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"Am sure it will happen soon " if you had anythin to do with it yes | |||
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"I've never had a orgasm and was wondering if anyone on here is in the same book or didn't till later in life? " I didnt have my first O until about a year ago, it was wow, I squirted and was quite shocked, Hope you will get yours soon. x | |||
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"Unless you've been to the Doctors and its a medical issue. Buy a Hitachi Magic Wand. One if those could make a brick orgasm lol" Of... Stupid phone | |||
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"Never ever lol, I've tried everything, I'm not stressed, I'm never tense, my clit does get over sensitive and then that's play over for that. I enjoy sex, I've learnt to enjoy the act instead of looking for the end result. I just wondered if I was the only one or not xx" Some women aren't able to orgasm through just clitoris stimulation, a good way I've found is to use your middle finger and ring finger together, and use them in and up and down motion on the gspot in a medium speed succession, so the index and pinky are resting on the lips of the vagina. I don't think I've met a woman who hasn't orgasmed from this, let alone combining it with the clitoris. Give it a try if you haven't already | |||
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"Never ever lol, I've tried everything, I'm not stressed, I'm never tense, my clit does get over sensitive and then that's play over for that. I enjoy sex, I've learnt to enjoy the act instead of looking for the end result. I just wondered if I was the only one or not xx" I used to advise in this and you would be amazed at how many say they haven't... Some actually had but not realised it... Mostly it's psychological and because you haven't you subconsciously want to and then can't.. so my advise would be to not worry and it will happen when it's good and ready. I have to have internal and external stimulation to orgasm and some times add other stimulation too... And often with meets don't... Although now I've got someone helping me to work on my blocks I'm finding it happens more. You mention your Clit gets to sensitive... The known women that at that point if they go past that stage they orgasm.. it's sometimes the sensations your own body gives you that causes you to stop just because. Just enjoy things and try new things.. | |||
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"Never ever lol, I've tried everything, I'm not stressed, I'm never tense, my clit does get over sensitive and then that's play over for that. I enjoy sex, I've learnt to enjoy the act instead of looking for the end result. I just wondered if I was the only one or not xx" Shame we can't message you, maybe you need your mind stimulating as much as your body. Come and have a night out with us. | |||
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"I've never had a orgasm and was wondering if anyone on here is in the same book or didn't till later in life? " Years and years ago, but then reg sex with oh. since here not to my knowledge ive not felt the earth move | |||
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"the primal release of a deep intense orgasm with squirting is fantastic, the little ears on the rampant rabbits are easier on over sensitive clit, go treat yourself, get a lot of towels on the bed" I've got a rabbit tho lost the bit holds battery's. tbh didn't see what fuss was about much prefer a guy. Also doesnt help I live with parents so solo fun I'm worried bout gettin caught. Awkward one to explain x | |||
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"I was very naïve in my twenties and thirties, never even new what an orgasm was, let alone have one It wasn't until I hit my forties that I met someone who opened my eyes to how good sex can be and now there's no stopping me and I'm still finding new things out at 51 " That's just like me (Jill) - thank god we found out !! | |||
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"Help im same!! I havnt squirted but feel like cum but without extreme orgasm feelin. I'm same as op get over sensitive clit need to stop bein touched. Also find get close to in that I feel need to pee. But then find I'm concentrating on not peeing that I can't relax " I no the peeing thing lol, I was told once that I was actually about to squirt so tried to get past it but actually just peed a little lol. Ladies when you do squirt what's the liquid like/smell like? (That's a awful question to try and write with out sounding wrong lol) xx | |||
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"Help im same!! I havnt squirted but feel like cum but without extreme orgasm feelin. I'm same as op get over sensitive clit need to stop bein touched. Also find get close to in that I feel need to pee. But then find I'm concentrating on not peeing that I can't relax I no the peeing thing lol, I was told once that I was actually about to squirt so tried to get past it but actually just peed a little lol. Ladies when you do squirt what's the liquid like/smell like? (That's a awful question to try and write with out sounding wrong lol) xx " its def not pee more clear and tastes ok | |||
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" do you ever feel like you could orgasm, but the closer you get the more you brain is screaming at you to stop? until you finally give in. I don't get over sensitive but if I get too close I have to stop, but then I know my problem is psychological" Same here, am scared I think about what will happen and what I will do, have been close and could feel tears so stopped myself going further as I didn't like that at all | |||
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"Those who say they pee'd a little didn't. They squirted. " No hunny I definitely didn't squirt. X | |||
