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By *essicaDamon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Livingston

Hi couples,guys and girls, what's your view on condoms? A must for safe play, but do they spoil the fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me they hurt and often split which makes for no fun at all.

However, playing safe is sensible so I always try and get checked at the local GUM clinic every 6 weeks.

Bareback is that you are fucking every partner that person has ever fucked, that could be rather a lot in some cases. One huge gangbang.

Dave

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"Hi couples,guys and girls, what's your view on condoms? A must for safe play, but do they spoil the fun? "

Shit to use but sensible when having naughties, we would only do without if the other persons had a regular 28 day test/cert like we have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use them. But hate them. Especially the ice cool or flavoured ones. Really ruin the fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a tough one not as much fun

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By *arkinberksMan
over a year ago

Ascot

Ambivalent. In my yoof the only reason for using one was for birth control when ones partner was not on the pill or had a coil. AIDS changed all that as did the scares on prolonged use of the pill.

Now use condoms more as a way of protecting against STIs than anything else. Personal preference has always been to go without but common sense overrides this.

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By *essicaDamon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Livingston

Thanks for your feedback, it seems everyone feels the same as I do lol they are a bit of a buzz kill but should be used. Thanks everyone xJx

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

I use to hate them.But they are a bit like a suit.Find one that fits and the are a whole lot better

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I use to hate them.But they are a bit like a suit.Find one that fits and the are a whole lot better "

Totally agree, anyone who says they hurt must be using the wrong type!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"For me they hurt and often split which makes for no fun at all.

However, playing safe is sensible so I always try and get checked at the local GUM clinic every 6 weeks.

Bareback is that you are fucking every partner that person has ever fucked, that could be rather a lot in some cases. One huge gangbang.

Dave"

You obviously buying the wrong sort try larger size .

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

No problem wearing them always used them plus point by a good brand right size you last longer too

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

No problem wearing them always used them plus point by a good brand right size you last longer too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it would be interesting to see how many people that don't use them get checked and receive bad news.

I agree that to a degree they spoil the fun a little but I'd much rather that than end up with AIDS ect

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

Doubt many people are gonna admit to not using them here even it it isn't true !

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Why anyone would risk their health (in same cases PERMANENTLY) by going bareback is beyond me. Personally I think it's beyond stupid.

If the condom is hurting you or they keep splitting you are OBVIOUSLY using the wrong size, to go bigger. If you don't like the feel of the ones you are currently using, try a different type. Try a few different types until you find one that feels right. Some are actually so good you can barely tell you are even wearing/using it.

For me, if it's not on your willy, you're not on me. Simples. And if anyone thinks otherwise (especially in this scene) then you're clearly deranged.

Rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When swinging I always use one, I don't for oral. But it feels a lot better without one on though. I choose my health before a moment of passion.

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

We use them all the time without fail and dont find them a buzz kill. I would find some one unable to keep it up while wearing them a buzz kill or catching something icky a buzz kill ive always practised safe so dont find it a problem

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I have got putting them on a guy down to an artform. I don't even need to see what I'm doing. Saves him fumbling around for it! Most guys are useless at putting them on anyway

If I take over putting it he can just carry on focussing on whatever else he is doing at the time

That way there is no buzz kill

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By *bro07Man
over a year ago

Teesside

always wear them but I think i'm weir cos the smell of them turn me on, that rubbery smell on my hands lol, make me cum quicker as not don't use them on gf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have got putting them on a guy down to an artform. I don't even need to see what I'm doing. Saves him fumbling around for it! Most guys are useless at putting them on anyway

If I take over putting it he can just carry on focussing on whatever else he is doing at the time

That way there is no buzz kill "
I totally agree with this. When I was at school part of our sex ed for girls was to be shown how to put them on. But if we can do it fore you it all adds as part of foreplay & no break in the fun. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it aint on then it aint going in! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morrigan and I use them for fun with each other just to make a change, she has also perfected the way of putting one on with her mouth! some guys cant even get one on with both hands lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a must,yes they are a pain can make your willy strivel up and die but non the less personally a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why anyone would risk their health (in same cases PERMANENTLY) by going bareback is beyond me. Personally I think it's beyond stupid.

