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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Advice please, been talking to a couple for a week, they both in their 50s, just offered to swap some pics and come up with a email address that has a name then 1981 in it, people normally use their birth year and that doesn't work out, what do you guys think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why does that make them false. Where does it say everyone uses their birth year for the email addy. mine is nothing to do with my name age or year

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I think if you're worried - don't email!

Ask to speak on the phone if you have a pre pay for fun activities - or request a face to face social!

If they go quiet - you know the score!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its the year they got married or even the year they had their first child together.

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

My number is just a random number it means nothing. 1981 could mean something to them the year they first met, their first child was born etc or like us could mean nothing.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

Ours has 917 in it. We're really not that old, even if you add our ages together

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think you'd be able to tell from the style after a while messages from someone born in 1981 than say 1961

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Advice please, been talking to a couple for a week, they both in their 50s, just offered to swap some pics and come up with a email address that has a name then 1981 in it, people normally use their birth year and that doesn't work out, what do you guys think."
Takes making an assumption to a whole new level!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A massive give away for me is when a couple has a load of photos of them in their house and all the plug sockets are American. Or if in their car, it's a left hand drive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always best to check got flag and tick and speak to woman on phone first x I was naive when first come on ere believing wife existed and were tricked by two couple profiles x I have never been since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a close to them kids birth year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has 2003 in it as that's the year I got my computer and entered the world of the Internet. Perhaps it has some other significant meaning or just the name they wanted was taken so picked the first one on the suggested list. Think you are reading something into nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A massive give away for me is when a couple has a load of photos of them in their house and all the plug sockets are American. Or if in their car, it's a left hand drive. "

Unless they imported it?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

ask them..?

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

mine has 123 in it but its 12.3 and thats inches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My email address has 28 in it because that was the next avaliable number not because I am in my 80's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines totally false ... Don't believe anything on it including the verifications as they are all made up as well !!

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Could be the year they started swinging!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is to not be so paranoid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice please, been talking to a couple for a week, they both in their 50s, just offered to swap some pics and come up with a email address that has a name then 1981 in it, people normally use their birth year and that doesn't work out, what do you guys think."

I think you are being totally overcautious!! my email address has a 1 in it purely because that was the addy generated when the one I wanted wasn't available!! I don't think the issue here is them..i think it's you!! just send a test email and see what comes back but above all...chillax!!! not everyone is a timewaster!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for trust you need communication, its right to be cautious, but just ask them why that date is in their addy,

Many people have a new email for swinging, keeps mail separate, with a different password, for safety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are looking for reasons to not trust and reject them. Stating the reason that a number in an email does not match up to ages on a profile seems a very silly excuse to me.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I'm guessing it would be fairly unusual for a 32 year old to pretend to be in their 50's

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm guessing it would be fairly unusual for a 32 year old to pretend to be in their 50's"

but not unusual at all for the reverse to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Advice please, been talking to a couple for a week, they both in their 50s, just offered to swap some pics and come up with a email address that has a name then 1981 in it, people normally use their birth year and that doesn't work out, what do you guys think."

Wow that makes me around 600 years old.

Don't I look good on it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Advice please, been talking to a couple for a week, they both in their 50s, just offered to swap some pics and come up with a email address that has a name then 1981 in it, people normally use their birth year and that doesn't work out, what do you guys think. Takes making an assumption to a whole new level! "

Oh yeah!

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