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By *aughtylittleme OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

I've never had a orgasm and was wondering if anyone on here is in the same book or didn't till later in life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am sure it will happen soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am sure it will happen soon "
if you had anythin to do with it yes

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Never at all? Or just never with a guy? I can make myself cum in seconds but take a lot longer with a guy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take things slow , relax , talk to your partner tell them what turns you on etc use lots of foreplay to get really relaxed and just try and let your body go , it will come natural one day and just happen , don't worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was very naïve in my twenties and thirties, never even new what an orgasm was, let alone have one It wasn't until I hit my forties that I met someone who opened my eyes to how good sex can be and now there's no stopping me and I'm still finding new things out at 51

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a orgasm and was wondering if anyone on here is in the same book or didn't till later in life?

"

I didnt have my first O until about a year ago, it was wow, I squirted and was quite shocked, Hope you will get yours soon. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've tried experimenting by yourself to reach orgasm but not been successful? Or you've not reached orgasm with a man?

I'm sure there is a plentiful amount of men or couples on here who would spend alot of time with you, getting you relaxed and stimulating you to the point of climax, as the saying goes, if you don't ask you don't get!!

I hope you experience it soon and love every minute of it.

Tom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are not alone, I didn't have my first O until I was over 40!

I felt too shy to talk to my husband (ex now) about what I wanted, and to be honest didn't know myself x

practice!!! That's the key x enjoy

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Unless you've been to the Doctors and its a medical issue. Buy a Hitachi Magic Wand. One if those could make a brick orgasm lol

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Unless you've been to the Doctors and its a medical issue. Buy a Hitachi Magic Wand. One if those could make a brick orgasm lol"

Of... Stupid phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we try? Come to bed with us and we will use our extensive experience to make it happen.

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By *aughtylittleme OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Never ever lol, I've tried everything, I'm not stressed, I'm never tense, my clit does get over sensitive and then that's play over for that.

I enjoy sex, I've learnt to enjoy the act instead of looking for the end result. I just wondered if I was the only one or not xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shaz had never had an orgasm until she met me and it took me a while before I stumbled across a way that will get her there within a minute.

We been on this scene going on 9 year now and only a handful of blokes ever managed to get her there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never ever lol, I've tried everything, I'm not stressed, I'm never tense, my clit does get over sensitive and then that's play over for that.

I enjoy sex, I've learnt to enjoy the act instead of looking for the end result. I just wondered if I was the only one or not xx"

Some women aren't able to orgasm through just clitoris stimulation, a good way I've found is to use your middle finger and ring finger together, and use them in and up and down motion on the gspot in a medium speed succession, so the index and pinky are resting on the lips of the vagina. I don't think I've met a woman who hasn't orgasmed from this, let alone combining it with the clitoris. Give it a try if you haven't already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never ever lol, I've tried everything, I'm not stressed, I'm never tense, my clit does get over sensitive and then that's play over for that.

I enjoy sex, I've learnt to enjoy the act instead of looking for the end result. I just wondered if I was the only one or not xx"

I used to advise in this and you would be amazed at how many say they haven't... Some actually had but not realised it... Mostly it's psychological and because you haven't you subconsciously want to and then can't..

so my advise would be to not worry and it will happen when it's good and ready.

I have to have internal and external stimulation to orgasm and some times add other stimulation too... And often with meets don't... Although now I've got someone helping me to work on my blocks I'm finding it happens more.

You mention your Clit gets to sensitive... The known women that at that point if they go past that stage they orgasm.. it's sometimes the sensations your own body gives you that causes you to stop just because.

Just enjoy things and try new things..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never ever lol, I've tried everything, I'm not stressed, I'm never tense, my clit does get over sensitive and then that's play over for that.

I enjoy sex, I've learnt to enjoy the act instead of looking for the end result. I just wondered if I was the only one or not xx"

Shame we can't message you, maybe you need your mind stimulating as much as your body. Come and have a night out with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wonder with this - how do you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a orgasm and was wondering if anyone on here is in the same book or didn't till later in life?

