swingers club first visit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Planning on going to my local swingers club next Sat night.first visit,single guy any advice for me please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't prowl, be very polite at all times and only watch those that are playing openly and publically if you want to watch. If they are behind closed doors don't try and peer through a window.

I visit Kestrel quite often and I have always taken a friend with benefits with me. We attract small groups of single men and its unpleasant.

If they were a little less pushy then who knows, perhaps I would share.

Dave

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By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Be friendly and do your approaching in a social area. If you wait till the fun starts and become a silent follower it's off-putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same question about 6 months ago. Don't be shy, introduce yourself and be yourself. Don't expect to get to play on your first night, just enjoy it for what it is and see what happens. Enjoy it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks guys for your advice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be polite, don't take offence at refusal and above all if someone says "no" then dont ask again half hour later.

We were at our club on Friday and one guy asked 3 times in the space of a couple of hours.

One last thing, relax and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be social, like you would in any other social setting. Talk about the weather etc. Don't be so blatant about what your there for. It's very off putting and shows a lack of respect. X

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