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By *nverman67 OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Hi folks. Hopefully some reasonable advice given. My other half would like to try anal with me. We have used lots and lots of lube, taken our time, never any pressure but she still can't take me. She recently mentioned trying a butt plug but not sure if she should try one then keep it in for a while (whilst out having a drink before heading home).

Does anyone have any advice which ones could be most beneficial? Or even any other suggestions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi folks. Hopefully some reasonable advice given. My other half would like to try anal with me. We have used lots and lots of lube, taken our time, never any pressure but she still can't take me. She recently mentioned trying a butt plug but not sure if she should try one then keep it in for a while (whilst out having a drink before heading home). I would suggest using one, use it in the bedroom & try to keep relaxed. Some you can get will actually vibrate so added pleasure. Sometimes it can be down to the angle of penetation. The 1st time I tried it, I actually went on top and lowered myself onto him. That way I could relax more as I was in control & he just kept still until I was cmfortable. xx

Does anyone have any advice which ones could be most beneficial? Or even any other suggestions."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice imput

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest you start with a small flexible latex butt plug and gradually work up from there to something resembling your own endowment.

Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought, have you tried a finger first?

Once she has relaxed you can work up from there

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Other half on a single profile?

Start slow, lots of lube, finger, 2 finger etc and gently stretch. If she has a narrow vibe or a favourite toy, try that as well, gently and slowly, and let her control the thrust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Push a couple of golf balls up lol not ya good ones though lol

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

She needs to push out, while U penitrate, legs together might help too.

Just play with her holes for awhile with toys n stuff, get her bum happy, if its really happy she will gape and be easy to fuck. Don't make a big deal out of it

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire


"Hi folks. Hopefully some reasonable advice given. My other half would like to try anal with me. We have used lots and lots of lube, taken our time, never any pressure but she still can't take me. She recently mentioned trying a butt plug but not sure if she should try one then keep it in for a while (whilst out having a drink before heading home).

Does anyone have any advice which ones could be most beneficial? Or even any other suggestions."

Tell her not to stick it up her bum when she's in the bar.

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

Try a frozen cucumber with plenty of lube ..........:...if this don't work...........push a tad harder

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

And be careful and don't buy the Anne summers butt plug that can get sucked up in side you when you orgasm. That tale still makes me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find butt plugs make me feel full so want to poo , opps sorry for sharing that xx

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By *orayBcupsCouple
over a year ago

Forres


"Push a couple of golf balls up lol not ya good ones though lol "

Yeah, Definately not ProV1's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And be careful and don't buy the Anne summers butt plug that can get sucked up in side you when you orgasm. That tale still makes me chuckle "

Me too sooo funny, strangely was talking to her today about it too or rather we were as usual still falling about laughing about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i find butt plugs make me feel full so want to poo , opps sorry for sharing that xx

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It's triggering defecation and hence helps with the clean out process. All good stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i find butt plugs make me feel full so want to poo , opps sorry for sharing that xx

It's triggering defecation and hence helps with the clean out process. All good stuff "

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"And be careful and don't buy the Anne summers butt plug that can get sucked up in side you when you orgasm. That tale still makes me chuckle

Me too sooo funny, strangely was talking to her today about it too or rather we were as usual still falling about laughing about it "

Yeah I felt for her but its funny as - wish I could find it again as I could do with a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try taking a good run up and surprise her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And be careful and don't buy the Anne summers butt plug that can get sucked up in side you when you orgasm. That tale still makes me chuckle

Me too sooo funny, strangely was talking to her today about it too or rather we were as usual still falling about laughing about it

Yeah I felt for her but its funny as - wish I could find it again as I could do with a laugh "

Its ok she really does see the funny side of it and as I said we were having a good laugh about it yesterday, I think if you search forums about butt plugs it should come up in a list, but trust me its only a fraction of full hilarious story, and I don't know if you saw the out come she got vouchers from Anne summers and erm a promise to modify the design

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By *ophia SteelTV/TS
over a year ago

eccles

Start with a small one and plenty of lube. Loosen up with the tip of a finger first and relax. If she is tence it will be difficult or even painful.

A small one can be kept in for a while without anyone else knowing its there.

Most of all have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always start with a well lubed finger round and round, more finger inside, round and round then inside, keep doing it till the finger goes in easily, then try with two fingers, plenty of lube, and wet wipes

Tell her to relax and it's not a problem if she is too relaxed, hence the wet wipes...

Once 2 fingers are in maybe a vibrator, when the vibrator is able to move around easy, move yourself so you can take the vibrator out and your cock in. but don't move your cock much till she is relaxed... but still take your time...

all this could take 30 plus mins, and maybe a few times before she knows how to relax to take your cock....

Want me to come round and help?

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By *orayBcupsCouple
over a year ago

Forres

Brilliant. Definitely not ProV1's

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