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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, so in the past I've had anal sex maybe too much lol. I do enjoy it, but now I think I am paying the price.

My once beautiful pink rosebud has now turned into a blooming big flower! I suppose it's my own fault for loving such an act, lack of lube possibly??

Anyway, I have even thought of surgery to restore my rosebud to it's former glory.

It's the only part of my body that I am slightly shy about, and find myself quite jealous of the younger ladies with perfect arseholes.

Any advice? Surgery or not? Love me, Love my arsehole? (not referring to hubby there either).

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

How bad are we talking? Is there a prolapse? If you're really concerned you should see a doctor. Or it could cause real problems later in life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How bad are we talking? Is there a prolapse? If you're really concerned you should see a doctor. Or it could cause real problems later in life."

It's not a prolapse, no pain or discomfort either. It's merely a vanity thing I think on my part. Play friends aren't bothered by it. I suppose I am though. A few small 'tags' shall we say without being too gross.

Bx

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland


"A few small 'tags' shall we say without being too gross."

Genital wart-shaped tags or hemorrhoid-shaped tags? Have you shown your local GUM clinic them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A few small 'tags' shall we say without being too gross.

Genital wart-shaped tags or hemorrhoid-shaped tags? Have you shown your local GUM clinic them?"

Yes I have been, they are haemorrhoid shaped if anything, apologies if anyone is having their lunch

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland


"A few small 'tags' shall we say without being too gross.

Genital wart-shaped tags or hemorrhoid-shaped tags? Have you shown your local GUM clinic them?

Yes I have been, they are haemorrhoid shaped if anything, apologies if anyone is having their lunch "

Ooops, sorry, I did some volunteer work for sexual health outreach... it's still with me it seems. If it's purely cosmetic, other than surgery, there are some creams you could try, vasoconstrictors (I've heard good things about using witch hazel) and healing creams like savlon, etc. letting your body deal with it it's own way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh sorry we saw the thread title and thought it was an offer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grape anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Grape anyone?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gaping asshole

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Have you considered cutting down a poster tube and using it to re-line your bum?

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Oh about having some rice paper rusty sheriff badges made up.. Humour and tasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can never have too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you considered cutting down a poster tube and using it to re-line your bum?"

I have fell off my chair in what should be outraged shock but im laughing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you considered cutting down a poster tube and using it to re-line your bum?"

Hot tea now adorns my keyboard and screen. Thanks for that

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By *toneblueMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Sounds like not enough lube to me, and you've stretched your skin out a bit as a result. Not too much anal sex, but not being careful enough.

Make sure you never play without plenty of lube in future. Get some witch hazel gel, it could help shrink things down a bit.

I don't know if surgery is the answer, if you get scar tissue there it will be less stretchable and probably look worse! I expect it really isn't as bad as you think it is. It's bound to get a bit less perfect-looking if it gets regular action; a guy who is into anal shouldn't be turned off by that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shes gougeous

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'm sure its not as bad as you think.

No play without lube, and pelvic floor exercises help the back door as well as the front Make sure you are doing them right - and it should help tone up the tooshie

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By *ecor atorMan
over a year ago

York

From your pic op, looks like you have a lovely thunderbox tho admittedly we can't see your chocolate spider.

Have any of the jockeys that have had a go on it complained of feeling like the last hotdog in the tin.

I'd love a go on it tho, I love bum fun!

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"From your pic op, looks like you have a lovely thunderbox tho admittedly we can't see your chocolate spider.

Have any of the jockeys that have had a go on it complained of feeling like the last hotdog in the tin.

I'd love a go on it tho, I love bum fun!

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks peeps, all your advice and humour has helped me decide not to have surgery.

I will continue to enjoy anal sex, albeit it's not as often as some of you may think, my hole is still nicely tight

B x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Thanks peeps, all your advice and humour has helped me decide not to have surgery.

I will continue to enjoy anal sex, albeit it's not as often as some of you may think, my hole is still nicely tight

B x"

Maybe select someone slightly smaller

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Have a W tattooed on each bumcheek so when you bend over your arse shouts WOW!

X

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By *ecor atorMan
over a year ago

York

Oooo good, can I have a go then please op? ?? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my word...TMI

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

If the stuff stays in as you walk it's tight enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pushes my cad burys fingers to one side..... Maybe later.

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"Have you considered cutting down a poster tube and using it to re-line your bum?"
brilliant

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Have you considered cutting down a poster tube and using it to re-line your bum?

I have fell off my chair in what should be outraged shock but im laughing!"

Me too! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a W tattooed on each bumcheek so when you bend over your arse shouts WOW!"

ROFPMSL!!!!!!!!!!

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - just to be serious for a mo... in the past have you used lube for anal and, if so, have you previously used ones with numbing agents? If you have, maybe it's time to switch to something which doesn't contain an agent (it's usually Benzocaine).

