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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't know what to catagorize myself as when I see people with no asian or stuff like that on there profiles myself being mixed race mom being white and dad spanish/indian I just never know what to respond to that kinda prof kinda puts me down wondering if there is anyone out there that likes mixed race people like myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look like that bloke who used to be in The Human League.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah suppose I do lol

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

great hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are an exotic mix......let people work it out for themselves

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't know what to catagorize myself as when I see people with no asian or stuff like that on there profiles myself being mixed race mom being white and dad spanish/indian I just never know what to respond to that kinda prof kinda puts me down wondering if there is anyone out there that likes mixed race people like myself"

Why should other peoples preferences put you down? If people have "no asians" use it as a filter yourself: don't contact them!

Try not to focus on people NOT interested in meeting you: look to those that are!

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look like that bloke who used to be in The Human League. "

Love the donkeys-old reference, showing your age much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why try and label yourself ?

There will be plenty who will do it for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why try and label yourself ?

There will be plenty who will do it for you "
I suppose that's true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"great hair "
thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ignore the no asian cos you don't look asain.. You look european and damn hot I might say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anytime I see "No Blacks/Asians" I just keep it moving as there are plenty of people who want to meet someone like me.

Don't feel you have to categorize yourself to suit other people's preferences.

Silk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anytime I see "No Blacks/Asians" I just keep it moving as there are plenty of people who want to meet someone like me.

Don't feel you have to categorize yourself to suit other people's preferences.

Silk "
thanks I will remember that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would ignore the no asian cos you don't look asain.. You look european and damn hot I might say!"
thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what to catagorize myself as when I see people with no asian or stuff like that on there profiles myself being mixed race mom being white and dad spanish/indian I just never know what to respond to that kinda prof kinda puts me down wondering if there is anyone out there that likes mixed race people like myself"

Just be honest about who you are. You have good photos on your profile for people to get a good idea if they find you attractive enough.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Crikey, you do look yummy! All you have to do is move closer to Notts and all shall be well

You've got a good profile, look great and frankly anyone who is that hung up about race probably isn't worth meeting, anyway.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I don't know what to catagorize myself as when I see people with no asian or stuff like that on there profiles myself being mixed race mom being white and dad spanish/indian I just never know what to respond to that kinda prof kinda puts me down wondering if there is anyone out there that likes mixed race people like myself

Just be honest about who you are. You have good photos on your profile for people to get a good idea if they find you attractive enough. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what to catagorize myself as when I see people with no asian or stuff like that on there profiles myself being mixed race mom being white and dad spanish/indian I just never know what to respond to that kinda prof kinda puts me down wondering if there is anyone out there that likes mixed race people like myself"

Why would you even want to respond to someone who has put 'no asians'???? Block and keep looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look like that bloke who used to be in The Human League.

Love the donkeys-old reference, showing your age much? "

Oh we can go much older than that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" You look european and damn hot I might say!"

I agree. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the feeback its helped alot

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

some weeks ago I was blocked by someone because I put in a ad for a GB 'no fat or Asian guys', his objection seemed to be on the grounds he was heavily overweight. I personally do not discriminate but the ladies had asked me to put this, am I supposed to say to them no you shag whoever turns up.

I'm sure the OP is a very nice guy, but I have noticed that a lot of women who're quite happy seeing black men won't see Asian, (as in Indian sub continent). The same ladies won't have a problem with Chinese, Vietnamese and Thai who also can be classed as Asian. In discussion I've noticed the main reason is attitude to women, sorry OP but it seems to be a case of being a lot of people being painted with the same brush. Way of the world I'm afraid, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judge each person as you see them. Am often asked in chat rooms the question "Do I like black cock" to which I always reply "it depends who it is attached to"

thats my logical way of thinking in a very simplistic way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah seems that when people think of asian instant think Pakistani or indian thats when they think no and most women I have slept with who are white have said they never found Asians as in Indians attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some weeks ago I was blocked by someone because I put in a ad for a GB 'no fat or Asian guys', his objection seemed to be on the grounds he was heavily overweight. I personally do not discriminate but the ladies had asked me to put this, am I supposed to say to them no you shag whoever turns up.

I'm sure the OP is a very nice guy, but I have noticed that a lot of women who're quite happy seeing black men won't see Asian, (as in Indian sub continent). The same ladies won't have a problem with Chinese, Vietnamese and Thai who also can be classed as Asian. In discussion I've noticed the main reason is attitude to women, sorry OP but it seems to be a case of being a lot of people being painted with the same brush. Way of the world I'm afraid, good luck "

Chinese thai etc we call oriental..

As for tarring all with the same brush.. Its about attraction and some people just aren't attracted to certain things.. This is for sex not for a life partner so physical appearance has a lot of relevance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you look gorgeous. I do like your style. someone is bound to meet you, concentrate on those who will.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Be proud of who you are, you do look more european.my grandaughter is mix raced . Shes going to be a heartbreaker lol

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Be proud of who you are, you do look more european.my grandaughter is mix raced . Shes going to be a heartbreaker lol

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