If the condom is hurting you or they keep splitting you are OBVIOUSLY using the wrong size, to go bigger. If you don't like the feel of the ones you are currently using, try a different type. Try a few different types until you find one that feels right. Some are actually so good you can barely tell you are even wearing/using it.

For me, if it's not on your willy, you're not on me. Simples. And if anyone thinks otherwise (especially in this scene) then you're clearly deranged.

Rant over."

Totally agree x

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By *lbecCouple
over a year ago

Whitstable

best way to put a condom on a guy is by placing it in your mouth and slide it over the cock as you give him a blow job !, always keeps them hard !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it aint on then it aint going in! !"

Totally agree with the very sexy lady xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"best way to put a condom on a guy is by placing it in your mouth and slide it over the cock as you give him a blow job !, always keeps them hard !!!"
i've never met a woman who can actually do this

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By *HAEDRUS2013Man
over a year ago

LONDON


"Hi couples,guys and girls, what's your view on condoms? A must for safe play, but do they spoil the fun? "

Skyn condoms are very good-feels like the real thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pasante make nice large ones, im not blessed with length (not cursed either btw ) but if you get a bit girthy like me they go on nicely without pushing all the bloodflow the wrong way.

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By *ondering_yorkshiremanMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border


"Well it would be interesting to see how many people that don't use them get checked and receive bad news.

I agree that to a degree they spoil the fun a little but I'd much rather that than end up with AIDS ect "

Before I get shot cause of my username its just to say I prefere the feeling.

Now in regards to the above quote,

How many people, men woman couples who play SAFE, get regularly tested???

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Well it would be interesting to see how many people that don't use them get checked and receive bad news.

I agree that to a degree they spoil the fun a little but I'd much rather that than end up with AIDS ect

Before I get shot cause of my username its just to say I prefere the feeling.

Now in regards to the above quote,

How many people, men woman couples who play SAFE, get regularly tested???"

I do

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

me every 3 months

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"Well it would be interesting to see how many people that don't use them get checked and receive bad news.

I agree that to a degree they spoil the fun a little but I'd much rather that than end up with AIDS ect

Before I get shot cause of my username its just to say I prefere the feeling.

Now in regards to the above quote,

How many people, men woman couples who play SAFE, get regularly tested???"

me

had a job finding large size condoms on the shop shelf recently.....where's good to buy them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi couples,guys and girls, what's your view on condoms? A must for safe play, but do they spoil the fun? "

Um yes. Feeling skin together is nicer but condoms are a must

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get tested two monthly,When u go for ur std tests you simply ask for a big bag of them,there free. Ive got large and extra large before.I have Met men that forgot them.always cum prepared yourself,i have a bag with all diff size s? no excuse,

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

I had one break on me during intercourse and I didn't stop. My sex partner at that time say she safe. But I went to the clinic anyway to check things out anyway. Better be safe than sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm utterly useless at putting them on a guy lol but mostly use them. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm utterly useless at putting them on a guy lol but mostly use them. Xxx"

I got asked to put one on a guy once, said no, made him do it.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i say COC ... condoms of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morrigan and I use them for fun with each other just to make a change, she has also perfected the way of putting one on with her mouth! some guys cant even get one on with both hands lol "

I do exactly the same.. Men are amazed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always carry condoms with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine prefers Pasante condoms if that is any help to you. Available online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always carry condoms with me"

me too then there are no excuses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm utterly useless at putting them on a guy lol but mostly use them. Xxx

I got asked to put one on a guy once, said no, made him do it. "

me too I can't do it and worried I will put my long finger nails through

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Morrigan and I use them for fun with each other just to make a change, she has also perfected the way of putting one on with her mouth! some guys cant even get one on with both hands lol

I do exactly the same.. Men are amazed lol"

I can put them on with my mouth too, maybe not all the way down, but can quickly roll that last inch or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morrigan and I use them for fun with each other just to make a change, she has also perfected the way of putting one on with her mouth! some guys cant even get one on with both hands lol

I do exactly the same.. Men are amazed lol

I can put them on with my mouth too, maybe not all the way down, but can quickly roll that last inch or so "

They taste disgusting though lol. X

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Well it would be interesting to see how many people that don't use them get checked and receive bad news.

