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Your bit about being told you're too hard on yourself makes you sound like hard work (sorry don't know how to put it) and that you are in constant need of reassurance and compliments.
Its quite negative.
Put a happy spin on things - tell about what you can offer, and use your curves to be an advantage, so talk about luscious curves, and beautiful boobs, rather than the insecurities.
You also have that you would meet couples but are straight - not much in it for mrs-meet that way, as most couples have bi or bi-curious ladies in my experience on here.
Theres also the bit that you won't meet anyone who asks for discretion, but you don't accom and don't explain why either. (not accom is one of the things that makes people think attached on here)
But, you are getting lots of meets, so its obviously ok.
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"Sorry, I'm not very diplomatic or good at wording things, please don't take this as a horrible dig... Also, bearing in mind, I am not your target audience... I would lose the bathroom pic - its too far away to be of any use. The other ones of your cleavage are lovely. Personal taste for me - I'd lose the pussy shot - everyone is old enough to know what it looks like
Your bit about being told you're too hard on yourself makes you sound like hard work (sorry don't know how to put it) and that you are in constant need of reassurance and compliments.
Its quite negative.
Put a happy spin on things - tell about what you can offer, and use your curves to be an advantage, so talk about luscious curves, and beautiful boobs, rather than the insecurities.
You also have that you would meet couples but are straight - not much in it for mrs-meet that way, as most couples have bi or bi-curious ladies in my experience on here.
Theres also the bit that you won't meet anyone who asks for discretion, but you don't accom and don't explain why either. (not accom is one of the things that makes people think attached on here)
But, you are getting lots of meets, so its obviously ok.
"I agree with the above. One point on discretion. I am single and can accommodate but I am discreet. Why? Because of people's privacy - family, friends, work colleagues do not need to know about your sex life in what can be a public access area. So respecting privacy and so discretion is important. Of course married people will use the discretion blanket but this should not be a reason why we honest folk can't be discreet.  | |||
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"Sorry, I'm not very diplomatic or good at wording things, please don't take this as a horrible dig... Also, bearing in mind, I am not your target audience... I would lose the bathroom pic - its too far away to be of any use. The other ones of your cleavage are lovely. Personal taste for me - I'd lose the pussy shot - everyone is old enough to know what it looks like
Your bit about being told you're too hard on yourself makes you sound like hard work (sorry don't know how to put it) and that you are in constant need of reassurance and compliments.
Its quite negative.
Put a happy spin on things - tell about what you can offer, and use your curves to be an advantage, so talk about luscious curves, and beautiful boobs, rather than the insecurities.
You also have that you would meet couples but are straight - not much in it for mrs-meet that way, as most couples have bi or bi-curious ladies in my experience on here.
Theres also the bit that you won't meet anyone who asks for discretion, but you don't accom and don't explain why either. (not accom is one of the things that makes people think attached on here)
But, you are getting lots of meets, so its obviously ok.
I agree with the above. One point on discretion. I am single and can accommodate but I am discreet. Why? Because of people's privacy - family, friends, work colleagues do not need to know about your sex life in what can be a public access area. So respecting privacy and so discretion is important. Of course married people will use the discretion blanket but this should not be a reason why we honest folk can't be discreet. "There's difference between being discreet in that not advertising someones sex live as u say to family work etc which tbh everyone should be so dont need specify. but then there's discreet due to being attached which I don't get involved in. Also I live with parents so can't accom. | |||
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"honestly can't see much change. Altho well done for explaining why you don't accom. "Was only small bits to change eg why can't accom n that not into attached guys. Can't see any spelling errors and no text speak | |||
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"honestly can't see much change. Altho well done for explaining why you don't accom.
Was only small bits to change eg why can't accom n that not into attached guys. Can't see any spelling errors and no text speak "I can see quite a few! Eg U msg wearin | |||
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