FabSwingers.com forum: no meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey,

Not been on here long, but had the same issue last time I was on here, I havent had a meet.

It seems just endless emails that go nowhere...am I doing something wrong? anyone got any advice? I am pretty open minded and here to experiment, explore and have fun.

Thanks for any help in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm sure you won't have any problems attracting the ladies mate. Just be patient. If you're having trouble getting a meet, with abs like yours, then there's no hope for the rest of us! lol

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

You've been on 4 weeks, not a very long amount of time in Fab terms.

Try getting to a local social and/ or club. I know the latter isn't always a viable option, and sometimes can be cost prohibitive.

Also just approach it with the right mentality. Not everyone will fancy you, and it won't be wall to wall meets. Some successful people had to wait 6 months for their first meet. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember the ratio of men to women is very favourable to our female friends. Therefore for every message single message we get mist women get ten. I've actual had more from POF and meetme even met a sexy woman in Tesco of all places. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just remember the ratio of men to women is very favourable to our female friends. Therefore for every message single message we get mist women get ten. I've actual had more from POF and meetme even met a sexy woman in Tesco of all places. Good luck "

Sexy women in Tesco?

Bloody hell, if you're going to make things up at least make it believable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do a forum search on this subject loads of advice available....ou need to work on your profile, it's not just about good pics, need to stand out too. There is a lot of competition

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yea thats a good suggestion, I wil have a look through, I did wonder if I needed to change/add to my profile.

And I may be being too impatient also, Perhaps braving a club will help.

Cheers for the advice guys!

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By *yLongJourneyMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

ive been on here a few months now myself and havent met anyone yet and its not through trying, someone helped me by changing my profile around so it sounded better, but still i have nothing, i must be too ugly, that has to be my only flaw as im a complete gentleman day in and day out

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

OP your young, cannot accom which goes against you.

As other posts have said, you would be better on a Friday night in a club.

Also you ask for face pics, but none of you! x

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

"ive been on here a few months now myself and havent met anyone yet and its not through trying, someone helped me by changing my profile around so it sounded better, but still i have nothing, i must be too ugly, that has to be my only flaw as im a complete gentleman day in and day out"

A smile goes a long way!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just been offered a meet but to far away at 60 miles lol no wonder no meets could of met at club half way !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Little confused, you sent 2 emails both with a couple words in it, I said 2 hours was too far after not really talking. I said it was a shame and then we arranged to meet at a club half way, but you said you were quite busy maybe in a week or two and that you will let me know?

maybe a misunderstanding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of meets like buses. You wait ages for one, then they all come at once!

I can only speak from experience, been on here three years, and its only within this year I started arranging meets.

Just take your time. Get to know each other and take it from there..

Good luck.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

60 miles is local lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"60 miles is local lol"
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Not to some people, local to me means in my home town, Stroud, Cheltenham etc

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

yes but he says he can travel

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

rubbish profile, cock shots, can't accom (ie married), been here 4 weeks.

Can't get a meet huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to agree with op. 60 miles for us is too far for a meet. Would only consider this distance if we were planning an overnight with something to do following day. A 120 mile round trip in one night just for a shag is too much. But just our opinion.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"rubbish profile, cock shots, can't accom (ie married), been here 4 weeks.

Can't get a meet huh?

Personally I'd think 25 and can't accommodate, still living with family, not married.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

"60 miles is local lol"

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Little confused, you sent 2 emails both with a couple words in it, I said 2 hours was too far after not really talking. I said it was a shame and then we arranged to meet at a club half way, but you said you were quite busy maybe in a week or two and that you will let me know?

maybe a misunderstanding? "

Nice to see you resond so eloquently to their post which I felt was uneccessary in an attempt to make you look bad

It can take time,just have patience,keep a sense of humour,and remember you're not obliged to accept any offer that does'nt feel right for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey,

Not been on here long, but had the same issue last time I was on here, I havent had a meet.

It seems just endless emails that go nowhere...am I doing something wrong? anyone got any advice? I am pretty open minded and here to experiment, explore and have fun.

