FabSwingers.com forum: Do single Guys normally hold Parties ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it unusual for a Single Guy to hold a Party for Couples etc, just being curious at the moment

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By *uintillianMan
over a year ago

washington services

Dunno but i have a venue if anyones interested-just off the A1-M 2 mins away from washington services

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it unusual for a Single Guy to hold a Party for Couples etc, just being curious at the moment

We don't think it's unusual, we've been to quite a few in cardiff held at a single guys place xx

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I wish more would do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of single guys host parties the only thing we don't understand is when a single guy holds a party but will not invite other single guys, we see that as "having an ulterior motive" and would not go to such a party on principle. Personal view of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

something im very very interested in doing , alhtough being a single guy i think can make it difficult , would single women and couples actually come to a single guys ??? hope so would be fun , so from a single guys point of view i dont know any that have did it but liking the thinking there .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Loads of single guys host parties the only thing we don't understand is when a single guy holds a party but will not invite other single guys, we see that as "having an ulterior motive" and would not go to such a party on principle. Personal view of course"

A fair and valid point as usual from you guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

few single guys in cardiff always hold parties but usually invite couples and single fems xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to host years ago when I was in my previous flat, before the internet; on the phone lines. I would have to know the people first & had chatted to them for a bit before doing it. I'll accomodate for singles, 3-somes maybe 4-5 but not more than that in a small flat. A 4 poster double bed and a sofa bed can only cope with so much ROFL. & then you have to think about saftey and not wanting it to turn into a d*unken piss up with folk getting pushy/aggressive. Accomodating folk can be bloody hard work to be honest.

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

sounds like an ace idea, and something i'd consider maybe at sometime

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

I have had parties at my house

usualy 4 cpls that i know and will have single males there if the cpls want them

its about getting the right mix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been to a party held by a single guy, had a very good time too.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

accomodating folk can be difficult no matter who organises the party

I used to organise socials in brum and the time it takes to organise FOR NO FEE is astonising

But its always worth it especially if you make new friends

I intend to rent a new house from the summer where I shall be having lots of men only and ME parties x

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By *wsometwosomeCouple
over a year ago

its a village

We just had our first party and the same amount of single guys there then couples. Worked well for us and yes we would go to a party hosted by single guys if we knew them or somebody would vouce for them. But not been lucky there. So come on single guys more parties lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of single guy on here who have loads of verifications, normally they are the guys who attend clubs or parties, often the verifications show that it was them that was hosting the party so obviously successfull parties can be organised.

It's still that single guy invite question for us though, ok some couples don't want to go to parties where there are single guys and some couples only want to go to parties where there will be single guys.

Therefore I would imagine the couples that go to parties organised by a single guy would probably like a few more to be there, I think it would enhance the hosts chances to invite more as that would attract the couples who are looking for parties with single guys in attendance.

As for the balance, that's a difficult one, it is important to get the balance right but not easy, really you need to know the people coming to the party or at least chat to them in advance, 1 couple could take the energy out of 15 guys in one night, get 3 couples there who like large numbers of guys (and many of our friends do) then you need quite a lot of single men, other couples just like 2 or 3 to be available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been to parties held my single men, one use to hold them regular and invited everyone, couples, women and other single guys, the other one i only went to two of his parties but again there was couples and other single guys there

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Is it unusual for a Single Guy to hold a Party for Couples etc, just being curious at the moment

Mabye not usual but some single guys see it as a way of getting a meet by being the one hosting the venue/party. I am not geting a meet so maybe if I hold a patry things will change. Or am I being cynical lol?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it unusual for a Single Guy to hold a Party for Couples etc, just being curious at the moment

In my case your being cynical

I was just considering it and still am only considering it and mainly for my Friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it unusual for a Single Guy to hold a Party for Couples etc, just being curious at the moment

In my case your being cynical

I was just considering it and still am only considering it and mainly for my Friends

I'll be your friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I would love the chance to hold a party but sadly at this time it's not possible,

But as to the question posted yes I have seen lots of parties advertised by guys.

As for Jed n sasha's suspicions they are well founded I think the guy's mind set is invite couples and single ladies but should he invite single guys !!!! obviously the more guys the more competition.

For me it has to be a complimentary mix of couples and singles both male and female

the perfect recipe for fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

We were talking to a single guy in a club on fri that hosts his own parties and they're really popular,he has been involved with swinging for a long time and had his own club at one point

he has the pefect house for them too,secluded,plenty of rooms converted for play and a good mix of people

I did'nt for one second think that he was orgainising them for his own needs but why not enjoy them as much as the people you invite

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"We were talking to a single guy in a club on fri that hosts his own parties and they're really popular,he has been involved with swinging for a long time and had his own club at one point

he has the pefect house for them too,secluded,plenty of rooms converted for play and a good mix of people

I did'nt for one second think that he was orgainising them for his own needs but why not enjoy them as much as the people you invite

Honeys can you pm me who it was?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is a lot o single guys doing partys nothing wrong with it just the same as a single woman doing a party its a chance for them to get meets

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

By the beach

"Is it unusual for a Single Guy to hold a Party for Couples etc, just being curious at the moment

We don't think it's unusual, we've been to quite a few in cardiff held at a single guys place xx"

and there was that party in my pants too Debs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it unusual for a Single Guy to hold a Party for Couples etc, just being curious at the moment

We don't think it's unusual, we've been to quite a few in cardiff held at a single guys place xx

and there was that party in my pants too Debs

And that was something to see Toby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm a single male and i hold parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im def still considering it , mayeb try going to a club or something see if i can pick up any ideas lol

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

..usual for a Single Guy to hold a Party

..for Couples

We think it is their duty!

Love,

Janet

xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the best play parties in Yorkshire used to be held by a single male.

He's now a couple and it seems to have quitened off, shame

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By *haven767Man
over a year ago

plymouth

My only concern about inviting single males to a party held by a single male, is that it could turn out just to be full of single males!!!!!!LOL

OHHH what a pessimist!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hold 3 or 4 a year, it a good way to network and build up a circle of swinging friends

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

If a single fem held a party no one would bat an eyelid. so why not single guys..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i will be shortly hehe

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