I agree that to a degree they spoil the fun a little but I'd much rather that than end up with AIDS ect

Before I get shot cause of my username its just to say I prefere the feeling.

Now in regards to the above quote,

How many people, men woman couples who play SAFE, get regularly tested???"

Every 3 months here and more often if I have a condom split/come off/other disaster. Recently started playing bare with a FWB after we both went for tests - obviously relying now on us both being honest with each other, but hopefully shouldn't be a problem

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Morrigan and I use them for fun with each other just to make a change, she has also perfected the way of putting one on with her mouth! some guys cant even get one on with both hands lol

I do exactly the same.. Men are amazed lol

I can put them on with my mouth too, maybe not all the way down, but can quickly roll that last inch or so

They taste disgusting though lol. X"

That's true, but for me the guy usually gets more turned on by it and seldom loses his erection and I'm turned on by the fact of him getting turned on...I'm also nasty enough to kiss him quite quickly to get rid of the taste (and share the rubberyness)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why anyone would risk their health (in same cases PERMANENTLY) by going bareback is beyond me. Personally I think it's beyond stupid.

If the condom is hurting you or they keep splitting you are OBVIOUSLY using the wrong size, to go bigger. If you don't like the feel of the ones you are currently using, try a different type. Try a few different types until you find one that feels right. Some are actually so good you can barely tell you are even wearing/using it.

For me, if it's not on your willy, you're not on me. Simples. And if anyone thinks otherwise (especially in this scene) then you're clearly deranged.

Rant over."

agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me they hurt and often split which makes for no fun at all.

However, playing safe is sensible so I always try and get checked at the local GUM clinic every 6 weeks.

Bareback is that you are fucking every partner that person has ever fucked, that could be rather a lot in some cases. One huge gangbang.

Dave

You obviously buying the wrong sort try larger size ."

I have tried every type of Durex, they don't write sizes on, although I have not measured either.

Yesterday I bought Skyns Large in Tesco, again it does not state measurements but I am hopeful.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Last time I bought Durex I compared the measurements on the boxes

I know Mates have a good comparison chart online too.

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

Back in my younger days they use to call me captain condom. I had them everywhere in car, wallet, work locker, lunch box and I use to forget to take out my pants before I do laundry

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Pasante, condoms buy on line every size, always use them and still get checked every 6 months'ish as not 100% safe, if guys not got his own then no go, what are they thinking!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your condom is splitting usually means not enough lube,or oil based lubricant such as baby oil, lipstick, hand cream moisturiser etc is rotting it. Keep her wet and water based

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No glove no love...

Only an idiot would go barebacking with many different meets. Its totally irresponsable too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't mind condoms, not sure if it's just me but it's a turn on actually rolling a rubber down my dick..

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By *llthatshewantsCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle under Lyme

Its not just stds though. How would you feel if a pregnancy occurred due to not being safe?

Play safe guys and gals!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always use it! I like myself too much

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

Who do oral sex with a condom on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don't mind condoms, not sure if it's just me but it's a turn on actually rolling a rubber down my dick.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I have tried every type of Durex, they don't write sizes on, although I have not measured either.

