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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi was looking for a bit of advice, when you are organising a meet do you think it falls on the woman to have the protection or the man to sort this out?

This may sound like a really naive question but I was just curious about everyone's thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Take your own, in case he 'forgets' his

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

I always take my own. If, however, a guy turns up to a meet without it, it would lead me to assume that he is not thst concerned about his own sexual health at which point the meet would end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both. Take your own, in case he 'forgets' his "

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

Always have my own! The amount of men who say "ooops I forgot"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely the guy but if un sure take some too as a couple she reminds me but iv already thought about it in pocket just in case xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi was looking for a bit of advice, when you are organising a meet do you think it falls on the woman to have the protection or the man to sort this out?

This may sound like a really naive question but I was just curious about everyone's thoughts?"
if I've got a meet, I take my own condoms but have found that the guy has his own. Take your own as what do you do if your meet doesn't have them and you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both. Take your own, in case he 'forgets' his "

Ultimately the person responsible for your own safety is you!!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Ideally, both parties should come prepared. However, as has been mentioned, some people develop condom/ femidom amnesia every so often. So at least if you are prepared, there's little to no excuse for unprotected play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like using others condoms... I know I've not tampered with mine... Mine are always latex free..

However I would expect a guy to bring some..

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I've had so many men turn up without that I always take my own.

Friends laugh at the wide collection I have, which includes latex free, large, small, vegetarian suitable and glow in the dark.

I've only had one guy claim he was veggie so couldn't use condoms. Which I suppose would have been viable, if we hadn't scoffed down a steak sandwich in the pub where we met.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Come to think of it, i probably should start carrying a latex and non latex one. I never actually realised how many people were allergic to latex until i got started on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi was looking for a bit of advice, when you are organising a meet do you think it falls on the woman to have the protection or the man to sort this out?

This may sound like a really naive question but I was just curious about everyone's thoughts?"

I always have an axe available for protection just in case the couples are ...looneys

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I always take my own. Although saying that, I did genuinely forget once! Luckily I had met them before though and they had plenty. I felt like a right numpty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi was looking for a bit of advice, when you are organising a meet do you think it falls on the woman to have the protection or the man to sort this out?

This may sound like a really naive question but I was just curious about everyone's thoughts?

I always have an axe available for protection just in case the couples are ...looneys "

Lol

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By *avindaWoman
over a year ago

North Wales


"Come to think of it, i probably should start carrying a latex and non latex one. I never actually realised how many people were allergic to latex until i got started on Fab."

Not allergic to latex but prefer them especially Skyns so always have mine with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condoms, always the mans responsibility

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I looked at my skyns condoms, the other week, when I had arranged to meet....and bloody hell, they expire this month!

Just goes to show, I need to get out more,

Or did my other meets just take their own? I've no idea, but I have 10 free to a good home if you can use them in the next few days

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Come to think of it, i probably should start carrying a latex and non latex one. I never actually realised how many people were allergic to latex until i got started on Fab.

Not allergic to latex but prefer them especially Skyns so always have mine with me. "

I haven't used a non latex one in years. I normally buy Durex or Trojan ones.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Both. Take your own, in case he 'forgets' his "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have a supply of condoms in different brands and different sizes...I'm not relying on someone else to look after my sexual health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always got loads,id never leave the responsibility to anyone else,plus I have to use latex free and not everyone has those

Ive only ever had one guy turn up without them and that was when we very first started swinging ..... I made him walk to a garage and get some

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak


"I've had so many men turn up without that I always take my own.

Friends laugh at the wide collection I have, which includes latex free, large, small, vegetarian suitable and glow in the dark.

I've only had one guy claim he was veggie so couldn't use condoms. Which I suppose would have been viable, if we hadn't scoffed down a steak sandwich in the pub where we met. "

wow that's one I haven't heard before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry my own and have anyone I've met, my reg playmate has a shag bag some nice surprises in there lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meant and so has anyone I've met lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi was looking for a bit of advice, when you are organising a meet do you think it falls on the woman to have the protection or the man to sort this out?