Without boasting (oh well, might as well!!) I have always had to be careful what lube I use due to my, ahem..... girth. You'll find a lot of porn actresses steer clear of the numbing ones as, generally, they're performing with guys who above average girth and they need to know if anything is going wrong asafp!! The same has been try with my partners on occasion.

Like an earlier comment said, there is no reason why you shouldn't continue to enjoy it unless it is starting to affect your everyday life - then it is very often surgery time - but, meanwhile, the old saying 'if it ain't broke, don't fix it' is very true.

a retentive ted.

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"OP - just to be serious for a mo... in the past have you used lube for anal and, if so, have you previously used ones with numbing agents? If you have, maybe it's time to switch to something which doesn't contain an agent (it's usually Benzocaine).

Without boasting (oh well, might as well!!) I have always had to be careful what lube I use due to my, ahem..... girth. You'll find a lot of porn actresses steer clear of the numbing ones as, generally, they're performing with guys who above average girth and they need to know if anything is going wrong asafp!! The same has been try with my partners on occasion.

Like an earlier comment said, there is no reason why you shouldn't continue to enjoy it unless it is starting to affect your everyday life - then it is very often surgery time - but, meanwhile, the old saying 'if it ain't broke, don't fix it' is very true.

a retentive ted. "
note to oneself avoid ted at kent social!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP - just to be serious for a mo... in the past have you used lube for anal and, if so, have you previously used ones with numbing agents? If you have, maybe it's time to switch to something which doesn't contain an agent (it's usually Benzocaine).

Without boasting (oh well, might as well!!) I have always had to be careful what lube I use due to my, ahem..... girth. You'll find a lot of porn actresses steer clear of the numbing ones as, generally, they're performing with guys who above average girth and they need to know if anything is going wrong asafp!! The same has been try with my partners on occasion.

Like an earlier comment said, there is no reason why you shouldn't continue to enjoy it unless it is starting to affect your everyday life - then it is very often surgery time - but, meanwhile, the old saying 'if it ain't broke, don't fix it' is very true.

a retentive ted. note to oneself avoid ted at kent social!! "

Have lube - will travel...

You know you want it!!!! PMSL!!!!!!!!!!

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"OP - just to be serious for a mo... in the past have you used lube for anal and, if so, have you previously used ones with numbing agents? If you have, maybe it's time to switch to something which doesn't contain an agent (it's usually Benzocaine).

Without boasting (oh well, might as well!!) I have always had to be careful what lube I use due to my, ahem..... girth. You'll find a lot of porn actresses steer clear of the numbing ones as, generally, they're performing with guys who above average girth and they need to know if anything is going wrong asafp!! The same has been try with my partners on occasion.

Like an earlier comment said, there is no reason why you shouldn't continue to enjoy it unless it is starting to affect your everyday life - then it is very often surgery time - but, meanwhile, the old saying 'if it ain't broke, don't fix it' is very true.

a retentive ted. note to oneself avoid ted at kent social!!

Have lube - will travel...

You know you want it!!!! PMSL!!!!!!!!!!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP - just to be serious for a mo... in the past have you used lube for anal and, if so, have you previously used ones with numbing agents? If you have, maybe it's time to switch to something which doesn't contain an agent (it's usually Benzocaine).

Without boasting (oh well, might as well!!) I have always had to be careful what lube I use due to my, ahem..... girth. You'll find a lot of porn actresses steer clear of the numbing ones as, generally, they're performing with guys who above average girth and they need to know if anything is going wrong asafp!! The same has been try with my partners on occasion.

Like an earlier comment said, there is no reason why you shouldn't continue to enjoy it unless it is starting to affect your everyday life - then it is very often surgery time - but, meanwhile, the old saying 'if it ain't broke, don't fix it' is very true.

a retentive ted. note to oneself avoid ted at kent social!!

Have lube - will travel...

You know you want it!!!! PMSL!!!!!!!!!!

"

Best check behind if you're going to bend over at any point then......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not see anything wrong with having a flower rather than a bud.

If you are a lady who likes anal then carry on enjoying it. I like anal and love to see a well used bum as it tells me I am in for some stress free fun.

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By *iosMan
over a year ago

Stafford


"From your pic op, looks like you have a lovely thunderbox tho admittedly we can't see your chocolate spider.

"

Chocolate spider = brilliant actually burst out laughing I am such a child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From your pic op, looks like you have a lovely thunderbox tho admittedly we can't see your chocolate spider.

Chocolate spider = brilliant actually burst out laughing I am such a child"

When we were younger we used to call it the chocolate starfish

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

think maybe its now a chocolate octopus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a small tag visible too and im very conscious of it.. wont be rimmed etc etc.. im considering doctors for advice on removing.

I dont think mines from anal.. just unfortunate..

altho I do love being ass fucked lol

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