there, i have found that couples are the biggest waste of time on here.it is not easy for a single guy on here though as most couples are either looking for other couples or single bi women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet too lol. But I have to get to know a person first, and not many folk want to do that. Just a meet that day etc which isn't for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet people off here but only couples now because of single guy's wasting our time.

have to disagree with you there, i have found that couples are the biggest waste of time on here.it is not easy for a single guy on here though as most couples are either looking for other couples or single bi women."

could you please tell me who you are looking to meet on here couples and woman!!! same as the couples lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We meet people off here but only couples now because of single guy's wasting our time.

have to disagree with you there, i have found that couples are the biggest waste of time on here.it is not easy for a single guy on here though as most couples are either looking for other couples or single bi women."

As kingofleon pointed out.....

You are seeking the same, as are so many here, now there are less couples and far less single females here than single males, unfortunately this puts those looking for single males in the position of being able to be choosy, so unfortunately the single males have to put in that little extra effort.

We meet single males, but I bet we haven't met 1% of those that have messaged us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet single guys but do like to know them a bit and have met them at drop of the hat.(That is if got on with them well and seen them on cam)

We had one that had left the site and came back. He looked us up and asked if we were still interested in meeting. An hour later he was at door. Lucky we had orgainsed babysitter for the night. Another time a guy was looking for a meet today and we like him so put out the word that we were availalbe. He came down to us in four types of weather and didn't leave till 1 in the morning as we knew vinalla friends and hubby had gone to same school as him. Funny it made the night go with a laugh. So it does pay to chat and when your boat comes turn up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet and used to meet single guys too but got let down by two of them.

You know what they say "Once bitten,twice shy".

So after the second time we blocked single guys,life's too short to be messed about!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet people on my own, and at socials and clubs!

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

have met loads of lovely people off here at parties/socials/clubs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met lovely people off here too, 1 to 1 meets and parties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a fantastic and wonderful meet on Friday evening............. looking forward to more too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a fantastic and wonderful meet on Friday evening............. looking forward to more too "

I planned for two guys to meet at mine friday, both genuine profiles, both stated they hate time wasters both never turned up and didnt even contact me to say they couldnt make it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keeping Fab to talk to people we have meet but more and more people arnet meeting and letting u just wait... now just go to clubs ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met lots of lovely people of here

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By *elleCouple
over a year ago

south-west corner of outer london

'''it's just you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find guys putting in a little extra effort works for me am not having a 5 min chit chat then i meet i like a bit of a build up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of meets going on from off here all the time but I don't think this site is just about arranging meets. It offers the opportunity to get to know really interesting and diverse people with a common shared interest, gives people information about sex and loads of other subjects and lets people chat and have cybersex.. To me its far more than just for arranging meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... or does nobody meet on here any more?"
Its just you ,,, i think most of the folks in the forums meet plenty of times ,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it one of those 'whose the beauty in the mirror' moments ?

Oi fancy a meet Granny xx "

Cor lummy norrarrrrrrf Craig ! Just don't tell the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a fantastic and wonderful meet on Friday evening............. looking forward to more too

I planned for two guys to meet at mine friday, both genuine profiles, both stated they hate time wasters both never turned up and didnt even contact me to say they couldnt make it "

Did you give them your address ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we meet when we arrange it, its just getting someone else into the same things to turn up, its turning into SH now here.

par example, sat we had a hotel in wakey, nobody mailed, sunday, at home, tonnes of mails - can you meet today?

toooooooo many timewasters.

we went out with mates instead of sat, and pics are in PG, wot a night lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we meet when we arrange it, its just getting someone else into the same things to turn up, its turning into SH now here.

par example, sat we had a hotel in wakey, nobody mailed, sunday, at home, tonnes of mails - can you meet today?

toooooooo many timewasters.

we went out with mates instead of sat, and pics are in PG, wot a night lol"

can you explain sh please is it something to do with poo n pain thx in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I meet all the time and have been very lucky so far as I have never been let down !!!!!.

Just gotta keep going and things will start to look up.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"... or does nobody meet on here any more?"

It's just you

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"... or does nobody meet on here any more?"

We have no complaints

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By *ickedWWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I meet..

I had 3 meets last week, all generated from Fab..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"we meet when we arrange it, its just getting someone else into the same things to turn up, its turning into SH now here.

par example, sat we had a hotel in wakey, nobody mailed, sunday, at home, tonnes of mails - can you meet today?

toooooooo many timewasters.

we went out with mates instead of sat, and pics are in PG, wot a night lolcan you explain sh please is it something to do with poo n pain thx in advance"

think it stands for Swinging Heaven

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"think it stands for Swinging Heaven"

and it also has something to do with poo and pee.

At least in my experience it does - all I get on there are messages from bi guys who want to widdle on me.

Do I look like a Conservative MP or something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet too, we have met quite a few lovely people on here, and still hope that we meet more . were confident we shall meet more. it would be nice if people at least replied briefly to messages though, we do reply to all.

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By *lay69withusCouple
over a year ago

herefordshire

we meet, and there are some great people on here.

plenty of mupets too!!

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By *blahdeeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I meet too But gotta say its much more time consuming as a single bloke! lol Anyone wanna save some time? lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ive actualy asked quite a few to meet me this week.... but got no joy so far, maybe im too fussy... dont think i ask for a hellve a lot lol!! Oh well early days yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met the postman on my way out this morning. does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet! Dont really see the point of being on here otherwise. Lucky enough to find people do meet when they say they will, its just some meets take longer to arrange than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not jsut you we finding the same. most want to see pics......thats why we have tken ours off xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its kinda tricky sometimes , cos not may people want to meet genuine single guys looking for some fun. Timewasters.....there are more here now than ever. Picture collectors and even the cam whores have arrived.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not just you, although we do think you're expecting too much from the site, this is a swinging community, we’d hazard a guess that even the most genuine of people on here now have a good circle of friends they meet, so very rarely look for or meet new people, and when they do they’ll probably visit their regular swinging club or attend socials where they can meet people face to face.

The ones that tend to complain otherwise, are normally the ones who won’t put the same effort in, they expect to sit at there pc with no other effort other than sending messages. Sorry but lets be honest here, if your looking to meet, would you meet the person you met at a social function two weeks earlier that you fancied and got on well with, or would you take the chance with a nice message you recieved from someone.

Read these type of threads often and it seems a lot of people think that to be a genuine swinger you MUST meet people who message you online, shame they don’t see it as a likeminded community and way to help you to meet people rather than an expect to meet people community.

This used to be fun, honest…………

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By *1sexypairCouple
over a year ago

Retford

We meet couples from here..... And have met up with some great couples; also had the no show’s it does get to you at times.

but when you've met with that one friendly couple and it all clicks it does make it worth the effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely meet, but do enjoy the forums and banter lol.

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Its you mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have met loads of lovely people off here at parties/socials/clubs.. "
Yeah you met us ya sexy fecker you

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