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Dipping toe and curiosity as a couple

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By *ensualbiginger1 OP   Man
3 days ago

lovleytown

Hi all, im intrieged to know whos been in a couple and how it all devenloped from that first chat about things, how difficult that chat was or not and i know everyone has different kinks, limits, desires but id love to know how couples started exploring. Was it clubs, was it hosting, was it talking and doing socials building up a friendship group who are likeminded etc.

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By *tormchasingCouple
2 days ago

Billericay

Before anything else, it all started with communication and absolute and unequivocal openness and honesty about what we both wanted. And it still is about that.

The rest then just sort of happens

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By *un guy300Man
2 days ago

Swansea

Started with us by role play and pretending

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By *ertcoupleCouple
2 days ago

Welwyn Garden City

Started by talking about it, then one night we tried a dogging spot to see what would happen... here we are

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By *heyorkiesCouple
2 days ago

the fax

Mate went to a club down south, I passed on the story to the Mrs. We decided to a visit a ourselves to see if we liked it.....the rest is history

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
16 hours ago

Cambridgeshire

This sounds a bit like the standard "how do I persuade my wife?" threads.

If you don't know her well enough to answer your questions yourself, then you're not going to get anywhere asking for advice on a forum.

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By *ensualbiginger1 OP   Man
13 hours ago

lovleytown

Well thanks for all these replies, but i have to add i have friends who have been in the lifestyle for many years and i have always wondered how it all started. Its not a how do i get my wife in to this, for me sex is sex and swinging is swinging, im not looking to fall in love with anyone, im just so intreiged about how folk begin as a couple with the chat and how its grows and tha different ways in which is grows ad everyone is different. X

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By *issmorganWoman
13 hours ago

Yorks

I met my other half here 11 years ago. We have a couple account too.

So it was easy to chat and decide to stay in the lifestyle.

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By *nly2getherCouple
6 hours ago

East London / Essex

Following with interest

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