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Nervous about first time

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By * and H OP   Couple
over a year ago

PONTEFRACT

We've been on here a little while now and met some lovely people but I'm (h) getting really nervous about the first time we play... How did everyone else's first experiences go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people feel nervous every time they meet, not just the first time. So the person/ people you meet will probably be just as nervous. Don't worry just enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (p) get nervous, mainly the normal male thing of will it work will if go soft etc. But iv found that on the very few times iv struggled to perform everyone has understood as its happened to them too.

So just relax and enjoy

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

I was terrified before my first meet and still get nervous now, even with couples I've met before. I've learnt to enjoy the nerves and now they're all part of the excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah I get nervous stomach ache, think alot of ppl do

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By * and H OP   Couple
over a year ago

PONTEFRACT

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you be nervous about playing ....you should be confident in your own bedroom skills and talents ...end of story !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just relax. Proper swinging involves nothing you're not comfortable with. Talk before hand, get your boundaries and make sure others know them. It's all fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you be nervous about playing ....you should be confident in your own bedroom skills and talents ...end of story !"

I(the fem) am very confident with my abilities in and out of the bedroom but suffer very badly with nerves before a meet don't know why just think some people are more predisposed to being nervous then others.

MissD

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By *azyOldGitMan
over a year ago

leicestershire


"How can you be nervous about playing ....you should be confident in your own bedroom skills and talents ...end of story !

I(the fem) am very confident with my abilities in and out of the bedroom but suffer very badly with nerves before a meet don't know why just think some people are more predisposed to being nervous then others.

MissD"

My wife would sometimes be so nervous she felt sick, but once at the club her nerves settled straight down and she would lead me.You are quite correct about prpredisposition to nerves, confidence in your own abilities can be overshaddowed quite easily but once arrived your confidence will kick back in and it's like the nerves were never twanging. We played solo and later as a couple for almost 20 years and could still get nervous, then nervous anticipation can highten the pleasure of the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get nervous before a meet, soon goes once you all get nekkid though I find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you be nervous about playing ....you should be confident in your own bedroom skills and talents ...end of story !

I(the fem) am very confident with my abilities in and out of the bedroom but suffer very badly with nerves before a meet don't know why just think some people are more predisposed to being nervous then others.

MissD

My wife would sometimes be so nervous she felt sick, but once at the club her nerves settled straight down and she would lead me.You are quite correct about prpredisposition to nerves, confidence in your own abilities can be overshaddowed quite easily but once arrived your confidence will kick back in and it's like the nerves were never twanging. We played solo and later as a couple for almost 20 years and could still get nervous, then nervous anticipation can highten the pleasure of the experience"

This is very true for me as well because leading up to a meet I am worried/nervous as soon as we meet or enter the club I am fine and all of those fears disappear. Silk is very good at reassuring me and calming me down. It does help to have a supportive partner who understands that just because you are nervous it doesn't mean your not excited or looking forward to the meet.

X

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"We've been on here a little while now and met some lovely people but I'm (h) getting really nervous about the first time we play... How did everyone else's first experiences go?"

Been swinging almost 5 years.... and we still get nervous lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always shaking like a leaf on a meet but that stops instantly the fun begins

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

My first meet I was nervous as hell but soon relaxed until my dad started banging in the front door then shouting through the letterbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both get nervous. But nerves quickly dissolve if there is an attraction & the clothes come off.

I am glad Im not the one with the pressure to get a hard on in some situations. Lol.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get really nervous, even after lots of messages and chat x

I wish I could be super confident, but i'm not! I know I can get on with people, and turn them on, but face to face its different - but soo very exciting x

I love first time meets, even a social x

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