Yesterday I bought Skyns Large in Tesco, again it does not state measurements but I am hopeful. "
yes they do, they're on the box. Most durex are 56mm, skins large are 58 if i recall correctly but the passante king size (from superdrug) are 60mm. The 4mm over durex makes all the difference to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morrigan and I use them for fun with each other just to make a change, she has also perfected the way of putting one on with her mouth! some guys cant even get one on with both hands lol

I do exactly the same.. Men are amazed lol

I can put them on with my mouth too, maybe not all the way down, but can quickly roll that last inch or so

They taste disgusting though lol. X

That's true, but for me the guy usually gets more turned on by it and seldom loses his erection and I'm turned on by the fact of him getting turned on...I'm also nasty enough to kiss him quite quickly to get rid of the taste (and share the rubberyness) "

Yep, this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who do oral sex with a condom on. "
Nope

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

All these 6 week tests and 28 day tests at the gum clinic are really irrelevant as it's a bit like a car mot. It's only relevant during the test. Because you could leave the clinic then catch something that night. So condoms everytime here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always use them, not keen on Durex, found them annoying and uncomfortable. The non latex mates ones are brilliant never had any problems with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All these 6 week tests and 28 day tests at the gum clinic are really irrelevant as it's a bit like a car mot. It's only relevant during the test. Because you could leave the clinic then catch something that night. So condoms everytime here."

no they are not irrelevant .. they are essential along side using what protection levels you choose.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

You ain't paddling in my pool without yer wellies on.

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By *lendor and LemondropCouple
over a year ago

Taunton


"best way to put a condom on a guy is by placing it in your mouth and slide it over the cock as you give him a blow job !, always keeps them hard !!!"

This is my trick too!

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

If u don't use them when giving a blowjob then why use them in penetration. Is it pre cum. So can u catch something in the mouth from unprotected blowjob.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"If u don't use them when giving a blowjob then why use them in penetration. Is it pre cum. So can u catch something in the mouth from unprotected blowjob. "

The risks associated with unprotected oral sex are far less than those associated with unprotected penetrative sex.

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"If u don't use them when giving a blowjob then why use them in penetration. Is it pre cum. So can u catch something in the mouth from unprotected blowjob.

The risks associated with unprotected oral sex are far less than those associated with unprotected penetrative sex."

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

Explain why please. There been cases of it happening

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Explain why please. There been cases of it happening"

I made an informed choice. I read information from trusted sources. I spoke to a health professional or two.

There is much less chance of contracting an STI from oral sex than penetrative sex and of course it can happen but getting hit by a bus when crossing the street can happen.

Saying that there is no point using condoms for penetration if you don't use them for oral is a misconception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who do oral sex with a condom on. "

we Do for oral for men n women wud not change it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice one and I concur. I always use them and no excuse for not using them. Safe sex would be condoms and dams if not low risk sex with condoms and oral without. I agree oral sex as opposed to penetrative sex leads to less mucosal erosion and thereby lesser risk of transmission. Celibacy is perhaps the safest bet !

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs


"All these 6 week tests and 28 day tests at the gum clinic are really irrelevant as it's a bit like a car mot. It's only relevant during the test. Because you could leave the clinic then catch something that night. So condoms everytime here.

no they are not irrelevant .. they are essential along side using what protection levels you choose. "
appreciate what you are saying but if you go to a clinic in the morning and get the all clear but then shag an infected person in the afternoon the test is irrelevant as you are now infected. Like I said, condom everytime

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"All these 6 week tests and 28 day tests at the gum clinic are really irrelevant as it's a bit like a car mot. It's only relevant during the test. Because you could leave the clinic then catch something that night. So condoms everytime here.

no they are not irrelevant .. they are essential along side using what protection levels you choose. appreciate what you are saying but if you go to a clinic in the morning and get the all clear but then shag an infected person in the afternoon the test is irrelevant as you are now infected. Like I said, condom everytime

"

Hence alongside protection and not instead of.

I like getting tested as it proves to me that the way I play is standing me in good stead and reassures me about my choices, including oral without a condom.