"

Years and years ago, but then reg sex with oh. since here not to my knowledge ive not felt the earth move

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By *r and Mrs BiteMeCouple
over a year ago

Belbroughton, Stourbridge

I haven't either x Pretty much similar I get to a certain point and have to stop - and will stop lol we have tried lots of things to try and stop me from being about to stop x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if u squirt thats an orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if u squirt thats an orgasm"

For you

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

OMG Sugar has always been able to orgasm with clitoral stimulation, it took a while from penetration but for the last 20 years she orgasms virtually every time now, couldn't imagine her not doing lol

I would try different angles of penetration and see if they work, as if your clitoris is very sensitive it may be difficult for you to achieve it that way xx

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

first age 29 with vibrator I never looked back and have them constantly now, fantastic but often wet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U have never had me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Help im same!! I havnt squirted but feel like cum but without extreme orgasm feelin. I'm same as op get over sensitive clit need to stop bein touched. Also find get close to in that I feel need to pee. But then find I'm concentrating on not peeing that I can't relax

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

the primal release of a deep intense orgasm with squirting is fantastic, the little ears on the rampant rabbits are easier on over sensitive clit, go treat yourself, get a lot of towels on the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the primal release of a deep intense orgasm with squirting is fantastic, the little ears on the rampant rabbits are easier on over sensitive clit, go treat yourself, get a lot of towels on the bed"

I've got a rabbit tho lost the bit holds battery's. tbh didn't see what fuss was about much prefer a guy. Also doesnt help I live with parents so solo fun I'm worried bout gettin caught. Awkward one to explain x

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By *wingersrus465Couple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I was very naïve in my twenties and thirties, never even new what an orgasm was, let alone have one It wasn't until I hit my forties that I met someone who opened my eyes to how good sex can be and now there's no stopping me and I'm still finding new things out at 51 "

That's just like me (Jill) - thank god we found out !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't have my first orgasm till I was 35 I think, I always thought there was something wrong with me, I can now make myself cum quite easy but its still hit and miss on wether a guy can make me cum, it does happen just takes more time than most guys are willing to put in

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By *aughtylittleme OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Help im same!! I havnt squirted but feel like cum but without extreme orgasm feelin. I'm same as op get over sensitive clit need to stop bein touched. Also find get close to in that I feel need to pee. But then find I'm concentrating on not peeing that I can't relax "

I no the peeing thing lol, I was told once that I was actually about to squirt so tried to get past it but actually just peed a little lol.

Ladies when you do squirt what's the liquid like/smell like? (That's a awful question to try and write with out sounding wrong lol) xx

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

It is interesting what you have said some of the most difficult ladies to help orgasm have an over sensitive clit , rub or lick beyond that of a whisper and they cannot cum X I would suggest you have the key to your own orgasm g would suggest you self play twice daily till you hit the spot xx then I will be happy to listen and help with you X

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford


"Help im same!! I havnt squirted but feel like cum but without extreme orgasm feelin. I'm same as op get over sensitive clit need to stop bein touched. Also find get close to in that I feel need to pee. But then find I'm concentrating on not peeing that I can't relax

I no the peeing thing lol, I was told once that I was actually about to squirt so tried to get past it but actually just peed a little lol.

Ladies when you do squirt what's the liquid like/smell like? (That's a awful question to try and write with out sounding wrong lol) xx

"

its def not pee more clear and tastes ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby was the first one to give me an orgasm....probably why i married him lol. I hope you do get the chance to experiance one

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By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Those who say they pee'd a little didn't. They squirted. It's quite natural to worry about it because it's hard to differentiate but let it happen.

Also "Her" didn't orgasm till her late 20's and it was the "too much" sensation from clitoral stimulation that stopped it. She stayed with it past that stage and voila!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been told I squirt & gush. When im on my own (rarely), if im playing, previously on cam with a guy doing the same, I do feel something but don't feel the same when im with a guy. I get that feeling from persistent play with clitoris, so maybe that's whats needed, but im too shy to tell em and no-one ever asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't ever either and I am 52 now. I just think so long as I enjoy have sex and have a good time, its no big deal. Thousands of women go through life without ever having one and if I am one of them so be it. One cannot miss what one has never had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't orgasm till I got shut of the ex and bought my first vibe... I honestly thought I was having a heart attack... Rang up my friend and she couldn't stop laughing at me.... guess the ex never reached the spot... Now I orgasm all the time and got a bloody expert at reaching the climax myself plus luckily have had some fabulous playmates and past bf who have made me orgasm and squirt and gush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you ever feel like you could orgasm, but the closer you get the more you brain is screaming at you to stop? until you finally give in.

