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Help what am I doing Wong ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok can some one help what am I doing Wong been on this site for a bit chatted with some nice people nothing more I'm working away and have posted that but no interest so any tips for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep plugging away and use the letter R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a good idea to expand your profile a bit; what attracts/interests you etc. Also I've found posting some public pics usually helps a great deal. I've used various sites over the years and it always generates more interest. Apart from that, everybody has their own opinion on what does and doesn't work, so just keep experimenting and adapting and something will turn up eventually. Good luck and don't forget it's definitely a numbers game to a large extent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will do anything for a free curry eh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for that will keep trying and ya free curry can do that to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile looks like you spent about 30 seconds on it. Says nothing, zero punctuation and poor spelling. No pictures. Ask yourself would you reply to your own profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep plugging away and use the letter R "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask yourself would you reply to your own profile?"

I'd add the word "truthfully" to that. If you wouldn't then think about what you'd reply to and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ya spelling is not the best but ha that what u get when your dislecsick as for no pic I have pics just not on show I am happy to send them with a message just not for them to be on show as I have my own business and deal with the joe blogs every day

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Put a lot more effort into your profile, it says VERY little about you.

And i'm sure you can take at least a few pictures that don't have anything incriminating or easily identifiable.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

all that advice and non taken - it's still a crap profile - this is why i don't bother giving advice any moreZ

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"all that advice and non taken - it's still a crap profile - this is why i don't bother giving advice any moreZ"

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"all that advice and non taken - it's still a crap profile - this is why i don't bother giving advice any moreZ"

Not sure why i bothered with hindsight, lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Ok can some one help what am I doing Wong been on this site for a bit chatted with some nice people nothing more I'm working away and have posted that but no interest so any tips for me "

If there was no pic, I wouldn't probably contact the person. Might if it was a lady but wouldn't meet unless I saw a pic. Good photos are a good start.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Ya spelling is not the best but ha that what u get when your dislecsick as for no pic I have pics just not on show I am happy to send them with a message just not for them to be on show as I have my own business and deal with the joe blogs every day "

If you had a pic on here, they might recognise you from your face or tattoo on your body, but if they did, it would mean they were on this site and a swinger and might want to meet you for sex.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"Keep plugging away and use the letter R "

i love this - classic! Z

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

TBH even though your profile is incredibly short it reads as quite needy; sell yourself, be more specific with your age range (would you really meet a 99 year old?) and have fewer things in your interests list - comes across as desperate.

Have a look at a few profiles of guys who've actually had meets (they are out there) and learn what a good profile looks like.

And be creative with public pictures - plenty of people choose not to post public face pics but still manage to have public pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok time to try again point taken as for needy that's not me so best change that very soon as for pics will see what I can do not to sure just how yet as so many lady's seem not to like cock shots I have to be carefull because I employ 23 men and two office lady's as well as dealing with joe blogs and no Evan if the were on here work is work and my privet life is privet although I could do with some one to wright all this stuff for me and spell stuf right lol as for the age range ya 99 not really my thing but hay if there are peeps out there that age well far play to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe put on your profile why you can not acomm at the ripe old age of 38

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"Ok time to try again point taken as for needy that's not me so best change that very soon as for pics will see what I can do not to sure just how yet as so many lady's seem not to like cock shots I have to be carefull because I employ 23 men and two office lady's as well as dealing with joe blogs and no Evan if the were on here work is work and my privet life is privet although I could do with some one to wright all this stuff for me and spell stuf right lol as for the age range ya 99 not really my thing but hay if there are peeps out there that age well far play to them"

Send your re-write to me by a private message & I'll be happy to spellcheck it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can't accomadate because of my 14yr old son and he will always come first be it right or wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for that aly cat mite just take u up on that offer as spelling seems areal big thing on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dyslexia seems to have almost vanished between your early posts in the thread and the last one ?!?!?!?!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Dyslexia seems to have almost vanished between your early posts in the thread and the last one ?!?!?!?! "

I noticed that too plus the hysterically bad spelling of dyslexia. Not typical IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could be brad pitt but nik would skip the profile because you are a shadow.get pics on there.

There are 1000's of men on here,you need to stand out.

Getting a meet as a single male isn't hard,I did it once.