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

So we all agree on condom for penetration but have mix feeling on oral. So by shot a load in a mouth can you catch what they have too.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

' When the mouth and tongue are healthy and uncut, the chance of getting a sexually transmitted infection (STI) through oral sex is quite uncommon, though possible. Sores or scrapes in the mouth present a ready passage-way for virus or bacteria to enter the blood stream. Unless you're 100 percent sure of your partner's clean bill of sexual health, it's a good idea to use protection if any cuts, tears, sores or scrapes are present in the mouth (even tiny sores, like accidentally biting your tounge). Additionally, after you've had your wisdom teeth yanked, a root canal performed, or your dentures re-fitted, it's wise to stay away from unprotected oral sex (even if your partner is STI-free, your dentist would probably advocate treating your mouth gently after any of these procedures).STIs like gonorrhea, syphilis, Chlamydia, HPV, and HIV can be transmitted through pre-cum or ejaculate. Herpes, especially when cold sores are present, can also be passed on through oral sex.'

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"' When the mouth and tongue are healthy and uncut, the chance of getting a sexually transmitted infection (STI) through oral sex is quite uncommon, though possible. Sores or scrapes in the mouth present a ready passage-way for virus or bacteria to enter the blood stream. Unless you're 100 percent sure of your partner's clean bill of sexual health, it's a good idea to use protection if any cuts, tears, sores or scrapes are present in the mouth (even tiny sores, like accidentally biting your tounge). Additionally, after you've had your wisdom teeth yanked, a root canal performed, or your dentures re-fitted, it's wise to stay away from unprotected oral sex (even if your partner is STI-free, your dentist would probably advocate treating your mouth gently after any of these procedures).STIs like gonorrhea, syphilis, Chlamydia, HPV, and HIV can be transmitted through pre-cum or ejaculate. Herpes, especially when cold sores are present, can also be passed on through oral sex.'

"

Health professionals have told us the oral route of infection is minimal but do not take cum in mouth as that ups the odds of infection via mouth so for us no CIM and condoms for penetration plus regular check ups at clinic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't condom makers put sizes on the boxes?

Durex split and are painful, Skyns are better (Large) but still a fight to get on and soooo sodding tight.

Going to try passante king size next and hope, from reading on here, that they are large enough to be a firm fit but not a vice like painful grip ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi couples,guys and girls, what's your view on condoms? A must for safe play, but do they spoil the fun?

Shit to use but sensible when having naughties, we would only do without if the other persons had a regular 28 day test/cert like we have. "
But how would you know for sure? Just take their word for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't condom makers put sizes on the boxes?

Durex split and are painful, Skyns are better (Large) but still a fight to get on and soooo sodding tight.

Going to try passante king size next and hope, from reading on here, that they are large enough to be a firm fit but not a vice like painful grip ...

"
Yes Passante King size ARE good

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Why don't condom makers put sizes on the boxes?

Durex split and are painful, Skyns are better (Large) but still a fight to get on and soooo sodding tight.

Going to try passante king size next and hope, from reading on here, that they are large enough to be a firm fit but not a vice like painful grip ...

"

They do put sizes on boxes.

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

passante are very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you very much.....some useful info after struggling all these years and having rather tight and uncomfortable one on !

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

I had condom bust on me. Got scare about it and two days later headed to the clinic. But most peoples are ashamed to go the clinic in fear of somebody seeing them.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I had condom bust on me. Got scare about it and two days later headed to the clinic. But most peoples are ashamed to go the clinic in fear of somebody seeing them."

Most people, don't think so. I know a lot of the people on here get regular testing, including me and it's nothing to be ashamed of, it's responsible. I had a condom come off inside me and I went to get emergency contraception then went to get tested shortly afterwards.

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I had condom bust on me. Got scare about it and two days later headed to the clinic. But most peoples are ashamed to go the clinic in fear of somebody seeing them.

Most people, don't think so. I know a lot of the people on here get regular testing, including me and it's nothing to be ashamed of, it's responsible. I had a condom come off inside me and I went to get emergency contraception then went to get tested shortly afterwards."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate them but no way would I not use them it would be madness

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

Wow so much ignorance of the risks or lack of them in such a supposedly liberal and liberated community.

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

They have been events that if a person is about to put one on. Other person would say I don't like because it take the feeling away. They prefer bareback.

