FabSwingers.com forum: The unknown

By *andZ36 OP Couple
3 days ago

Norfolk

Howdy everyone. Weve stumbled into this world and we're just seeking any tips anyone's has for navigating this mad place in a fun way.

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By *eavenindevonMan
3 days ago

exeter

Don't take it too seriously, don't tolerate rude or pushy people and most importantly, have fun! If it stops being fun, then take a break.

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By *WB85Man
3 days ago

Staffordshire

Message filters.

Learn how to use them to avoid being spammed with shit messages.

Be in control of your own journey and follow your own boundaries.

Good luck.

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By *olieadeuxCouple
3 days ago

Stourbridge

Set up your message filters so you dont get contacted by anyone you don't want to be contacted by.

Make sure you enforce your boundaries.

Comunicate often. Do things at your own speed.

Most of all have fun!

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By *andZ36 OP Couple
3 days ago

Norfolk

Seems like some solid but obvious advice there. Thanks fabbers

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By *aomilatteCouple
3 days ago

Midlands

Go to clubs, it's where serious players go.

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By *abulincsCouple
3 days ago

near a bridge

Set your boundaries converse with each other not tolerate pushy rude folk at all stand your ground good luck and this is fun side life treat that way xx

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By *abulincsCouple
3 days ago

near a bridge

"Go to clubs, it's where serious players go."

Must say we been to a few clubs in past year and not played at all

Only with each other

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 days ago

Staffordshire

"Go to clubs, it's where serious players go.

Must say we been to a few clubs in past year and not played at all

Only with each other "

I mean this in a positive way.

Its so nice to hear that someones journey sounds very similar to ours.

Clubs don't work for everyone, for whatever reason. 4 years we've been going, and its only ever been about each other.

Our fab journey is slow, and we roll our eyes a lot, but we've made some amazing memories.

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By *ister-mischiefMan
3 days ago

Trafford

"Howdy everyone. Weve stumbled into this world and we're just seeking any tips anyone's has for navigating this mad place in a fun way."

Firstly enjoy your time no matter how fast or slow or you go. Use the message filters and verificataions are a good gauge to if they are a genuine person or couple.

Clubs work for some and not for others but do test the water as you may like them or even just to socialise.

There are also social events as well which are worth a visit as you dip your toes in to meet like minded people.

But enjoy yourselves and there are great friendships to be made

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By *andZ36 OP Couple
3 days ago

Norfolk

Again thanks guys. All a massive help. Daunting settling in at first. We'll get the hang of it. L&Z

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By *nly2getherCouple
6 hours ago

East London / Essex

Only you can decide how far and with whom. And only while it’s fun. Good luck.

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