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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Firstly id like to say hi to everyone on here! Im a single guy (yes another one!). Im genuinely interested in getting into the scene but not sure about how to go about it. Also id like any advice you can give me on my profile and contacting people. So fire away guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 photos of your dick and one photo (tiny) of a torso ...

Don't wish to be rude - but they are not the kind of photos that most folks want to see.

Yes show your dick by all means, but is that the only body part that you posess ? Are you just a dick, balls and torso ? Are there amy arms legs, backside head (face if you wish to show it) ..... ?

Lets be fair we all know what a cock and balls looks like, we all know that men have a cock and balls ..

Get some decent photos my friend ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your post contradicts your profile ... on here you say you're new and want to get into the scene but don't know how - and on your profile you say you're NOT new to the scene. So which is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This feels just like another, "Er yeah I might seem like the rest of em with my pics of my twig and berries on the old profile but I'm not like the rest of em (honest)"

Why not just go to a swing club like Isis if you're in Leeds or head down to La Chambre?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not new to the scene and enjoy meeting new people for fun and games"

"I want to get into the scene"

Which is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well iv had a meet from here with a couple, which was fun but want to get into the social side of it more. So i would say im new to it! Cheers for the feed back, i shall make some amendments to my profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your post contradicts your profile ... on here you say you're new and want to get into the scene but don't know how - and on your profile you say you're NOT new to the scene. So which is it?"

Cannot be that new - 'es been on 'ere for over a year ... (puzzled face) - Another, "Hello, I am here" thread ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True i have been on here over a year, stopped using it for around 8months due to no internet! To be fair guys i posted this for some genuine help. Not to get blasted! Constructive criticism please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should this be on this thread or the Meet thread ?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Well he is asking for advice so this would be the place for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he has been on here over a year now, I dont think advice is going to help him, in 1 year he obviously hasnt bothered reading or trying any of the advice given to the many people who have asked the same question. ok if not the meet forum how about the advice forum ? first bit of advice I can give is get your message in the right place

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

That is true but you could also say it is swingers chat lol

If you feel that strongly,it will take but a minute to move the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

And voila!! the thread has moved as if by magic to the advice forum lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dunno ...its getting to the point now where im thinking ...is it safe to post ANYTHING on these boards without someone having a go ?

jim

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Yeh Jim wanna make summat of it? lol xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dunno ...its getting to the point now where im thinking ...is it safe to post ANYTHING on these boards without someone having a go ?

jim"

have to say i am in full agreement here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the guy asked a question ....nowhere in his question does it say he is new to the scene..why have a pop?...fgs we all swingers ...

thanks jands btw for the support

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone who has given me genuine advice, it does feel though alot of ppl on here just use the forums to have a go at ppl! Why? Surely they are here to help!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Thanks to everyone who has given me genuine advice, it does feel though alot of ppl on here just use the forums to have a go at ppl! Why? Surely they are here to help! "

As I havn't given you any advice as yet and I don't want you to think we're all horrible because we're not

Can you change your pic arpund cos its giving me neck ache? lol

Also join in with the forums or at least have a read through them,they can be quite enlightening and lots of us are lovely and welcoming

Try the chat rooms as well and get yourself known around here or put yourself down for a social...if you put the effort into it you will generally get lots back from it

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the guy asked a question ....nowhere in his question does it say he is new to the scene..why have a pop?...fgs we all swingers ...

thanks jands btw for the support "

Your right - it doesn't say he's new but it implies that he is .. he does say that he's interested in getting into the scene ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True i have been on here over a year, stopped using it for around 8months due to no internet! To be fair guys i posted this for some genuine help. Not to get blasted! Constructive criticism please."

I really don't think you've been 'blasted' I personally have critcised your photos while others have questioned your 'newness' to the scene .......

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It looks liky you have took some comments on board already by the change of your profile pictures.

Honey gives great advice on her post.

As for people questioning what you put, that is understandable as it seemed a bit contradictory at first and no one can give advice if they are not sure of what your are asking.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is true but you could also say it is swingers chat lol

If you feel that strongly,it will take but a minute to move the thread "

No no no not bothered, its that written word thing sounding harsher than you meant it too, It was meant as advice, ie asking for advice in the advice forums might get better results, asking about meets in the meets forum and so on, I just thought he might get better results that way.

Jed loves ya all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I promise I wasn't blasting you OP but just confused as to your swinging status - ie new or not? So I asked the question.

Hope you've found any advice given useful in finding what you're looking for

xx

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