Thanks for any help in advance"

demand a refund then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi unfortunately there definately 2 things against you - you cannot accomodate and your age. You are too young for a lot of women (single and couples) who are active on here. This will restrict your chances. Also the lack of a face pic does not help. You need to put more on your profile. Also you are expecting too much too quick. It took me 2 months before my first meet. I have not looked back since. The club route is a good way to meet and build up a network of swinging friends. It also means you are going to have to travel. Good luck.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

There are other posts you can research through the Forum pages on this, but in short, here are some simple suggestions.

This isn't an "Instant Fix" site; if you thought it might be, jog on....

You are up against so many other guys, so you have to stand out, effectively, you have to "sell" yourself!

Your profile is minimal; it needs more to say, about yourself and what you seek. You really need to get a face pic on it, but ditch the cock shot until you are asked for one!

You can't accommodate but don't say why; some people will wonder why and jump to incorrect conclusions, so be honest and say why you can't.

Get onto the Forums, get to socials and if possible clubs. Get yourself noticed! You'll only get out of what you put in, in terms of effort.

It takes perseverance, patience and even more patience to succeed. Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the response guys, really appreciate all the advice, and a lot makes sense! so thanks!

I have taken a lot on board, (removed the cock shot) and will work on my profile.

I agree, the accommodation is a factor, but I am not married, I was out of the country until mid July and looks like I will be out of the country again come January so currently living with my brother and his girl friend.

I also very happy to travel, just for a long distance prefer it to be based from more than one line emails.

Haha, no refund required, just asking for advice as I am new to this.

Cheers again guys! much appreciated!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I agree asking for an email with a face pic attached is off putting, especially without showing a face. I am very careful who I send face pics to, I want to talk first and check them out. But I for one DO want to see cock pics, if not upfront then defo in private gallery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is a scene not just a website. The guys that do well get themselves known at clubs and socials.

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By *ike74Man
over a year ago

newport

"rubbish profile, cock shots, can't accom (ie married), been here 4 weeks.

Can't get a meet huh?

Not all single guys are married just cos they can't acc PLEASE sadly i house share and show respect to the other users of the house and this is the rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging is a scene not just a website. The guys that do well get themselves known at clubs and socials. "

Couldn't have put it better myself some of our best meets are with people who are not in any website

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

ok my advise is quite sort after in fab circles, so i will say what i say to most, who seem to be struggling.

The old fancy a fuck message never fails, add a cock pic and you will be good to go!!, if they wanna see your face pic, and to be honest the genuine ones won't just block and move on hope this helps its a simple formular but its bomb proof never fails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awwww, we have been on here for 6 weeks and have had loads..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"awwww, we have been on here for 6 weeks and have had loads.. "

Rub it in why don't you lol

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Just join pof or go out on a sat night you will have far better chances of meeting than on here.

The ratio is so huge on here between men and women.

Don't give up by any means though.

Good luck.

And to the person that tried to make the OP look bad by offering a meet but you are 60 miles away.

I'm sorry but that's not local... a 3-4 hour round trip for a meet?

It would need to be really amazing to make it worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just join pof or go out on a sat night you will have far better chances of meeting than on here.

The ratio is so huge on here between men and women.

Don't give up by any means though.

Good luck.

And to the person that tried to make the OP look bad by offering a meet but you are 60 miles away.

I'm sorry but that's not local... a 3-4 hour round trip for a meet?

It would need to be really amazing to make it worth it."

And loads of snacks

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Just join pof or go out on a sat night you will have far better chances of meeting than on here.

The ratio is so huge on here between men and women.

Don't give up by any means though.

Good luck.

And to the person that tried to make the OP look bad by offering a meet but you are 60 miles away.

I'm sorry but that's not local... a 3-4 hour round trip for a meet?

It would need to be really amazing to make it worth it.

And loads of snacks

Ha ha indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just join pof or go out on a sat night you will have far better chances of meeting than on here.

The ratio is so huge on here between men and women.