Get pics on and not all of you cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers for that aly cat mite just take u up on that offer as spelling seems areal big thing on here"
Spelling is a big thing for me and others too. You could put a bodyshot as your avatar - no-one you know would recognise it and some halfnaked ones are good too. Dont need lots of cock pics either - 2 or 3 is enough. good luck

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By *ustJakeMan
over a year ago

Manchester/north east

Can I have some advice on my profile please guys? Thanks

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Two wongs don't make a wright

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Need to get rid of the timewaster sentence & the bit about clubs because your shy. I'm the shyest person on here, but have still managed to visit clubs ALONE. You can overcome being shy if its something you really want to do. Im a grown woman & had to 'man up' as it was an experience I wanted to try, not sit around waiting for someone to hold my hand. It was difficult, but I'm proud of myself whuch has given me further confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two wongs don't make a wright"

Ryan behave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you seem to have sorted your grammar, spelling and punctuation but I wouldn't give your profile a second glance...if you ask for advice at least take it on board! Sell yourself, make it interesting and show a few pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has already been said pictures are vital a shadow will get skipped by 90% of people on here. With mobile phone digital cameras its easy to take photos and edit any identifiable marks.

Your profile says nothing about you or what you have to offer just what you want. Even a basic description of what you look like would help. We are both dyslexic but take our time to wright our posts and profile yes it's not perfect but it's readable and can be understood, judging by your first couple of posts on here if that's how you message people that's not going to help either, again computers phones and tablets nearly all have auto correct or spell check so use this and read through a few times before sending.

Will end with our usual comment on these kind of posts fab is like the real world you have to put the effort in to get anything back

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By *othingbetterthansexCouple
over a year ago

Accrington


"Two wongs don't make a wright"
should that not be a "wight"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok dare I ask is this any better??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok dare I ask is this any better??????"

It is much better...don't forget to run a spell check!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok dare I ask is this any better??????"

have a look at verifies from fems n couples..find some popular men with a few verifications...not saying copy their profiles...but u might learn that one, crappy I have to add pic, does almost nothing.

on some nites ur 14yr son can go elsewhere Im sure, with planning!

I live with my father, I rarely meet at home, but can at times.

this is something i will never understand...hiding verifies, yet asking for more meets..ur verification(s) thats hidden means FUCK all to the reader

I know my friends would undoubtedly not meet someone with hidden verifications..as they would probably just think its a phone/cam veri, or a hidden TV/TS veri(which matters to those seeking straight men)

so my final words..imagine what ur profile looks like, to a sexy hungry woman..at this point in time...shes basically just moved on.

I cant advise u on ur mails, as thats really how u come across, but there are obvious universal factors in good behaviour and not acting like a fud, depending on the mail u receive back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The key to a good profile, IMO, is to write it with a clear view of what your potential partners are looking for. So for example don't just leave your interests to be shown by the tick boxes, but spell them out so the viewing public can see what it means to them. A tick next to 'Oral' is nothing compared with ' I adore giving oral to a lady and will spend forever enjoying it with her'

Just as important is to have good photographs which show you as a person. Not just a cock or whatever.

If you have spelling problems cut and paste the text into Word, or an email package. That will highlight the errors and give you the correct spelling. Then, when corrected, copy it back to the profile.

Another favourite trick of copy writers is to write a draft, then next day review it. You will be amazed at how much that helps you to get the correct message over.

HTH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spelling I think, or are you asking your friend "Wong" what you are doing as you've lost the oragami pattern?????

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Ok can some one help what am I doing Wong been on this site for a bit chatted with some nice people nothing more I'm working away and have posted that but no interest so any tips for me "

are you Jonathon woss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers for that aly cat mite just take u up on that offer as spelling seems areal big thing on here Spelling is a big thing for me and others too. You could put a bodyshot as your avatar - no-one you know would recognise it and some halfnaked ones are good too. Dont need lots of cock pics either - 2 or 3 is enough. good luck"
Is mine good lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you asked Wong??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you asked Wong?? "
Is that Gok Wong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you asked Wong?? Is that Gok Wong "

No thats the wong wong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok can some one help what am I doing Wong been on this site for a bit chatted with some nice people nothing more I'm working away and have posted that but no interest so any tips for me "

Two wongs don't make a Wight I'm afraid

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

"Ahhh, I sure you do nothin Wong and your bery bery rubbery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear oh dear

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