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Advice on meeting couples as a single guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any lovely folks willing to help me learn ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you looking for advice, or lessons.??? Different thing....

ted.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Any lovely folks willing to help me learn ?"

time, patience, and basic common sense... if you have been here for 3 weeks thats all you need to know........

no magic tricks or wonder formula's......

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Make sure your mum knows where you're going and when you're due back

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

If you are going to meet couples - you need to portray an air of confidence - and that you know what you are doing and won't disappoint them.

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

maybe get some pics on. we like to see who you are early on.

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Be comfortable with another naked bloke around, and absolutely sure you can perform with him watching/joining in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any lovely folks willing to help me learn ?

time, patience, and basic common sense... if you have been here for 3 weeks thats all you need to know........

no magic tricks or wonder formula's......"

And some old fashioned manners when it comes to talking to them. Remember there are two. And I am not talking about her tits.......

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be comfortable with another naked bloke around, and absolutely sure you can perform with him watching/joining in."

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

listen ,ask , share. listen and listen again , be a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any lovely folks willing to help me learn ?"

Read people profiles ...... having read there list of requirements age sexuality preference if and only IF you meet them all message them politely

Don't wink don't send friends invites message them, and not a feeking cut and paste.

if you get no reply then it wasn't to be don't rant don't badger don't go on forums bitching about the lack of response the lack of meets move on

if you want a fuck now though this is not the site for you

this requires time effort and patience

good luck

Peachy and Cherry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"listen ,ask , share. listen and listen again , be a gentleman "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, all makes sense Popping candy, like that one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any lovely folks willing to help me learn ?

time, patience, and basic common sense... if you have been here for 3 weeks thats all you need to know........

no magic tricks or wonder formula's......

And some old fashioned manners when it comes to talking to them. Remember there are two. And I am not talking about her tits.......

ted."

We had the opposite when we met one guy, just sat and chatted to Andy about sport (mainly football & cricket), luckily I know a little about both and did join in or I would have been surplus to requirements before play started. I pointed this out to Andy on our way home, he hadn't noticed until then. So important point speak to both the lady and her partner!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is key and a bit of confidence. If you get a bite really concentrate on that couple to move towards a meet. Too many (not all) guys talk in one liners and if you don't exchange face pics after two messages they think you are a timewaster.

For us anyway if you are what we are looking for and show a bit of effort then you are a lot more likely to be successful.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Remember the guy has feeling emotions and more importantly EXISTS and is allowing you to share/have HIS partner so a bit of consideration for this is always welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pics a must for her to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are going to meet couples - you need to portray an air of confidence - and that you know what you are doing and won't disappoint them."

Just not too much confidence where it comes over as being cocky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have your name down for the Wakefield social - you will meet a lot of nice cpls there and have a great night out, which is one of the best ways to meet a lot of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remember the guy has feeling emotions and more importantly EXISTS and is allowing you to share/have HIS partner so a bit of consideration for this is always welcome.

"

This

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By *oitall69Couple
over a year ago

macclesfield

DO be yourself. .... it's who you are

DON'T have loads of cock pics .... we know what they look like

DO be polite

DON'T be pushy

DO be clean n tidy

DON'T forget there are 2 people in a couple

DO remember that first meetings CAN lead to more meetings

GOOD LUCK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple I can/ we can honestly say 95% of people ruin any chance they may of had within the first two lines of there message!

Some have terrible pictures, brainless user names and poor profiles! Having any sexual encounter is a huge privilege and buzz although most single guys arent willing to spend 5minutes on a decent profile!

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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire


"As a couple I can/ we can honestly say 95% of people ruin any chance they may of had within the first two lines of there message!

Some have terrible pictures, brainless user names and poor profiles! Having any sexual encounter is a huge privilege and buzz although most single guys arent willing to spend 5minutes on a decent profile! "

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By *ids BikerDaveMan
over a year ago

cannock

I just think things have changed, was a time when people would chat. Now it seem unless they want to bed you they will not even talk to you (good job Im not like that down the pub) can remember times that all used to have great night even with no play involved. Still I will stay polite and have met many I call good friends. good luck.

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