Don't give up by any means though.

Good luck.

And to the person that tried to make the OP look bad by offering a meet but you are 60 miles away.

I'm sorry but that's not local... a 3-4 hour round trip for a meet?

It would need to be really amazing to make it worth it."

Some of us are

I have just met a lovely guy who travelled two and a half hours (140 odd miles) to meet me. He is now happily verified

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

Not a great profile it says nothing about you or what you can offer another. As a single guy you need to put in the effort . This site isn't insta shag. Face facts you are one of very meny so make your profile stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a great profile it says nothing about you or what you can offer another. As a single guy you need to put in the effort . This site isn't insta shag. Face facts you are one of very meny so make your profile stand out."

Can someone direct me to the insta shag site please..... thanks very much

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Not all single guys are married just cos they can't acc PLEASE sadly i house share and show respect to the other users of the house and this is the rule.

But most are and as there are so many single guys it's a useful indicator and a way to thin out the numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yawnnnn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put more effort in to your profile. Be willing to travel more than spitting distance from your own doorstep.

Some will be put off by the fact you can't accommodate.

Also don't just message for a sexual encounter. Try meeting them for a coffee or something first.

You can also keep your eye out on the meet today list. Ironicaly not the easiest way to get a meet but you can sometimes strike gold there. Just make sure you follow through when you agree to a meet. Don't agree to a meet at midday and then have a wank and find you can't be arsed later on :S

Sounds obvious but it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think .if couples and lady's put the true age of men they want to see . And not just 18 to 99 everyone would know where they stand .

Also it seams to me if your over 55 .you might as well forget it even if you are prepared to pay for a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number and being specific is just another barrier, I only have 3 rules for meets, no poppers, no bareback and although I have a playroom and empty house, if requested to travel, I have a limit of 5 miles.

People at a distance seem more attractive, because they are unobtainable so no effort is required,

( the grass looks greener )

I also limit myself to one meet a week,

because it takes time to prepare,

the OP has a fantastic body, but since joining fab, I realise it takes much more than a great body to get meets.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Move to Scotland....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey,

Not been on here long, but had the same issue last time I was on here, I havent had a meet.

It seems just endless emails that go nowhere...am I doing something wrong? anyone got any advice? I am pretty open minded and here to experiment, explore and have fun.

Thanks for any help in advance"

Try going to clubs, far more likely to have fun at club than will on here. Men outweigh females and couples at ratios of hundreds to one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

move to the South West after moving to Scotland...

we would meet you in a club....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey,

Not been on here long, but had the same issue last time I was on here, I havent had a meet.

It seems just endless emails that go nowhere...am I doing something wrong? anyone got any advice? I am pretty open minded and here to experiment, explore and have fun.

Thanks for any help in advance"

Get a few more pics up - dressed to impress, showing some more personality.

You are in pretty good shape, and bound to get offers if you get a good name for yourself.

However,

Too many people put too much emphasis into messaging to get meets.

Reality check - not that many will respond positively.

Get out from behind a pc screen (or whatever you use), get along to a club, social, private party etc to meet people and network!

Stand out from the crowd - get seen, be seen, meet others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe you get no meets

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Age is just a number and being specific is just another barrier, I only have 3 rules for meets, no poppers, no bareback and although I have a playroom and empty house, if requested to travel, I have a limit of 5 miles."

I'm curious. Why no poppers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profile is shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you had same issue as before perhaps fab aint for you if it bugs you so much. Not a criticism just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curious. Why no poppers?"

Why curious about no poppers only numpties use them in my view and surely the preference of the lady is personal.

My question is why want poppers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curious. Why no poppers?"

back in the early 80's poppers were all the rage , for dancing,and sex, when AIDS became prevalent in the gay community, it was found poppers affect the immune system, and left you open to all kinds of virus, from common cold to HIV, so people in the know, ie gay community, cut back and mostly stopped using amyl nitrate ( poppers) for the high it gave them for a few minutes.

