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"hi i know but how do you find this information out there has to be somewhere i can get it from but i understand the why? it is kept a secret Jen " it is not discussed in public as services such as the police use the info and the dogging areas are then busted. | |||
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"ok well one mod says dont post the info in public the other says pass it to anyone ie a police officer who opened a new account 5 minutes ago claiming to be a dogging couple I am confused ?" And a police officer couldn't get him/herself verified on the site ??? I don't think it would be beyond the realms of possibility | |||
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"ok well one mod says dont post the info in public the other says pass it to anyone ie a police officer who opened a new account 5 minutes ago claiming to be a dogging couple I am confused ?" Actually Jed, I said dont take any notice of people who place too much importance on verifications as sometimes as another thread on here proves, they could be worthless. What I did say was.........people will tell you places to go dogging, not once did I say post it publically, mainly from the fact that isn't a wise thing to do for obvious reasons. Another mod advised the same thing,they will help the person as he knows some areas but to keep it private.... not anything different. So don't twist my words. I don't know if you have ever been dogging, but dogging is totally different than swinging. If people don't share information about the sites, then we won't know where they are. As we should all be adults on this site, then adults should use their COMMON SENSE rather than the need to only speak with people who are members of the "elite" group and share information with people about dogging sites if they know it. An adults common sense includes noticing wether a profile is only five minutes old, we don't need anyone in the "elite" club to tell us that. | |||
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"Well i have been validated so i am a player. also i have had some pm on here so thank you to them who did and i hope to see you out one night soon this week in fact. the thing is i am going to be on my own is this safe and will someone approach me. Jen " Hi Jen. I would be really careful if you are going on your own. Is there no one who wants to go with you? If you manage to get a couple who you can verify on cam that they are ( not take anyone elses word for it, but actually view them on cam) on this site who go dogging in your area, maybe you could meet up with them in a neutral place before you go to a dogging site? Or couple up with a man you have met from here ( if you have ) and go with him? Alternativly, if you are going to go on your own, be safe, lock all doors and don't open any unless you are ready to. You are braver then me, I would only ever go with the husband, but then I suppose it would be pointless going without him as we only play together while people watch 
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"ok well one mod says dont post the info in public the other says pass it to anyone ie a police officer who opened a new account 5 minutes ago claiming to be a dogging couple I am confused ? Actually Jed, I said dont take any notice of people who place too much importance on verifications as sometimes as another thread on here proves, they could be worthless. What I did say was.........people will tell you places to go dogging, not once did I say post it publically, mainly from the fact that isn't a wise thing to do for obvious reasons. Another mod advised the same thing,they will help the person as he knows some areas but to keep it private.... not anything different. So don't twist my words. I don't know if you have ever been dogging, but dogging is totally different than swinging. If people don't share information about the sites, then we won't know where they are. As we should all be adults on this site, then adults should use their COMMON SENSE rather than the need to only speak with people who are members of the "elite" group and share information with people about dogging sites if they know it. An adults common sense includes noticing wether a profile is only five minutes old, we don't need anyone in the "elite" club to tell us that." Now that is good advice, all I am trying to say is there is a balance between getting the sites known and making the sites vulnerable, ie posting all over the net without regard to "loose talk" can seriously jeapordise the fun to be had, A verified person is not just someone who has a few verifications/validations on a internet site, it is also people you have chatted/cammed/telephoned and made your own mind up about. People should carry out thier own checks on others before passing on information that might be better kept quiet. Better to have the sites for the elites than being raided by Police, Muggers, Boy Racers and the like ...... Only my opinion of course | |||
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" Now that is good advice, all I am trying to say is there is a balance between getting the sites known and making the sites vulnerable, ie posting all over the net without regard to "loose talk" can seriously jeapordise the fun to be had, A verified person is not just someone who has a few verifications/validations on a internet site, it is also people you have chatted/cammed/telephoned and made your own mind up about. People should carry out thier own checks on others before passing on information that might be better kept quiet. Better to have the sites for the elites than being raided by Police, Muggers, Boy Racers and the like ...... Only my opinion of course " As I have said on the above post, dogging isn't about having an "elite" group there. Dogging has been going years without sites like this, and worked very well before police publicised them and the boyracers turned up. Now, people are starting up new sites and are VERY careful of who they tell, but it is normally done word of mouth between the doggers who use the sites themselves. It still works a different way then swinging, the fun is about strangers you have never spoken to/met/saw before stood at a dogging site watching you play and sometimes join in the fun...it has nothing to do with making sure they have so many verifications first. My advice was the same on the very first post as what it was on my second, don't believe anyone who says "you will probably only be told about sites if you are verified" | |||
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