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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know everyone has to start somewhere but I get this feeling that non-verifieds are following us. Getting sick of people who have a profile on here for months and still not even a webcam verification.

We're also getting asked by couples to cam and verify them, then they drop off the face of the earth and stop messaging us. I mean, we're getting nothing in return cause they can't verify us back.

Do you think it's worth blocking them or let them chat with us? I don't want to paint all non-verified people with the same brush!

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

How much faith do you put in webcam verifications anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've filtered non verified from contacting me. I know we all have to start somewhere but as a single woman wanting to meeting men I think of it as a bit of a safety net. If a man is verified by a meet at least I know he's real. Some will argue that it's not foolproof and it's not but it's they way I chose to set up my profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have been on here for a while, always on my cam but as yet no one has verified me via webcam. As a result anyone that blocks non verified people will have me blocked even though i am genuine and real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have been on here for a while, always on my cam but as yet no one has verified me via webcam. As a result anyone that blocks non verified people will have me blocked even though i am genuine and real. "

On another note and perhaps more important, congratulations on your new job

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

give them a chance ...ive been messed about by lots of people with verifications .

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex


"give them a chance ...ive been messed about by lots of people with verifications ."

Ditto. I take verifications with a rather big pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only verify after a face to face meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As u say we all have to start somewhere. But if people have been on more than a month and not even got at least a cam verify looks but odd. As others say for safety it's in single women's interest to block non verify tho should be a timescale,if someone's been on 2says non verify fair enough I'd give them chance n chat

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I meet people on how they interact with me, not on what a stranger says about them. Of my last six meets five have been unverified and all have been just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learnt very quickly that verifications mean crap. A man can get verified as being real, set up a female account and then verify it as being real as my partner and I have come across way too many times on our couples account. Also the amount of times I have skyped with a supposed woman and it has been a camera recording looped is unreal. Luckily I am quite with it and can spot a fake now a mile off. Never take meet or webcam verifications as being 100% proof someone is real because they are far from it. Although I do have non verified people blocked as a personal preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know everyone has to start somewhere but I get this feeling that non-verifieds are following us. Getting sick of people who have a profile on here for months and still not even a webcam verification.

We're also getting asked by couples to cam and verify them, then they drop off the face of the earth and stop messaging us. I mean, we're getting nothing in return cause they can't verify us back.

Do you think it's worth blocking them or let them chat with us? I don't want to paint all non-verified people with the same brush! "

I've been on here for almost 2 years, no verification as of yet. Then again, I may have created my account back then but I was using AFF and not Fab. Only started to get in to the swing of things last month on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not verified even though we're in contact with people we've met and verified us on earlier profiles. Means nothing to me at all - if we like the sound of somebody we arrange a phone call and meet - verified or not.

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By *yLongJourneyMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

nobody really wants to meet me it seems so i dont have any verifications which in turn makes me non meetable material, either that or i have got it wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to make a few comments as to why you are getting this unwanted attention OP, but as we can't PM you and you have not asked for a profile critique, I will have to leave this here...

ted.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We're not verified even though we're in contact with people we've met and verified us on earlier profiles. Means nothing to me at all - if we like the sound of somebody we arrange a phone call and meet - verified or not."

I wonder how people met before Fab. This is the only site I use with a verification system and I meet using the same criteria: exchange message, phone call, social meet, play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like playing with new couples....it turns us on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never had any problems with people hassling me for a verification,even if ive seen them on cam for a quick hello ive never been asked to verify that,In 5 yrs ive had one guy that tried to charm the arse off me with so many compliments he assumed that id give him a veri......wrong! he just got reported

If its driving you mad then block for a while and concentrate on people that are verified or don't verify anyone unless you've met them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think picture veris arent worth the photo paper they are printed on.

They are too easily given and just proves you have a camera.

They say nothing about an individual other from a looks perspective.

We prefer actual meet veris as this provides so much info about a person or persons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're not verified even though we're in contact with people we've met and verified us on earlier profiles. Means nothing to me at all - if we like the sound of somebody we arrange a phone call and meet - verified or not.

I wonder how people met before Fab. This is the only site I use with a verification system and I meet using the same criteria: exchange message, phone call, social meet, play. "

Before I found fab I met folk through guys I knew then a lady I played with introduced me to fab and well here we are haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only value of photo verify I'd that u are the person in the pics eg not a man pretending he's a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only value of photo verify I'd that u are the person in the pics eg not a man pretending he's a woman "

But some men pretending to be women look pretty good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think picture veris arent worth the photo paper they are printed on.

They are too easily given and just proves you have a camera.

They say nothing about an individual other from a looks perspective.

We prefer actual meet veris as this provides so much info about a person or persons"

I disagree, it is there to show us the person has been verified according to gender. I also think it shows the person is less likely to be a two minute wonder on here (such as pic collectors and those despondent at fab not being instashag.com).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're happy to trust in the judgment of others - and you trust that people's 'verifications' are real - well that's very trusting.

Personally I see little to no value in them. This site is just the start of the process - although for quite a few seems to be the be all and end all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally if a member has not photo verified after one month of joining we would not accept a friend request or send photos.

It's easy to do and doesn't require anyone else's help.

We have never had a meet go wrong from this site simply because we follow our own simple rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have been on here for a while, always on my cam but as yet no one has verified me via webcam. As a result anyone that blocks non verified people will have me blocked even though i am genuine and real.

On another note and perhaps more important, congratulations on your new job "

Thank you very much

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