FabSwingers.com forum: approach the Mrs to try swinging

By *ubik cube OP Man
over a year ago

Near Liverpool

Could anyone advise me of how to try and get the Mrs into this scene. She yet doesn't know anything about this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could anyone advise me of how to try and get the Mrs into this scene. She yet doesn't know anything about this. "

Have you tried approaching the subject with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever even discussed the possibility? Even just as a fantasy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could anyone advise me of how to try and get the Mrs into this scene. She yet doesn't know anything about this. "

Show her your profile on here and see how she reacts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could anyone advise me of how to try and get the Mrs into this scene. She yet doesn't know anything about this.

Show her your profile on here and see how she reacts "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got into this using fantasy chat. Ask her how she would feel about being chatted up in a pub after a few drinks and being merry and if she would like to invite a guy back to join you. Start off with discussing mild naughty chat inuendoes getting more suggestive each time you discuss. If its a point blank no forget it. If theres any interest build on it. Dont frighten her with a gang bang or such straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on her personality.. Is she very sexual? Have you watched porn together (that's a good time to bring it up)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you like me to phone and talk to her??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you like me to phone and talk to her??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me laugh when you mention respect clearly no respect for the wife by sounds of it.

Would have thought raise it with her before deciding to spread wings on swinging site but hey call me old fashioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me laugh when you mention respect clearly no respect for the wife by sounds of it.

Would have thought raise it with her before deciding to spread wings on swinging site but hey call me old fashioned."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me laugh when you mention respect clearly no respect for the wife by sounds of it.

Would have thought raise it with her before deciding to spread wings on swinging site but hey call me old fashioned."

By the way I'm an ex medal winning gymnast and my thighs are fine

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By *ubik cube OP Man
over a year ago

Near Liverpool

"Makes me laugh when you mention respect clearly no respect for the wife by sounds of it.

Would have thought raise it with her before deciding to spread wings on swinging site but hey call me old fashioned."

I'm not married or engaged she's just a girlfriend

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By *ubik cube OP Man
over a year ago

Near Liverpool

"Makes me laugh when you mention respect clearly no respect for the wife by sounds of it.

Would have thought raise it with her before deciding to spread wings on swinging site but hey call me old fashioned."

I'm not married or engaged she's just a girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could anyone advise me of how to try and get the Mrs into this scene. She yet doesn't know anything about this.

Show her your profile on here and see how she reacts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh so just a Girlfriend ooh that's ok to cheat on then ...pppftt ffs!! ... or did you get with her after being on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh so just a Girlfriend ooh that's ok to cheat on then ...pppftt ffs!! ... or did you get with her after being on here?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She might have a profile on here.... How would that make you feel?

Good luck - you might need it if she stumbles across your profile ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on the o p says st beginning how do i approach the mrs then later says she just a girlfriend make your mind up fella.

Either way u mentioned respect in profile you show clear lack of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hang on the o p says st beginning how do i approach the mrs then later says she just a girlfriend make your mind up fella.

Either way u mentioned respect in profile you show clear lack of it."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hang on the o p says st beginning how do i approach the mrs then later says she just a girlfriend make your mind up fella.

Either way u mentioned respect in profile you show clear lack of it.

Exactly "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....waits for the No longer on the site...after she has caught you cheating

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By *ustpartyCouple
over a year ago

Blackwater

The conversation starts .... "I was reading in this magazine about swinging...Didn't know they still did that lol."

If she says that is disgusting, just agree. If she is intrigued then sit together on the internet and investigate together as if you nothing about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she has never mentioned it, then she is not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ustpartyCouple
over a year ago

Blackwater

"If she has never mentioned it, then she is not interested."

Not necessarily. People will not mention it as they suspect their partner will think they are looking for an affair or not happy with their relationship.

Swinging within a couple is about communication. The trick is to open up those lines of communication in the right way. "I fancy swinging" is probably going to get a bad response.

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Just ask her if she has any fantasies and if she says yes ask her if she would like to act any of them out, if she says no then theres your answer.

Thats how I approached it with my wife, but then again I did know her and how to approach it.