This may sound like a really naive question but I was just curious about everyone's thoughts?"

Personally never leave home without my trusty baseball bat, ya never know just what you might be letting yourself in for

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

You trust someone else to provide for 'your' protection?.......

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Both parties should have their own

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I carry my own since the spermicide on some causes severe irritation, ulcers and bleeding to me.

I make sure I have latex, latex free and (I'm an optimist) large.

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

Best to take some, specialy if you have certain needs. Some brands are bad for me, feels like they strangling the base of my cock.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Always have my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have my own protection thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry my own. Wouldn't expect someone else to supply them, and wouldn't expect sex without them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Come to think of it, i probably should start carrying a latex and non latex one. I never actually realised how many people were allergic to latex until i got started on Fab."

We always have some in our "man bag" as many forget but reading yours think we should add in latex free.. gr8 tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always carry our own. Call us paranoid but we know ours are in date and safe lol

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Always take my own.. even to clubs as the rooms don't always get restocked quick enough.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Everyone should carry their own (we always do) but whenever we go clubbing men usually expect R to provide condoms from her 'shag bag.' Maybe some think if they don't carry them then women will bareback?

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"Everyone should carry their own (we always do) but whenever we go clubbing men usually expect R to provide condoms from her 'shag bag.' Maybe some think if they don't carry them then women will bareback?"

Mugs.... No glove, no love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always bring my own, the none latex ones are the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always have a selection in our swing kit...we don't put the responsibility for our own sexual health into the hands of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely should be the male's responsibility since there are different cocks out there. That is until a wonderful manufacture designs one that magically shrinks to a mini or grows to XXXX size.

I do carry a few though, just in case. If a man is not dressed for the act, the curtain comes down.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Both! If I'm meeting alone would never go without them, as others have said I won't tolerate 'oh I thought I had some but the box is empty...'

If we are playing together I'd definitely have some in my bag, he likes certain types that fit wider and therefore better.

I'd expect everyone to be carrying them, would make us less likely to play if I felt people didn't protect themselves and show respect.

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had so many men turn up without that I always take my own.

Friends laugh at the wide collection I have, which includes latex free, large, small, vegetarian suitable and glow in the dark.

I've only had one guy claim he was veggie so couldn't use condoms. Which I suppose would have been viable, if we hadn't scoffed down a steak sandwich in the pub where we met. "

Ok I've gotta ask-what has being vegetarian got to do with not using condoms?? Are animal products used in their manufact? I've genuinely not come across this before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always have my own! The amount of men who say "ooops I forgot"

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Yes and you get them free at the gum clinic.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Come to think of it, i probably should start carrying a latex and non latex one. I never actually realised how many people were allergic to latex until i got started on Fab.

We always have some in our "man bag" as many forget but reading yours think we should add in latex free.. gr8 tip "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have my own, but also expect a man to have his own too . I have been known to stop playing if it turns out he hasnt got any. Even though I have some, I see it that he doesnt give enough thought to his sexual health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who is responsible for your health and safety at work?

solely your company or both of you?

at best swinging is a transaction, of sorts, trading bodily activities rather than monetary gain.

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

We take our own had meets where guys dont have any . Now we only use our own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always take mine as I can only use latex free ones and cause they are more expensive men are reluctant to buy them, i've had a few meets where guys have turned up with normal condoms when i've told them I cant use them cause they was cheaper

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I always take them and actually have one stuffed in pretty much every bag I own just in case the unexpected happens which it has in the past

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

remember the two paper bags one to wear and one incase the other falls off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take my own extra small you know

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By *iosMan
over a year ago

Stafford


"Hi was looking for a bit of advice, when you are organising a meet do you think it falls on the woman to have the protection or the man to sort this out?

This may sound like a really naive question but I was just curious about everyone's thoughts?

Personally never leave home without my trusty baseball bat, ya never know just what you might be letting yourself in for

"

Dont forget the pepper spray

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