People with a weakened immune system can carry virus, although don't show the symptoms, ( in some cases) so I would avoid anyone who used poppers. Just for my own protection, also poppers affect the heart and brain, so would be very unwise to use if you had any circulation or heart problems, you can just search on google for facts and info.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

"Hey,

Not been on here long, but had the same issue last time I was on here, I havent had a meet.

It seems just endless emails that go nowhere...am I doing something wrong? anyone got any advice? I am pretty open minded and here to experiment, explore and have fun.

Thanks for any help in advance"

Could be worse. At least you're not receiving abuse about your figure or looks like I do. Apparently I'm not fit to be on here.

Jackie.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

"Thanks for the response guys, really appreciate all the advice, and a lot makes sense! so thanks!

I have taken a lot on board, (removed the cock shot) and will work on my profile.

I also very happy to travel, just for a long distance prefer it to be based from more than one line emails.

Haha, no refund required, just asking for advice as I am new to this.

Cheers again guys! much appreciated!

Cut and paste this to your profile

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm curious. Why no poppers?

Oh right... Thanks for replying, more knowledge gained from the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"profile is shite"

Gold star for the most constructive of criticism ever placed in a post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"profile is shite

Gold star for the most constructive of criticism ever placed in a post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honey you have a great body, but your profile says nothing about you. Add to it, and be patient, but for some you are young. I have no doubt you are a genuine nice guy but some single fems wil worry about your age.

Swinging parties or clubs would be a good place to start as people are less likely to enquire about your age there. Happy swinging . x

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By *incs-cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Lets face it Dan, it takes more than just a fit body to win a woman's heart, so drop us a line & bring a box of choccies

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

From my experience most women delete messages without reading them, let alone actually look at your profile. I have face photos, I am verified by other users, my photos are verified, I can accommodate/travel/pay for hotels. Makes very little difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From my experience most women delete messages without reading them, let alone actually look at your profile. I have face photos, I am verified by other users, my photos are verified, I can accommodate/travel/pay for hotels. Makes very little difference. "

Put that on profile then, and it might.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if the messages are unsolicited then there is every chance of them just being deleted.

maybe message those that advertise meets

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Will try. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey,Not been on here long, but had the same issue last time I was on here, I havent had a meet.

It seems just endless emails that go nowhere...am I doing something wrong? anyone got any advice? I am pretty open minded and here to experiment, explore and have fun.

Thanks for any help in advance"

OP, with respect mate, you've fallen into the classic younger guys trap of 'I'm young, good looking, well-fit and hung: Why doesn't everyone fall at my feet?'. There is a LOT more to getting meets than relying on that.

I would suggest two things: first, you need to post in Support and Advice asking for everyone to give you a profile critique AND TAKE ON BOARD what people say about it! Secondly, you need to get to clubs either for socials or meet people.

I keep saying this (and I know it sounds a bit patronising but it's true..) what are you? Are you 25 going on 30? Or, are you 25 going on 15..??? The fact is that the average age of swingers is probably around 40 yrs. Having been there (a long time ago now... sadly) there is a considerable maturity gap between your age and the average. So, the question in their minds will be 'Are you a young 25 or a mature 25?' and it is nigh-on impossible to get that over in a profile on here, BUT it is very easy to do in person - hence, go to clubs/socials.

ted.

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Hey,

Not been on here long, but had the same issue last time I was on here, I havent had a meet.

It seems just endless emails that go nowhere...am I doing something wrong? anyone got any advice? I am pretty open minded and here to experiment, explore and have fun.

Thanks for any help in advance"

Too much competition on here as its a free site . Join a paid site and you will be much more successful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey,

Not been on here long, but had the same issue last time I was on here, I havent had a meet.

It seems just endless emails that go nowhere...am I doing something wrong? anyone got any advice? I am pretty open minded and here to experiment, explore and have fun.

Thanks for any help in advance

Too much competition on here as its a free site . Join a paid site and you will be much more successful "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey,

Not been on here long, but had the same issue last time I was on here, I havent had a meet.

