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By *ancingtart OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sick of hypocrisy in life. I'm a single mum that works however I love sex. Why is it ok for a man but not a woman. Ffs. Sorry rant over.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Erm...who said it wasn't?

I'm a divorced mum who works and likes sex, no one has judged me for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just human nature to judge people I suppose. But I do think a lot of people seem to be stuck in the old days when it comes to sex regarding women.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Do you mean you get judged on here?? Or in real life? I don't get judged on here and I'm in the same boat although I don't get chance to meet much as I don't have people round when my son is in bed etc as I don't think that's right.

People outside of fab don't know I'm on here so that's not a problem.

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By *ancingtart OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Had ex try to use what I do to discredit me. God sex is natural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Didnt think this type of judging still goes on.

The male half here who remembers when women were called sluts etc for enjoying sex but have to be honest and say that i dont really hear that type of thing anymore.

And im from ireland !!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Had ex try to use what I do to discredit me. God sex is natural. "

Yes I do worry about that as my ex would be the same. That's why I am very wary who I send my pics to especially local people and like I said I don't have anyone here when our son is here so he can't say anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had ex try to use what I do to discredit me. God sex is natural. "

maybe he's just jealous that you're getting some and he's not

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Didnt think this type of judging still goes on.

The male half here who remembers when women were called sluts etc for enjoying sex but have to be honest and say that i dont really hear that type of thing anymore.

And im from ireland !!"

Women with numerous veris were called sluts on at least three separate threads last week so yes it still goes on.

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By *ancingtart OP   Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes it's still happening. But men will judge then still fuck about. Pm me Hun xxx

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By * pool 1Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Think there might be a hint of jealousy from your x there but don't think the people on this site would take that view regarding enjoying yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont let him get to you. He is an ex for a reason. You live the life you want to live, dont let others tell you what to do or not. Do what makes you happy.

Just because he is unhappy with his life, hes trying to reflect that on to you. Dont let him...tell him to fuck off! Or i can just drop my tin of spinach for you lol

Keep your chin up..dont let them get you down..your gorge x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sick of hypocrisy in life. I'm a single mum that works however I love sex. Why is it ok for a man but not a woman. Ffs. Sorry rant over. "

I'm guessing its guys that you have kb'ed that are doing the judging? Just ignore and enjoy YOUR life the way YOU want to!

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Interesting.. mrsH picked a guy up in a bar last weekend and took him outside for a quickie, he asked her if she was a prostitute!! She asked why and he said because she picked him up and wanted sex, she said so it is ok for guys to pick girls up and take them for a quickie but not vice versa? she told him that some women like sex too, its not jst a bloke thing.... Then she asked him for the £50! Only joking about that last comment !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sick of hypocrisy in life. I'm a single mum that works however I love sex. Why is it ok for a man but not a woman. Ffs. Sorry rant over. "

I totally agree as I find the same thing. In fact one of my friends once said that if I was a man I'd be patted on the back but as a woman it's frowned upon.

Also men tend to want a pure woman for a relationship yet happy to have fun when it suits

My rant over too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I was single I used to get asked if I could only meet in day is that cos I was really married or the bf home in evenings

personally I don't care what my ex thinks of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its partly jealousy, you only have one life so dont worry about what people say and enjoy it while you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is okay to be a slut. We love sluts here and Mrs D is often one herself.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Interesting.. mrsH picked a guy up in a bar last weekend and took him outside for a quickie, he asked her if she was a prostitute!! She asked why and he said because she picked him up and wanted sex, she said so it is ok for guys to pick girls up and take them for a quickie but not vice versa? she told him that some women like sex too, its not jst a bloke thing.... Then she asked him for the £50! Only joking about that last comment !!!"

Please tell us she fucked him off after that comment.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Think there might be a hint of jealousy from your x there but don't think the people on this site would take that view regarding enjoying yourself."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sick of hypocrisy in life. I'm a single mum that works however I love sex. Why is it ok for a man but not a woman. Ffs. Sorry rant over. "

I understand, if you have sex with guys you think are hot, you get labelled a slut and if you don't the guy you might have wanted to have sex with will think your not interested and avoid you, because you might have rejected him before.

Either way you lose but I always say life is about the pursuit of happiness so why should you care what they think?as long as you are happy, that is what matters.

Look at me, im a single guy on here and everyone knows, single guys get a bad deal on here but you don't see me giving up.

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