I don't get over sensitive but if I get too close I have to stop, but then I know my problem is psychological

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" do you ever feel like you could orgasm, but the closer you get the more you brain is screaming at you to stop? until you finally give in.

I don't get over sensitive but if I get too close I have to stop, but then I know my problem is psychological"

Same here, am scared I think about what will happen and what I will do, have been close and could feel tears so stopped myself going further as I didn't like that at all

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Ladies. We are lucky and can orgasm in so many different ways.

I like you all can, I also used to find it extremely difficult to release, but it is just a state of mind really. I have had partners hold me down as the feeling gets so intense my immediate reaction is to stop it. This then leads to wave after wave of orgasm. With a partner you can trust that all he wants to do is pleasure you the feeling is intense. Tying me down has led to orgasms so intense it has made me weep. That is with clitoral stimulation along with fingers at the same time inside me.

Now the other type can totally wipe you out (I know it does me as I fall asleep quite quickly afterwards). With this one you can feel it building up, I personally have the feeling I want to pee, but know I don't really. Instead of clenching your pelvic muscles, push instead. He will be able to feel you pushing and I believe it's a nice sensation for him as well.

Lastly - buy a wand, either use it solo, with attachments or even best whilst you are having penetrative sex. This method almost guarantees me an orgasm every time.

But the key to having an orgasm is you. It really is a mental state of mind. I hope some of these tips help you. Treat it as a voyage of discovery. Spend time getting to know your body, if it gets too intense for you, let someone else help you along the way.

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By *aughtylittleme OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

The closest I ever (think) I got was a guy between my legs, playing with my clit with his tongue, 2fingers in my pussy and one in my bum but that all got to much and I made him stop (why I don't no lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me three years to finally climax and 5 to squirt but iv only squirted with 3 guys (one a partner) and iv orgasmed with a handful :/ now if im playing myself takes minutes to orgasm but I dont squirt with diy

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By *aughtylittleme OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Those who say they pee'd a little didn't. They squirted. "

No hunny I definitely didn't squirt. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard a lot of ideas that are meant to help, but honestly I know what my problem is, and I'm so used too not having orgasms most of the time it didn't even bother me anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of women dont reach orgasm and many fake because they feel embarrassed or they dont want to upset a partner who may feel its down to his lack of technique etc.

As you have seen on this thread and im sure youve had messages from people advising you that 'they can cure you', once people know this they will go all out to try and force the issue, which will make it a lot worse. To reach orgasm there almost certainly has to be an amount of trust and relaxation involved. It may be more difficult to achieve meeting strangers than it would be with a long term trusted partner.

If youve never reached orgasm alone, when you are most certainly relaxed, then maybe its psychological, you feel you cant get past this hypersensitivity that you feel. I was the same in my late teens. I couldnt come when I touched myself. I did try but it wasnt happening as quickly as I thought it should. One day I was just lying there, lazily touching myself, not necessarily concentrating on that but feel content and happy. It did happen and I think it was because I wasnt putting pressure on myself to force it, I wasnt particularly expecting it etc.

If it doesnt worry you or isnt an issue then let it be. Just enjoy sex and dont put pressure on yourself to achieve orgasm. Learn to accept that it may not happen and maybe one day it will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of women dont reach orgasm and many fake because they feel embarrassed or they dont want to upset a partner who may feel its down to his lack of technique etc.

As you have seen on this thread and im sure youve had messages from people advising you that 'they can cure you', once people know this they will go all out to try and force the issue, which will make it a lot worse. To reach orgasm there almost certainly has to be an amount of trust and relaxation involved. It may be more difficult to achieve meeting strangers than it would be with a long term trusted partner.