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By *yLongJourneyMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

always use them as i dont want to be informed of a little junior/ junioress of me running around or in the oven, although i havent used them for 2 and a half years, the last time i had any fun that was and always flavored, got to give you ladies something to taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it would be interesting to see how many people that don't use them get checked and receive bad news.

I agree that to a degree they spoil the fun a little but I'd much rather that than end up with AIDS ect "

HIV is more prevalent than you think and if you play bareback you are in the high risk category.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"I had condom bust on me. Got scare about it and two days later headed to the clinic. But most peoples are ashamed to go the clinic in fear of somebody seeing them.

Most people, don't think so. I know a lot of the people on here get regular testing, including me and it's nothing to be ashamed of, it's responsible. I had a condom come off inside me and I went to get emergency contraception then went to get tested shortly afterwards."

Most GUM clinics are very good, professional and I dare say even keep things light as they know people can get nervous. They are not measuring your exploits on a "naughty or nice" benchmark, nor are they judging lifestyle choices.

The only thing you can do is make all efforts to (proactively) protect yourself and those you play with, and (for me) double up with regular checks - condoms are only about 97% reliable after all (even when they don't split or come off). That way you cover your bases by reducing risk. Simplez!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like most on here I hate using them but won't do bareback even with a test cert to say your clean. Not worth the risk in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like most on here I hate using them but won't do bareback even with a test cert to say your clean. Not worth the risk in my eyes"
Definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolute MUST for me and no, they don't spoil any of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi couples,guys and girls, what's your view on condoms? A must for safe play, but do they spoil the fun? "

Yes

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back in my younger days they use to call me captain condom. I had them everywhere in car, wallet, work locker, lunch box and I use to forget to take out my pants before I do laundry"

So why don't you now ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always use them as i dont want to be informed of a little junior/ junioress of me running around or in the oven, although i havent used them for 2 and a half years, the last time i had any fun that was and always flavored, got to give you ladies something to taste "

I think it's more STIs we are all concerned with rather than babies. There are many ways of stopping pregnancy but most of them won't stop STIs even condoms aren't 100% safe still need regular check ups

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By *illerlegs172Couple
over a year ago

Romford

I have learnt to put them on with my mouth, all guys love this little party act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have learnt to put them on with my mouth, all guys love this little party act. "

Sounds good. I need to learn

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I have learnt to put them on with my mouth, all guys love this little party act.

Sounds good. I need to learn"

*hands you a banana and a 12 pack of condoms*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont use condoms. But before the safe sex brigade blast us only with each other. If we have a meet then nobody dips without being covered. C xx

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey

Lot of positive thinking but in the heat of passion are we going to stop and search for a condom and if u can't find one are we going the store to get some.

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By *yLongJourneyMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

yep i would go that far to get a condom and even further

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I'm always prepared! I have condoms in my bedroom in the bathroom cupboard and in the kitchen. In my wallet, in the inside pockets in all the bags I use, in my laptop sleeve and in a couple of tiny little bags I take into clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have learnt to put them on with my mouth, all guys love this little party act.

Sounds good. I need to learn"

You can always experiment on me

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By *arry50Man
over a year ago

northern jersey


"I'm always prepared! I have condoms in my bedroom in the bathroom cupboard and in the kitchen. In my wallet, in the inside pockets in all the bags I use, in my laptop sleeve and in a couple of tiny little bags I take into clubs."
so I can you lady condom. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just put one on before the meet - talk about properly prepared

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Lot of positive thinking but in the heat of passion are we going to stop and search for a condom and if u can't find one are we going the store to get some. "

Well, hopefully I will always be in a position to be prepared before "heat of the moment" takes place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi couples,guys and girls, what's your view on condoms? A must for safe play, but do they spoil the fun? "

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak

I am in the hate camp, but till go though enough as they are a must

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Lot of positive thinking but in the heat of passion are we going to stop and search for a condom and if u can't find one are we going the store to get some. "

Of course, no glove no love

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