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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello. I rejoined this site over a week ago and I need help with my profile. Can anyone please review my profile and tell me what needs improving?

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By *he MuncherMan
over a year ago

Dundee

Well most of the females don't want to see cock pics so keep them for friends only, as for the rest the text seems ok, and nothing jumps out at me as offensive.

But do have some patience 2 weeks is still quite newish.

Best of luck hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read the forums on what people do and dont like. that will help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profile appears ok to me

as for the cock shots, if it gets u attention and meets..thats all fine.I hate anti-cock shot thinking(there is overdoing it though)

remember much of the forum advice is only a small percent of the user base on fab, so take some of it with a pinch of salt

I can only see one problem, ur accommodating and only daytime meets- easy to rise to conclusions why this is

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hello. I rejoined this site over a week ago and I need help with my profile. Can anyone please review my profile and tell me what needs improving?"

well if you were here last time, what did you do then???? I would like to hope that you at least learnt a few things from last time round......

time, patience, basic common sense...

it really comes down to this...

if you think the profile reflects the best in you.... keep it

if it doesn't change it!!! simple as

there is no point into going into specifics because everyone likes different things, and if you listen to everyone... it isn't you anyone and becomes a generic mess

and remember you are not trying to attract everyone, you are trying to attract specific people.......

you get out what you put in, no quick fixes, no magic formulas... rome wasn't built in a day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the help. I really appreciate it. I've privatized my cock photos to friends only so it should be ok now. Thanks very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as cock shots I think they're ok in moderation, particularly as the verification you have says you have a 'whopper'

I'd want to see what a whopper looked like. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As far as cock shots I think they're ok in moderation, particularly as the verification you have says you have a 'whopper'

I'd want to see what a whopper looked like. Good luck x"

do they still do them at burger king?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the help. I really appreciate it. I've privatized my cock photos to friends only so it should be ok now. Thanks very much "

my opinion, u may be passed by by those seeking sameroomcouples viewpoint..why waste their time for them to have to msg,friend u etc etc just to see the cock?, when u could be getting straight to the point-and get the meet(s)

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

book an appointment with a hairdresser, and a photographer, to have half a dozen really nice photos taken.

Those with your arms crossed aren't too good, and the others are very "homely"

How tall are you? ie "tall dark handsome stranger" etc

Look at lots of other guys profiles to pick out ideas which you might like....

Gentleman Jack

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok. I've been changing parts of my profile. How does it look now?

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Looks ok but lets face it, you are one of 1000s on here, you could gold plate it and make cookies, but it's not really going to do that much for you.

Your opening email is, I think, far far more important.

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"book an appointment with a hairdresser, and a photographer, to have half a dozen really nice photos taken."

And ignore crap like that, you'll just look like a car salesman and not everyone is into that. Being yourself is far far more important.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looks ok but lets face it, you are one of 1000s on here, you could gold plate it and make cookies, but it's not really going to do that much for you.

Your opening email is, I think, far far more important."

That is a good point. I have been trying to make a good opening mail but it can be so difficult to come with what to say sometimes.

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

well don't say "want to chat?" - we've had over 200 of them over the last few days. And we reply "what do you want to chat about" which is where the messages end, because the fuckwits haven't got a clue how to answer that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Here is what I usually put in an opening message.

"Hello there I'm Jonathan. How are you today?

I like what I've read in your profile. You sound like a nice person and would like to get to know you.

Check out my profile sometime and if you like what you see, please feel free to leave a message "

Is this good or does it need work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here is what I usually put in an opening message.

"Hello there I'm Jonathan. How are you today?

I like what I've read in your profile. You sound like a nice person and would like to get to know you.

Check out my profile sometime and if you like what you see, please feel free to leave a message "

Is this good or does it need work?"

its a bit generic sounding(at least name them, and look through the verifies for possible 'real' name.

compliment the PICS!

uve changed ur profile(pics wise), and to me..its a bit boring, not showing much sexual appeal

when single guys can learn they CAN show some filthy shots without being tarred with the 'seen one seem em all' brigade- they might learn they can attract those that matter meetswise

we are no different from cpls n fems who display their sexually explicit pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok. What photos do you suggest I show?

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Ok. What photos do you suggest I show?"
Soooooooo many threads on this now!

Only YOU can make YOUR profile, and only YOU can send YOUR messages. It is up to you how you want to come across to others. No such thing as the perfect profile, introductory message. As others have said you are a single male trying to be seen. Look at the many, many other threads on said subject learn from them. Honestly if you having or needing help with your profile, you may well not get the meets you want.

Best of luck though

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

and the more you change it... the less it is actually you...

and so the cycle begins..........

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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Only YOU can make YOUR profile, and only YOU can send YOUR messages. It is up to you how you want to come across to others. No such thing as the perfect profile, introductory message. As others have said you are a single male trying to be seen. Look at the many, many other threads on said subject learn from them. Honestly if you having or needing help with your profile, you may well not get the meets you want.

Best of luck though "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well most of the females don't want to see cock pics so keep them for friends only."

Always makes me laugh this does, it's not "most" of the females that don't want to see them but only a portion.

There are loads and loads of females that do like to see them also... including Shaz, I think as long as you don't over do it then the odd cock shot is fine.

I do also find it odd how people ask what everyone thinks there profile is like, why tailer it to what others want to see, it should reflect your personality only, not others.

I always think, for the many that don't like our profile there will always be someone that does.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"and the more you change it... the less it is actually you...

and so the cycle begins..........

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