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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here for nearly 3 months now and still no luck :-/ can someone tell me where I'm going wrong please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been on here for nearly 3 months now and still no luck :-/ can someone tell me where I'm going wrong please"

But surely it's impossible to suggest an answer about where you're going wrong without knowing what you've been doing to help yourself, and how you've gone about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 cock pictures, more than one of which is more off putting than enticing.

And like almost every one that starts these threads a thoroughly uninspiring and bland profile. You are doing nothing to sell yourself or stand out from the 100's of single males on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fair profile but ten of the queens finest English pounds beys you have not been to a club on a night that allows single guys.....if we saw you in one we definitely be interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not suggesting this in every case ,,,, but sometimes it can simply be overly optimistic expectations tinged with an unrealistic approach to the efforts required.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile text is very much the sane aside others on here and you have 3 cock pics to many, one is more the enough on an profile.

Try adding sonething about what you are looking for and jazz it up a bit.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Firstly I don't like the cock pic with the little pink potty in the background as it suggests you are in a relationship with a woman and have a toddler at home hence you can't accommodate.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Busted pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

o dear and the pics have gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

potty...

or he is a dad that sees his child in his house....

back to detective school...

we are keeping an open mind is often used in the media by police.. not so much in the forums.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking from my own perspective and in no way meant as a direct criticism of anyones personal preferences ….

But I’m usually put off by information stating a person is into picture swapping and erotic chats which rightly or wrongly suggest to me their agenda might be less focused on actually meeting in person…

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"potty...

or he is a dad that sees his child in his house....

back to detective school...

we are keeping an open mind is often used in the media by police.. not so much in the forums....."

I do have an open mind which is why my post was my opinion and which is why I used the word 'suggests'. The photo has been removed from public view now so maybe the OP thought something similar to me in that it wasn't very appropriate for a swinging site.

Always check the backgrounds, folks! The devil's in the detail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - I am gutted that I missed your potty pic...

Okay, I tend to form a picture of the person behind a profile by mentally tagging the things which jump out of the profile at me. Here are the ones which jumped out of yours...

"not the best with expressing my self" - nice to start with a negative..

"I'm a young fun loving guy looking for a female or possibly a male" - are you only looking for one? An FB maybe? Needs to be clearer.

"I'm up for horny chats, pic swapping" - is that all? You don't mention much else. Do you just want to wank over a hard drive full of other peoples pics???

"I am not able to accommodate" - Why? If you're sharing accomm or still with Mum and Dad, at your age there is no shame in either. It's just life.

"if you dare to take a risk" - Now this is THE biggy for me... Why would meeting you be 'risky'..????

OP, I am sorry to say this, but I feel that in a few short sentences unwittingly you have built in to your profile just about every possible trigger to have the reader reaching for the 'Next!' button.

PLEASE take a look at the profiles of some of the forum members who are in the 25-45 age group and see which ones stand out to you. It's not a 'secret' but learning how to write an effective profile as a single male is an art in itself and you need to put work into it or you will be wasting your time on here or any other similar site.

And I would go along 100% with the earlier post which suggested you go to clubs. I am always saying this to younger guys - are you 24 going on 30, or are you 24 going on 15 and will turn up with a Nintendo in your hand to a meet..????? And, yes, I have heard of that happening. In a club people can form an opinion of you for real - not through your profile. Find one you like and go there REGULARLY so that you get known. You'll find it;ll all fall into place a lot quicker if you do.

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet another post on this ! It takes time and effort to have success. Think about your profile. If you were female, would you like your profile? Take a step back and think objectively. Not all women want to see cock pics and good luck for your future results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on here a while and only had a few meets. Just don't expect women to fall at your feet coz your new on here don't work like that. Try look at it from a woman's point of view why should they meet you there are 1000's of men on here they can pick and choose. Try and stand out that's my advice.

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