FabSwingers.com forum: What is soft swing ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi,

I have had trouble staying hard when close to another erect cock, although I am considering bi-curios giving HJ, BJ may help with that.

I have noticed some say softswing and know I can fuck my FWBs in a public place with lots of others.

So I am wondering what softswing is. Is it same room, no swap just play with who you bought or is it swap but only oral, massage, etc and no penetration ?

Thanks,

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swing definitions tend to vary - but generally it encompasses all but penetration!

Not - as some misunderstand - playing when you can't get it up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

I have had trouble staying hard when close to another erect cock, although I am considering bi-curios giving HJ, BJ may help with that.

I have noticed some say softswing and know I can fuck my FWBs in a public place with lots of others.

So I am wondering what softswing is. Is it same room, no swap just play with who you bought or is it swap but only oral, massage, etc and no penetration ?

Thanks,

Dave

Forget exploring Soft Swinging. I'd be trying to find out what is stopping me getting an erection 'in company' - specifically male company - if I were in your position. Although not War & Peace, your post has enough clues in it to make me think there is something psychological going on, and I actually think if you push yourself into a soft meet you could be building even more of a brick wall to getting a hard on than if you try to sort out what the underlying problem is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just think its that I don't find lens erections a turn on. Now a mf or mff I have no issue at all ...

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

So why are you looking for couples if you can't get it up in front of a man?

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

Soft swing definitions tend to vary - but generally it encompasses all but penetration!

Thats our interpretation as well.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Its not uncommon for guys to lose their stiffys, we can hold an audition with 20 guys and maybe only 2 out of that amount will be able to keep a stiffy with condom for 15mins plus.

Just relax and keep diving in because it does get easier, soft play might be the best option at first as it don't include intercourse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its not uncommon for guys to lose their stiffys, we can hold an audition with 20 guys and maybe only 2 out of that amount will be able to keep a stiffy with condom for 15mins plus.

Just relax and keep diving in because it does get easier, soft play might be the best option at first as it don't include intercourse.

Thanks for the advice, that is what I am doing.

In mf or mff I am rock hard, just yesterday it was 90minutes before I came. I am not a quick cummer, I am a heavy cummer and recover quick but I like to build the passion over time, have the ladies cumming over and over.

I have a suspicion that with another erect cock the urgency of his need to fuck switches off my need to build teasing passion.

So, perhaps its the guy. If its not rushed, if the lady's pleasure is the focus, if she is excited by two I suspect it will be ok. Just not experienced that yet. As a giver of pleasure rather than a taker of pleasure I think it needs to be slowed right down to stay horny ... Weird, eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 61 yrs old. Still very sexually active (no pills) & still learning! If you do everthing to turn your partner on & they do same for you. Always works for me.

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