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By *TPrincess OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bedford

I'm in a steady relationship with a lovely guy who's already into toys and latex. How do I tell him I want us to go Swinging together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply ask. If your into fems chances are he will want a 3some. But he may not be up for seeing you with a guy.

Good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm in a steady relationship with a lovely guy who's already into toys and latex. How do I tell him I want us to go Swinging together?"

being into toys and latex doesn't mean he'll want to swing. Discuss it when you're talking about your fantasies and gushes his reaction, if he says no don't push.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in a steady relationship with a lovely guy who's already into toys and latex. How do I tell him I want us to go Swinging together?"

Talk about your fantasies together, tell him yours and get him to tell you his...

You should be able to suss out if its something he wants to try!

Maybe show him this site and your profile and see what he says

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Show him your profile and introduce him to your FB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show him your profile and introduce him to your FB "

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By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

I see it this way, you need to be honest with him. Not sure how he will react when knowing that you are in a relationship with him and your swinging. Perhaps he already knows, judging from your post he doesn't. Single guys would get slated on here as I have seen in the past.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Is this steady relationship with the Xbox that you'llu joined here with 2 week's ago but thenhe lleft buy now he is in touch again??

Or is he just the mug you are cheating on to be on here? Tell him you've been swinging for a while now and see what his reaction is

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Xbox means fb by the way. Fat fingers lol

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By *orney hunCouple
over a year ago

galway

i started watching swing porn with hubby and eventually he asked would i like to try it and it worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in a steady relationship with a lovely guy who's already into toys and latex. How do I tell him I want us to go Swinging together?

being into toys and latex doesn't mean he'll want to swing. Discuss it when you're talking about your fantasies and gushes his reaction, if he says no don't push."

Agree. Be upfront bringing it up in conversation, but be prepared to talk it through without any pressure as many times as he (and you) feel is necessary. But if, at the end of the day, he still says No, don't push it. Too many 'steady' relationships have been ruined by one partner trying to force the issue.

ted.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

This is the perfect example of double standards on Fab!!!!

Guys asks question all the time and there is a barrage of 'she loves swinging mate, we've had her several times on her single profile'

Yet when a female who is clearly here with someone other that her 'steady' boyfriend it's all friendly advice time.

Ridiculous!!!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"I'm in a steady relationship with a lovely guy who's already into toys and latex. How do I tell him I want us to go Swinging together?"

He might already have a profile and lying to you in the way that you're cheating on him! A cheats a cheat whatever the gender. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm in a steady relationship with a lovely guy who's already into toys and latex. How do I tell him I want us to go Swinging together?

He might already have a profile and lying to you in the way that you're cheating on him! A cheats a cheat whatever the gender. Z"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You joined two weeks ago with a fb but have since split up and now you're in a 'steady relationship' Crikey, that was quick! Does your new steady bf know you have a profile on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is the perfect example of double standards on Fab!!!!

Guys asks question all the time and there is a barrage of 'she loves swinging mate, we've had her several times on her single profile'

Yet when a female who is clearly here with someone other that her 'steady' boyfriend it's all friendly advice time.

Ridiculous!!!"

It's pathetic isn't it.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"This is the perfect example of double standards on Fab!!!!

Guys asks question all the time and there is a barrage of 'she loves swinging mate, we've had her several times on her single profile'

Yet when a female who is clearly here with someone other that her 'steady' boyfriend it's all friendly advice time.

Ridiculous!!!"

Have to agree you see it often on the forums, not just on this topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is the perfect example of double standards on Fab!!!!

Guys asks question all the time and there is a barrage of 'she loves swinging mate, we've had her several times on her single profile'

Yet when a female who is clearly here with someone other that her 'steady' boyfriend it's all friendly advice time.

Ridiculous!!!"

Exactly !

Im glad someone said it

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester


"This is the perfect example of double standards on Fab!!!!

Guys asks question all the time and there is a barrage of 'she loves swinging mate, we've had her several times on her single profile'

Yet when a female who is clearly here with someone other that her 'steady' boyfriend it's all friendly advice time.

Ridiculous!!!"

I wish everyone would not tarnish us all the same.

She,s cheating,end of. To us a stopper and others like us.

There's a few single ladies on here that have been advised and contact ceased before we met and had fun.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Show him your profile and introduce him to your FB "

This, How do you think he will feel that you have a FB and are cheating on him ?

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By *unmeisterMan
over a year ago

London & West Midlands

If he shows any signs of being possessive don't even go there........or there might be no way back..........................................................
"I'm in a steady relationship with a lovely guy who's already into toys and latex. How do I tell him I want us to go Swinging together?"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This is the perfect example of double standards on Fab!!!!

Guys asks question all the time and there is a barrage of 'she loves swinging mate, we've had her several times on her single profile'

Yet when a female who is clearly here with someone other that her 'steady' boyfriend it's all friendly advice time.

Ridiculous!!!"

I'm inclined to agree and I'm guilty of it because I didn't read the profile before I replied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he shows any signs of being possessive don't even go there........or there might be no way back..........................................................I'm in a steady relationship with a lovely guy who's already into toys and latex. How do I tell him I want us to go Swinging together?"

Im really failing to see what you mean by this post?

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