It seems just endless emails that go nowhere...am I doing something wrong? anyone got any advice? I am pretty open minded and here to experiment, explore and have fun.

Thanks for any help in advance

Too much competition on here as its a free site . Join a paid site and you will be much more successful "

The competition Is the same on every site. We will give the same advice we always give. Take a look at the profiles of successful single guys then compare it to your own. Also take the time to attended socials and club nights so others get to know/see the real you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet us in a club and get your cock out....

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By *otwifeguyMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Hey,

Not been on here long, but had the same issue last time I was on here, I havent had a meet.

It seems just endless emails that go nowhere...am I doing something wrong? anyone got any advice? I am pretty open minded and here to experiment, explore and have fun.

Thanks for any help in advance

Too much competition on here as its a free site . Join a paid site and you will be much more successful

it's absolutely not the same . Different sites have different male to female ratios

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe sort a mini social to some people in your area to come chat ect you will get some verifications and maybe make some nice friends too if not go to the socials that are sorted by people on fab alla starting point xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey,

Not been on here long, but had the same issue last time I was on here, I havent had a meet.

It seems just endless emails that go nowhere...am I doing something wrong? anyone got any advice? I am pretty open minded and here to experiment, explore and have fun.

Thanks for any help in advance

Too much competition on here as its a free site . Join a paid site and you will be much more successful

it's absolutely not the same . Different sites have different male to female ratios "

If you are talking about sites which come under the sex genre, then there remains a high male to female ratio. Which is why many of these sites do not charge women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey,

Not been on here long, but had the same issue last time I was on here, I havent had a meet.

It seems just endless emails that go nowhere...am I doing something wrong? anyone got any advice? I am pretty open minded and here to experiment, explore and have fun.

Thanks for any help in advance

Too much competition on here as its a free site . Join a paid site and you will be much more successful

it's absolutely not the same . Different sites have different male to female ratios

If you are talking about sites which come under the sex genre, then there remains a high male to female ratio. Which is why many of these sites do not charge women. "

Yep and half the females will have a dangly bit too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey,

Not been on here long, but had the same issue last time I was on here, I havent had a meet.

It seems just endless emails that go nowhere...am I doing something wrong? anyone got any advice? I am pretty open minded and here to experiment, explore and have fun.

Thanks for any help in advance

Too much competition on here as its a free site . Join a paid site and you will be much more successful

it's absolutely not the same . Different sites have different male to female ratios

If you are talking about sites which come under the sex genre, then there remains a high male to female ratio. Which is why many of these sites do not charge women.

Yep and half the females will have a dangly bit too "

I experienced a site which did not charge females unless they wanted to chat to other females (due to men posing as females). On this site the females consisted of real females, men posing as females, admin with fake accounts posing as females, escorts (who probably were females

) and scammers. Still the ratio was not an even one.

I even had a "newbie" female message me to ask me to show her the ropes. Strange how a new female would pay a subscription when she could have learned the ropes free

. I would have told her where her and her admin profile could go... but being a non-subscriber I could not respond.

My ex told me that when his subscription run out, he had a huge deal of messages from gorgeous women wanting to meet him him. When he re-subscribed, they all disappeared.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

That wouldn't be a certain ALTernate site would it?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

A certain free website (which was guaranteed to stay a free site) we were on turned into a paysite and overnight the number of members went from about 60,000 to over 1,000,000. The owner must have made a fortune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey,

Not been on here long, but had the same issue last time I was on here, I havent had a meet.

It seems just endless emails that go nowhere...am I doing something wrong? anyone got any advice? I am pretty open minded and here to experiment, explore and have fun.

Thanks for any help in advance

Too much competition on here as its a free site . Join a paid site and you will be much more successful "

I am fairly new, been on here a couple of months, have have two meets and have arranged 5 coffee meets for next week, so if any one is free wednesday morning, let me know, Im free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's if you believe those numbers, I would be very sceptical about it tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That wouldn't be a certain ALTernate site would it?"

No.

Play Naughty and I do not recommend it.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

100% guarantee of success in here?

Get a pussy!

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