You cannot force her to do it and if she is only doing it to please you then that does not work as couples will suss that out pretty quick as well. there is not right or wrong way to ask her really BUT there is a right or wrong answer and you must go with it and do not force her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Just' a girlfriend..... Jeez I'm sure she feels very special!

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It you do get your gf into swinging and make a couple profile up...you mite want a back up plan....Say you in a chatroom as a couple and a member says wow nice to see you again and you are a couple now ...how can you explain that to her...2 things i can see here..No1 dump your gf and carry on swinging or 2..leave fab and settle down with your gf if you love her that much you got a lot to loose

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By *antoplay1976Couple
over a year ago

Chico

"Could anyone advise me of how to try and get the Mrs into this scene. She yet doesn't know anything about this.

Show her your profile on here and see how she reacts "

Not a good plan. Sorry if I was not into this and Hubby was on here secretively I would be pissed. Ask her about her fantasy tell her about yours. Make sure to do it after you have fucked her properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the first rule of Fab Club?? Never talk about partners who don't know you're a member of Fab Club

What's the second rule of Fab Club? NEVER TALK ABOUT.....!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me laugh when you mention respect clearly no respect for the wife by sounds of it.

Would have thought raise it with her before deciding to spread wings on swinging site but hey call me old fashioned.

I'm not married or engaged she's just a girlfriend"

OH! so cheating is only wrong when you're married/ engaged?? Jeez, I wish someone had told me that before.

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

"Could anyone advise me of how to try and get the Mrs into this scene. She yet doesn't know anything about this.

Show her your profile on here and see how she reacts "

Lol.

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

"Makes me laugh when you mention respect clearly no respect for the wife by sounds of it.

Would have thought raise it with her before deciding to spread wings on swinging site but hey call me old fashioned.

I'm not married or engaged she's just a girlfriend"

The title of your thread is "approach the Mrs to try swinging"?

Even if she is JUST a girlfriend what you are doing is still very wrong.

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn

"If she has never mentioned it, then she is not interested."

????

She might be interested but not sure if she should raise the subject. She may have worries like "He may think I am a slut, he may leave me, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could anyone advise me of how to try and get the Mrs into this scene. She yet doesn't know anything about this. "

So how is it your on here without her ....lol....Is somebody cheating on the Mrs .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh look what youve all done... scared him away from his own thread...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

explore fantasies with her and she if she fancies other partners

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Agree with the above!

Depends on how sexual she is, really. We were watching a porn video filmed in La Chambre when he asked her if she'd like to try it and she said yes. But that wouldn't work if your wife doesn't like porn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me laugh when you mention respect clearly no respect for the wife by sounds of it.

Would have thought raise it with her before deciding to spread wings on swinging site but hey call me old fashioned.

I'm not married or engaged she's just a girlfriend"

The principle lack of respect remains the same, regardless of how committed/ stable your relationship is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy just ask her, man the fuck up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked mine if she would like to join me for some swinging fun and got a resounding NO - you'll never know if you don't ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id love to be a fly on the wall there lol

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By *oungatheart86Couple
over a year ago

Diss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OOOOOHH! So it's the GF he's trying to get into swinging! Now, the Mrs.. Does SHE know about the GF... But, WAIT.. The GF doesn't know about the Mrs.. Ugh! Now I'm totally confused!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me laugh when you mention respect clearly no respect for the wife by sounds of it.

Would have thought raise it with her before deciding to spread wings on swinging site but hey call me old fashioned.

I'm not married or engaged she's just a girlfriend"

holy shit!!

im sure she would be happy to find out she is 'just' an anything to you.

as said, show her your profile and tell her how much fun it is on here.

that should turn her on no end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have a nice sexy day together , then ask her about her nawty sexual fantasys and tell her you are ok with anything she says and tell her you will be happy to help her full fill them what ever they may be, see where that leads it may not lead to swinging but will enhance your sexlife, be prepared she may ask for something you don't like , but that's the risk you will have to take

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

It's at that point she shows you her Fab profile and all her veris

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By *ppleby11Couple
over a year ago

Berkhamsted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt marry any one that didnt swing in the first place...

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

Ask the people you have met to a social and then let them tell her how great swinging is

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