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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do people find there first time and any advice for others, cuz mine was painful but nice untill he come in me and fore some reason i shat all over his dick and bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds lovely

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

RELAX RELAX RELAX ,

when i did it with my ex used to guide him

in so i was controlling it ,

use plenty of lube .

i used to think when he came inside me it was like a colonic irrigation

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I was moaning from the time it was banging on the door, tee hee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people find there first time and any advice for others, cuz mine was painful but nice untill he come in me and fore some reason i shat all over his dick and bed "

Douch'e

Lube

Relax

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

whats a douch?

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Google is your friend.. Just don't look on family guys version of a douche

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol ill have to try that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube or baby oil plenty of it especially first time as does hurt a little. Pain then pleasure mmmm

Very slowly into hole n let him tease clitty or u.

Relaxation is the key if u dont feel relaxed or comfortable with doing anal then not for u.

I love it especially when deep inside and in doggy position pounding hard ooooo

Luci

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"How do people find there first time and any advice for others, cuz mine was painful but nice untill he come in me and fore some reason i shat all over his dick and bed "
Boakkkkkkkk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first time with anal I wasnt asked if I wanted it or told it was happening. Painful doesnt cover it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first time with anal I wasnt asked if I wanted it or told it was happening. Painful doesnt cover it! "

Same here but am trying with someone who's being very careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear

Anal used to be agony for me until I learned to relax - plus loads of lube!

Don't mind it now but do worry about the potentially mucky element! Douching isn't always good enough, I find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've mentioned before on other threads, that the best way to practice anal is to get yourself a suitable toy and practice on yourself with it, and gain anal experience that way before you ever try full sex. You can experiment with different kinds of lube, toy sizes, speed and depth of penetration etc, and get a much better idea of what feels most comfortable, also you'll get a better idea of the importance of douching in order to avoid any mess. Once you've learned the best way to clean yourself thoroughly beforehand and warm up comfortably, then you're ready for anal sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D*unk tht first time was best way. Make sure lots lots of lube and man be gentle and slow taking lead from me ideally it's only time girl doesn't want thick cock

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By *orsetandheelsWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon


"My first time with anal I wasnt asked if I wanted it or told it was happening. Painful doesnt cover it! "

Oh dear, I hope you told him where he could stick it next time he tried that :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first time with anal I wasnt asked if I wanted it or told it was happening. Painful doesnt cover it!

Oh dear, I hope you told him where he could stick it next time he tried that :/"

If guys attempted to masturbate anally now and then, they'd have a much greater understanding of the necessity of gentleness when it comes to anal sex for women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lube, lube and a bit more lube. Also as other posters have said play with yourself and for want of a better expression "train" yourself for anal. From a cleanliness point, don't eat a heavy meal beforehand and emema kits are useful and can be ordered of amazon or eBay.

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By *uroladiesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If you're going to dig in the garden sometimes you're going to get dirty. But gardening is so satisfying its worth it. As long as you are with someone you trust to look after you emotionally that is x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do people find there first time and any advice for others, cuz mine was painful but nice untill he come in me and fore some reason i shat all over his dick and bed "

Did he carry on unde turd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cleaning your out first, get relaxed and loads of lube. All great advice. Get your bum used to taking things like fingers and toys. Yep done all that. The question I have on this relates more to depth rather than girth. Girth I can handle but the problem arises when a guy builds up a bit of speed. Feels like my guts are taking a pounding and I have to stop. How do I train my body to take the full length?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Defo clean out first. Don't use baby oil as lube as it rots condoms!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy a butt plug and a good anal lube, I use Maximus Lubricant.

Also give your a good anal douche to start with, you can buy special attachments for the shower. Apply lot of lube to both yourself and butt plug, insert and wear for a while before sex. Before sex apply lots of lube and try to relax.

Lube, lube, lube

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By *azyOldGitMan
over a year ago

leicestershire


"Cleaning your out first, get relaxed and loads of lube. All great advice. Get your bum used to taking things like fingers and toys. Yep done all that. The question I have on this relates more to depth rather than girth. Girth I can handle but the problem arises when a guy builds up a bit of speed. Feels like my guts are taking a pounding and I have to stop. How do I train my body to take the full length?"

Have the guy stood slightly out of line, twisted slightly as it were. That can help as the altered angle can reduce the depth achieved.

An ex FB just to stand with one leg further back and slightly twisted at the hip, it worked as suddenly I was no longer sucking him as he thrust in deeply. He said it was still great for him and until he moved overseas we always used the same method.

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I love anal, never had to douche and never had any accidents(so far lol)

I just make sure I don't have a heavy meal or spicy food beforehand!

Make sure I have had a natural 'clear out' lol(being polite)

As others have said, u must be relaxed and 100% happy with what's happening, never be forced into it otherwise u will be tense and it will hurt!!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Cleaning your out first, get relaxed and loads of lube. All great advice. Get your bum used to taking things like fingers and toys. Yep done all that. The question I have on this relates more to depth rather than girth. Girth I can handle but the problem arises when a guy builds up a bit of speed. Feels like my guts are taking a pounding and I have to stop. How do I train my body to take the full length?

Have the guy stood slightly out of line, twisted slightly as it were. That can help as the altered angle can reduce the depth achieved.

An ex FB just to stand with one leg further back and slightly twisted at the hip, it worked as suddenly I was no longer sucking him as he thrust in deeply. He said it was still great for him and until he moved overseas we always used the same method. "

So what method did you use once he moved overseas? He must have a hell of a reach

Sorry, just my warped SOH and the way I read your post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's bad

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By * and HCouple
over a year ago

PONTEFRACT

Line Ann summers do a relaxant one it does numb you to a degree but apparently it makes it colder in there for the gent rather than hot with a normal lube... Worse bits condom coming off in there retrieval is not easy...

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By *aughtylittlemeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

When you douch give your self a good hour before or two, play with you ass with a toy before hand aswell, helps open you up a little and if theres any mess left to come out it will then instead of on somebody else x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you douch give your self a good hour before or two, play with you ass with a toy before hand aswell, helps open you up a little and if theres any mess left to come out it will then instead of on somebody else x"

My thoughts exactly x

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By *enusCouple
over a year ago

cleethorpes

An Imodium tablet the night before will help, and of course a light meal and douche just before the great invasion. Takes some planning but well worth the effort

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By *azyOldGitMan
over a year ago

leicestershire


"Cleaning your out first, get relaxed and loads of lube. All great advice. Get your bum used to taking things like fingers and toys. Yep done all that. The question I have on this relates more to depth rather than girth. Girth I can handle but the problem arises when a guy builds up a bit of speed. Feels like my guts are taking a pounding and I have to stop. How do I train my body to take the full length?

Have the guy stood slightly out of line, twisted slightly as it were. That can help as the altered angle can reduce the depth achieved.

An ex FB just to stand with one leg further back and slightly twisted at the hip, it worked as suddenly I was no longer sucking him as he thrust in deeply. He said it was still great for him and until he moved overseas we always used the same method.

So what method did you use once he moved overseas? He must have a hell of a reach

Sorry, just my warped SOH and the way I read your post "

A 12" dildo on a sucker and me squatting over it, great exercise for the legs that was

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