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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

Invest in some 'delay spray'?

Extra thick condoms?

Select men who can repeat - second time will take longer.

Let them cool down a bit before they enter you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive not heard of delay spray...

I wouldn't have sex without a condom... but have always just picked up generic and not looked too closely. . I will look into...

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also... is it rude to ask someone if they can repeat? I dont want to offend.. but want more !

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Also... is it rude to ask someone if they can repeat? I dont want to offend.. but want more ! "

Not rude to ask at all. You get some guys who repeat, and others who don't cum easily at all. Its a swingers site, its a pretty poor show if that question offends.

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

If they can't repeat tell them to bring a friend

Depends how you ask, but not rude to ask if someone is a stayer or a repeater. Embarrassing if they say they are - and can't!

I'm inclined to think you have just been a bit unlucky. Keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also... is it rude to ask someone if they can repeat? I dont want to offend.. but want more !

Not rude to ask at all. You get some guys who repeat, and others who don't cum easily at all. Its a swingers site, its a pretty poor show if that question offends."

Thanks... I'll work on being a bit more direct about what I want

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Also... is it rude to ask someone if they can repeat? I dont want to offend.. but want more !

Not rude to ask at all. You get some guys who repeat, and others who don't cum easily at all. Its a swingers site, its a pretty poor show if that question offends."

I'm thinking she means asking the question soon after he cums. If I'm correct then I could see a lot of bruised egos as the implication, quite rightly, is you aren't satisfied.

Asking whether he's a repeater before the meet is not rude at all in my humble opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they can't repeat tell them to bring a friend

Depends how you ask, but not rude to ask if someone is a stayer or a repeater. Embarrassing if they say they are - and can't!

I'm inclined to think you have just been a bit unlucky. Keep trying."

I'm very new at this so at present rethinking the profile and won't be giving up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant see the original question but if you are asking what we think you are - how to extend play?

L bought some condoms on offer the other week. I cant remember the name but they were all durex brand. One of the boxes had some sort of anesthetic in the condom. I had to stop and swap it for another in the end as it made me last forever and i pretty much went numb from the waist down They definitely work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I accidentally deleted the post with my phone altho not sure how

Most partners I've had in the last couple of years (not in the case of the lads who verified me I must add) just seem to cum as soon as they have penetrated me.. even when they have stayed hard during other play. I just feel like I must be doing something to cause it..

I certainly don't want to bruise ego's. .

Would the anaesthetic type condoms make it a much less enjoyable experience for the bloke? If he's not having a good time I don't think I would either.. I will defo look at them tho..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am better at staying than repeating - I get off on making a woman cum so am happy to fuck/rest/fuck/rest and have one HUGE orgasm then repeat

years of self edging are paying off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it just feels so nice to be inside you?

I hope you find the satisfaction you're seeking... I've not used anaesthetising spray but sounds like it ought to work.

I wonder, is it the same for guys you've slept with more than once...? Perhaps, if you like a particular guy and he's a regular meet, you can help a guy to edge in order to help his staying power?

I feel too intimidated now, or I'd most certainly offer to help you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps it just feels so nice to be inside you?

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Nice idea but I doubt it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I wonder, is it the same for guys you've slept with more than once...? Perhaps, if you like a particular guy and he's a regular meet, you can help a guy to edge in order to help his staying power?

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It has been in relationships too.. altho didn't happen when I was younger

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Cant see the original question but if you are asking what we think you are - how to extend play?

I had to stop and swap it for another in the end as it made me last forever and i pretty much went numb from the waist down "

Oh dear not you as well!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also... is it rude to ask someone if they can repeat? I dont want to offend.. but want more ! "

If you keep me horny and on the game and I keep myself hard I can cum again and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age of the guys...? Or maybe the result of years of kegel exercises?


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I wonder, is it the same for guys you've slept with more than once...? Perhaps, if you like a particular guy and he's a regular meet, you can help a guy to edge in order to help his staying power?

It has been in relationships too.. altho didn't happen when I was younger "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Would the anaesthetic type condoms make it a much less enjoyable experience for the bloke? If he's not having a good time I don't think I would either.. I will defo look at them tho..

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To be honest they were fine. I thought it was probably a thick condom i had grabbed as I don't get on too well with those....It was when I went to swap it I realised it had all gone a bit numb down there lol. Worth a go I would say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Durex performa, they are full of jelly, I picked them up once without taking any notice, they do what it says on the tin lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks. .. I will give all the feedback a go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Durex performa, they are full of jelly, I picked them up once without taking any notice, they do what it says on the tin lol."

That's one ones! Just got home and checked

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Also... is it rude to ask someone if they can repeat? I dont want to offend.. but want more ! "

Ask me anything you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have used the delay spray and the delay condoms. They definitely numb your knob and you can go for ages, sometimes to the point of giving up if you put to much on. I have decided I don't realy like the feeling much... or the lack of feeling and after cumming it goes utterly limp and does not want to play again. I am getting better at controlling the proceedings to make things last a bit longer but then repeating seems better. Just my 2p worth

Scruffy

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