If youve never reached orgasm alone, when you are most certainly relaxed, then maybe its psychological, you feel you cant get past this hypersensitivity that you feel. I was the same in my late teens. I couldnt come when I touched myself. I did try but it wasnt happening as quickly as I thought it should. One day I was just lying there, lazily touching myself, not necessarily concentrating on that but feel content and happy. It did happen and I think it was because I wasnt putting pressure on myself to force it, I wasnt particularly expecting it etc.

If it doesnt worry you or isnt an issue then let it be. Just enjoy sex and dont put pressure on yourself to achieve orgasm. Learn to accept that it may not happen and maybe one day it will.

"

Id like one with a guy, whether mindblowing or not. Id like to know if its possible for me or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never ever lol, I've tried everything, I'm not stressed, I'm never tense, my clit does get over sensitive and then that's play over for that.

I enjoy sex, I've learnt to enjoy the act instead of looking for the end result. I just wondered if I was the only one or not xx

I totally agree, met a lady who says she had never orgasmed and she was done in no time at al, i did wonder if she was tellig the truth but i take her at face value, you can even use the palm of hand over the clit as well as fingers inside to get double the fun, massaging the gspot and oral fun I have always fun does the trick and has any lady quivering

Some women aren't able to orgasm through just clitoris stimulation, a good way I've found is to use your middle finger and ring finger together, and use them in and up and down motion on the gspot in a medium speed succession, so the index and pinky are resting on the lips of the vagina. I don't think I've met a woman who hasn't orgasmed from this, let alone combining it with the clitoris. Give it a try if you haven't already "

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I've never had a orgasm and was wondering if anyone on here is in the same book or didn't till later in life?

"

well ummmm ... your in manchester.. AND IM IN MANCHESTER! lol

you had one yet?

.

.

now?

. . . . . how about .... now?

.

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.

close?

hehe x

Just chill, get your feet up, think some dirty dirrrrty thoughts and see where your imagination take you. Failing that .. IM IN MANCHESTER! lolo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never at all? Or just never with a guy? I can make myself cum in seconds but take a lot longer with a guy x "

I thought we were good at something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a orgasm and was wondering if anyone on here is in the same book or didn't till later in life?

"

Look get yourself a good toy ann summers shop and start to find out what you like playing with yourself ..... maybe get a porn dvd if you like that look at the same time ......... may be it will take time to feel relaxed and happy but over time feel normal relaxed and that's when things start to happen , GOOD LUCK X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't know what you're aiming for it can be difficult. I tried for years alone and with guys to have an orgasm and I just didn't know how to relax, when something started to feel good - at the time it just felt strange. My first had no build up, it was just same old feeling and then BAM out of nowhere I could feel it about to happen. Once I knew what the feeling was, I could anticipate what would do the job and learn how to make myself do it. I still have trouble when being watched or when someone else is doing the work but sometimes just imagining how good it's gonna feel makes you get there - cause you know what the end result is gonna be.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Also not everyone orgasms clitorally or even vaginally. Try perhaps more g spot or deeper or shallower or nipple play. Also when masturbating lying on your back isn't only way, I find better on my side or lying on front. Also in n out might not do it for you, try circles or beckoning motion with fingers inside. Hth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you never made ya self cum? Maybe you should find out ya self what you like xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady I used to know never had one, she got to a point where it felt great but was never an orgasm and she backed off because it was too sensitive to go on. After talking I suggested as long as it doesn't hurt keep trying to go on through the sensitivity, after a bit she did this and had a big relief it was as though her mind was putting some mental block in place. Obviously everyone is very very different. I'm not a lady so not even going to pretend to understand but that's something I've heard/seen so not sure if that's of any help.

You will have them given time, not worth worrying about it, as a guy if I over worry and stress I become far too sensitve and I can't orgasm too or it takes a long long time.

It's just like I used to worry a lot that I cum too quick, this added to the problem, I used to try everything thinking of anything else but sex to slow me down but it never helped. One day I thought what the hell there's nothing that works let it be, suddenly I didn't cum so quick. So the mind is a lot to play too I think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't until about ten years ago. I had to learn to cum with a vibe and still only just learning to cum from oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't until about ten years ago. I had to learn to cum with a vibe and still only just learning to cum from oral. "

show me videos so i can rate ur progress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girlfriend in my past had never climaxed. It took me a while but I discovered leaving her clit alone, almost no foreplay around genitals or breasts but gentle, firm massage elsewhere and lots of passionate kissing. A short while of that then unannounced penetration and she would cum hard.

