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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning all,

When you had your first meet with a couple - how did you get from walking through the door down to bare naked fun?!

Who started what or how did it start. Both having fun with your own partners and then went with the flow? !

Any tips would be great

Cheers!

C&R xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

knock out whist for forfeits...gradually over wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually meet for a light bite/drinks to see how we get on. If the chemistry's right, I follow to their motel. The fun had always started with the wife for me and is mutual. Undress each other as we kiss and caress. The flow of who, what, how things happen after depends on our chemistry. Likes and dislikes have already been discussed beforehand.

Thankfully, I've never had a bad meet with a couple.. Always HOT =P

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

We did a very basic dice / card game. The lowest roll / value would strip one item of clothing.

This enabled that already overwhelming adrenalin to last a bit longer.

Eventually 3 out of 4 of us were fully naked so the 4th just stripped off to join in.

Looking back that was a lot of fun. Wish we had a couple to do that with again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We start out with cocktails... It moves into the bed room. Sometimes I take charge & they feel more comfortable if I tell them what todo? (Our last couple said they really liked that. Lol)

No right or wrong answer. Play it by ear. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time with a couple was actually my first time with a woman too. Also first time for her. We discussed how nervous we'd be and decided between us to cut out the small talk and get down to business straight away. I walked into their home and us females started kissing straight away and the male said lets take it upstairs and off we went. Very horny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first meet with a couple was also my first time with another woman, it was also their first meet so bad nerves all around

We met them first socially and then arranged to meet the following weekend - spent the evening chatting and having some drinks and it got to the point where everyone was sitting there wondering whether to get it started - my husband - always the diplomat - suggested us girls go up and get changed - and they would follow in a bit - so we did!

Great fun but we hated the awkwardness and that has kind of rolled over into how we play now. We still get nervous and on a first play meet much prefer to have a drink or two max and so long as everyone is happy then get things moving! Suits us better to sit around chatting for ages afterwards rather than before. We find it kills the nerves and it also stops people who are nervous drinking too much. Subsequent meets are different as everyone is more comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to couples house when I arrived told to remain quiet. On entering the living room she was stood dressed in an outfit thought high boots blindfolded and hands tied behind back so that was an eye opener but soon relaxed and the fun began

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went to couples house when I arrived told to remain quiet. On entering the living room she was stood dressed in an outfit thought high boots blindfolded and hands tied behind back so that was an eye opener but soon relaxed and the fun began "

Thigh high boots even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 1st time with a couple was amazing she was sitting on a chair her boyfriend and i sat on the sofa after a few minutes chat she sat between us .had a lovely 3 hours of fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back when I was swinging as a singly, it used to be a deck cards more often than not, a simple game of strip something or other (can't remember the game) when we got so far, nature took over.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

On our first home meet we had a drink and chatted downstairs, then said "shall we go upstairs?" As soon as we got into the bedroom we swapped partners, the men undressed the women, then themselves, and we all got on the bed. It was a lovely experience. We stayed swapped throughout.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I sat on a sofa with the lady, the guy was on a chair watching so I had a sip of wine and took my T shirt off, then stood up and stripped. I'm not shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time with a couple was with my hub,they knew we were newbies,I was bi-curious,we went for a Social at theres,2nd meet Bit of a Social then the woman took the lead and LED us upstairs,we were Not pushed into anything so just swapped Partners same bed,next meet the men took pics of us gals and i soon relaxed and had my first bi encounter,the men Joined in x could say it was long way round it but think they were so patient and Made us relaxed,that we're a year ago when I we're a gd gal

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