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By *attykit OP   Woman
over a year ago

leeds

Talked to a lady from a couple about a FF evening which would be my first. Exchanged a few messages but they were away and then the following few weeks I had some busy weekends coming up. I explained and said can I friend you so that when I'm back I can message you again to arrange meeting up. Friend request accepted.

Now messaged twice and not had any reply and wondering if I should start trying to find a different lady to explore my bi side with. It's a bit scary. Something new so any patient bi women who might be interested - message me! ! Don't really want my first bi experience to be with a couple - that may be a bit over whelming but any ladies who play alone. ......

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"Talked to a lady from a couple about a FF evening which would be my first. Exchanged a few messages but they were away and then the following few weeks I had some busy weekends coming up. I explained and said can I friend you so that when I'm back I can message you again to arrange meeting up. Friend request accepted.

Now messaged twice and not had any reply and wondering if I should start trying to find a different lady to explore my bi side with. It's a bit scary. Something new so any patient bi women who might be interested - message me! ! Don't really want my first bi experience to be with a couple - that may be a bit over whelming but any ladies who play alone. ......"

Happens to us guys all the time. Chin up, move on.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

stick some more irons in the fire babe .. good luck xx

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By *attykit OP   Woman
over a year ago

leeds

Right. Onto the next. Either that or I'll just line up more guys and give up on my bi fantasy! !!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talked to a lady from a couple about a FF evening which would be my first. Exchanged a few messages but they were away and then the following few weeks I had some busy weekends coming up. I explained and said can I friend you so that when I'm back I can message you again to arrange meeting up. Friend request accepted.

Now messaged twice and not had any reply and wondering if I should start trying to find a different lady to explore my bi side with. It's a bit scary. Something new so any patient bi women who might be interested - message me! ! Don't really want my first bi experience to be with a couple - that may be a bit over whelming but any ladies who play alone. ......"

They might be busy? Could be why they haven't replied yet

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By *evonTallGuyMan
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Or, perish the thought, it could be a single guy posing as a couple!

As everyone else has said, chin up and move on.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Or, perish the thought, it could be a single guy posing as a couple!

As everyone else has said, chin up and move on."

This!

Always get a phone number and have a fem to fem chat to establish their bona-fides!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right. Onto the next. Either that or I'll just line up more guys and give up on my bi fantasy! !!! Xx"

Nooooooo, don't give up on exploring your bi side. We all chat to people and the meet never happens, it's nothing new.

Us ladies that play alone are out there. I've met with a couple of ladies for their first bi experience so we exist. Just keep looking and chatting.....it'll happen

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I agree, don't give up! It will be worth it...

Get chatting to some other peeps and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont ever ever stop looking for what you want and then accept second best, yes get the guys but there is most certainly girls out there who would love to play, i know one or two in Leeds and surrounding areas.... keep at it

x

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