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"Lots of women dont reach orgasm and many fake because they feel embarrassed or they dont want to upset a partner who may feel its down to his lack of technique etc. As you have seen on this thread and im sure youve had messages from people advising you that 'they can cure you', once people know this they will go all out to try and force the issue, which will make it a lot worse. To reach orgasm there almost certainly has to be an amount of trust and relaxation involved. It may be more difficult to achieve meeting strangers than it would be with a long term trusted partner. If youve never reached orgasm alone, when you are most certainly relaxed, then maybe its psychological, you feel you cant get past this hypersensitivity that you feel. I was the same in my late teens. I couldnt come when I touched myself. I did try but it wasnt happening as quickly as I thought it should. One day I was just lying there, lazily touching myself, not necessarily concentrating on that but feel content and happy. It did happen and I think it was because I wasnt putting pressure on myself to force it, I wasnt particularly expecting it etc. If it doesnt worry you or isnt an issue then let it be. Just enjoy sex and dont put pressure on yourself to achieve orgasm. Learn to accept that it may not happen and maybe one day it will. " Id like one with a guy, whether mindblowing or not. Id like to know if its possible for me or not | |||
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"Never ever lol, I've tried everything, I'm not stressed, I'm never tense, my clit does get over sensitive and then that's play over for that. I enjoy sex, I've learnt to enjoy the act instead of looking for the end result. I just wondered if I was the only one or not xx I totally agree, met a lady who says she had never orgasmed and she was done in no time at al, i did wonder if she was tellig the truth but i take her at face value, you can even use the palm of hand over the clit as well as fingers inside to get double the fun, massaging the gspot and oral fun I have always fun does the trick and has any lady quivering Some women aren't able to orgasm through just clitoris stimulation, a good way I've found is to use your middle finger and ring finger together, and use them in and up and down motion on the gspot in a medium speed succession, so the index and pinky are resting on the lips of the vagina. I don't think I've met a woman who hasn't orgasmed from this, let alone combining it with the clitoris. Give it a try if you haven't already " | |||
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"I've never had a orgasm and was wondering if anyone on here is in the same book or didn't till later in life? " well ummmm ... your in manchester.. AND IM IN MANCHESTER! lol you had one yet? . . now? . . . . . how about .... now? . . . close? hehe x Just chill, get your feet up, think some dirty dirrrrty thoughts and see where your imagination take you. Failing that .. IM IN MANCHESTER! lolo | |||
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"Never at all? Or just never with a guy? I can make myself cum in seconds but take a lot longer with a guy x " I thought we were good at something | |||
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"I've never had a orgasm and was wondering if anyone on here is in the same book or didn't till later in life? " Look get yourself a good toy ann summers shop and start to find out what you like playing with yourself ..... maybe get a porn dvd if you like that look at the same time ......... may be it will take time to feel relaxed and happy but over time feel normal relaxed and that's when things start to happen , GOOD LUCK X | |||
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"I didn't until about ten years ago. I had to learn to cum with a vibe and still only just learning to cum from oral. " show me videos so i can rate ur progress | |||
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"A girlfriend in my past had never climaxed. It took me a while but I discovered leaving her clit alone, almost no foreplay around genitals or breasts but gentle, firm massage elsewhere and lots of passionate kissing. A short while of that then unannounced penetration and she would cum hard. It was totally unintuitive, if you like it was more like a quickie ... The more sexual organ stimulation the less chance of an orgasm. Perhaps try that, perhaps you are so sensitive there that you can't take direct stimulation. Of course, being the tart I am I would be more than willing to be your partner to try this. Dave " or just take a heavy fisting | |||
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"Unless you've been to the Doctors and its a medical issue. Buy a Hitachi Magic Wand. One if those could make a brick orgasm lol" Lol , true !! | |||
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"I was very naïve in my twenties and thirties, never even new what an orgasm was, let alone have one It wasn't until I hit my forties that I met someone who opened my eyes to how good sex can be and now there's no stopping me and I'm still finding new things out at 51 " Same here | |||
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"Lol doesn't look good for your three verifications, hehehe we all know who you are!!!!!hehehe, sorry couldn't resist.... " Not nice. Very insensitive ! | |||
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"A lady I used to know never had one, she got to a point where it felt great but was never an orgasm and she backed off because it was too sensitive to go on. After talking I suggested as long as it doesn't hurt keep trying to go on through the sensitivity, after a bit she did this and had a big relief it was as though her mind was putting some mental block in place. Obviously everyone is very very different. I'm not a lady so not even going to pretend to understand but that's something I've heard/seen so not sure if that's of any help. You will have them given time, not worth worrying about it, as a guy if I over worry and stress I become far too sensitve and I can't orgasm too or it takes a long long time. It's just like I used to worry a lot that I cum too quick, this added to the problem, I used to try everything thinking of anything else but sex to slow me down but it never helped. One day I thought what the hell there's nothing that works let it be, suddenly I didn't cum so quick. So the mind is a lot to play too I think x" That is a very nice, understanding thread | |||
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"Lol doesn't look good for your three verifications, hehehe we all know who you are!!!!!hehehe, sorry couldn't resist.... " My veris where amazing in bed, 2 of them new the script so focussed on us having a good time. If I meet a guy who just aims to make me O I get bored and loose interest. Ladies I no this is a weird request but could you let me how you feel when you O, I presume everybody's will feel different? X | |||
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