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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi folks

I'm newish to the site I've had one meet one verification I joined hoping to meet couples but having no joy just wondering what I'm doing wrong

Any advice

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Writing more than a one line profile might be a good start!

You're forum post has more words!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fairone

Thanks this is why I'm asking so I can make adjustments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples are a myth, don't bother!!

3,2,1..................

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Have a sex change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is 11 words long. Your pictures are poorly taken. I suspect that your lack of results reflects your total lack of effort...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Couples are a myth, don't bother!!

3,2,1.................. "

Its true we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been on site for 6 weeks, so you going to have to have patience! As its already been said your profile doesn't give much away....

What were your expectations when you joined the site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not sure about expectations just wanna have a chance of meeting some new people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have made a few changes now

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hi folks

I'm newish to the site I've had one meet one verification I joined hoping to meet couples but having no joy just wondering what I'm doing wrong

Any advice

Thanks"

i think a meet within your first 6 weeks is good going.... some people wait MONTHS to get meets...

i would temper your expectations....patience!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can be patient just wondered if I needed to change anything

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I can be patient just wondered if I needed to change anything"
Your pic to the right way round?lol....whilst having a well written profile is great, its not a pre requisite, some people have only four words on their and they get plenty of meets!!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I can be patient just wondered if I needed to change anything"

well if you listen to everyone it will become a generic mess... as the profile isn't you.. it is what you think people want to hear but actually says nothing

the only thing you need to ask yourself is this...

does it show you to your best ability?

if the answer is yes, keep it...

if the answer is no, change it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have made a few changes now"

It is still says nothing though. Have a look at some of the well verified profiles on here and see the difference.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I can be patient just wondered if I needed to change anything

well if you listen to everyone it will become a generic mess... as the profile isn't you.. it is what you think people want to hear but actually says nothing

the only thing you need to ask yourself is this...

does it show you to your best ability?

if the answer is yes, keep it...

if the answer is no, change it!"

Why I no longer offer profile advice, as they become generic, which in a way is good. If someone lacks the wherewithal and imagination to sell themselves, they'll be of fuck all use to me, so...next!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go to clubs. converse with people in person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

welcome:

good luck & sell what you bring to meets and that may help

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I can be patient just wondered if I needed to change anything

well if you listen to everyone it will become a generic mess... as the profile isn't you.. it is what you think people want to hear but actually says nothing

the only thing you need to ask yourself is this...

does it show you to your best ability?

if the answer is yes, keep it...

if the answer is no, change it!

Why I no longer offer profile advice, as they become generic, which in a way is good. If someone lacks the wherewithal and imagination to sell themselves, they'll be of fuck all use to me, so...next! "

I'm with you on that one, also I have stopped because the majority just ignore it all anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Done it again my way kept it simple I'm happy with it maybe need more pics but hey ho hopefully it will enough

Thanks all

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By *yLongJourneyMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

yep, mines in depth but still havent met anybody on here or heard from anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't get people to meet here then time to change the style ..adapt .Not the end of the world my man.Too many high expectations here sometimes 90% wont even cut it in the outside world.So adapt or hit costas I'm 100% sure you will meet !

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

You still need more on your profile. It is too generic.

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