It was totally unintuitive, if you like it was more like a quickie ... The more sexual organ stimulation the less chance of an orgasm.

Perhaps try that, perhaps you are so sensitive there that you can't take direct stimulation.

Of course, being the tart I am I would be more than willing to be your partner to try this.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girlfriend in my past had never climaxed. It took me a while but I discovered leaving her clit alone, almost no foreplay around genitals or breasts but gentle, firm massage elsewhere and lots of passionate kissing. A short while of that then unannounced penetration and she would cum hard.

It was totally unintuitive, if you like it was more like a quickie ... The more sexual organ stimulation the less chance of an orgasm.

Perhaps try that, perhaps you are so sensitive there that you can't take direct stimulation.

Of course, being the tart I am I would be more than willing to be your partner to try this.

Dave

"

or just take a heavy fisting

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Unless you've been to the Doctors and its a medical issue. Buy a Hitachi Magic Wand. One if those could make a brick orgasm lol"

Lol , true !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol doesn't look good for your three verifications, hehehe we all know who you are!!!!!hehehe, sorry couldn't resist....

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By *aula.ceciliaWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

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By *aula.ceciliaWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

ince my GCS I have not had an orgasm, many women tell me they have never had one either. What I can get is an immense feeling of pleasure that i can keep going for a very long time, somewhat similar to what i used to experience immediately before ejaculation.

I assume that there is more,, a release perhaps??

I dont know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was very naïve in my twenties and thirties, never even new what an orgasm was, let alone have one It wasn't until I hit my forties that I met someone who opened my eyes to how good sex can be and now there's no stopping me and I'm still finding new things out at 51 "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol doesn't look good for your three verifications, hehehe we all know who you are!!!!!hehehe, sorry couldn't resist....

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Not nice. Very insensitive !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does take me a long time and I don't respond well to the line "cum for me baby" but then some just have the right touch.

I think with a woman a lot is what happens in her mind. Get your mind screaming with desire and you are almost there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lady I used to know never had one, she got to a point where it felt great but was never an orgasm and she backed off because it was too sensitive to go on. After talking I suggested as long as it doesn't hurt keep trying to go on through the sensitivity, after a bit she did this and had a big relief it was as though her mind was putting some mental block in place. Obviously everyone is very very different. I'm not a lady so not even going to pretend to understand but that's something I've heard/seen so not sure if that's of any help.

You will have them given time, not worth worrying about it, as a guy if I over worry and stress I become far too sensitve and I can't orgasm too or it takes a long long time.

It's just like I used to worry a lot that I cum too quick, this added to the problem, I used to try everything thinking of anything else but sex to slow me down but it never helped. One day I thought what the hell there's nothing that works let it be, suddenly I didn't cum so quick. So the mind is a lot to play too I think x"

That is a very nice, understanding thread

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

31st july is national orgasm day !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

highly unlikely i will come with a guy unless I have got myself into a state mentally beforehand. DIY i can cum fairly quick. but not when i was on my anti depressants. gave up when my arm was ready to fall off. been off them six weeks now and going blind with hairy hands from self love, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and for me, squirting doesn't mean orgasm. still haven't figured out exactly what it's all about as it is completely different fluid from when i do cum. i still think it is more a pee substance....

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By *aughtylittleme OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Lol doesn't look good for your three verifications, hehehe we all know who you are!!!!!hehehe, sorry couldn't resist....

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My veris where amazing in bed, 2 of them new the script so focussed on us having a good time. If I meet a guy who just aims to make me O I get bored and loose interest.

Ladies I no this is a weird request but could you let me how you feel when you O, I presume everybody's will feel different? X

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By *ydesubMan
over a year ago

glossop

I know this is in the wrong post and prob won't get reply's but here goes, I'm a male that can't orgasm while having oral sex, I'm fine with intercourse and playing but when receiving oral I can go for hours without cumming or I get sensitive and feel like I need to pee! Anyone else have this problem,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

without knowing you, my guess (r writing) is that nobody has put your mind in the right space before asking your body to go there.....x x

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