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How did you get into the scene?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was married and we thought it would be fun to have a threesome to jazz things up a bit. Before we met anyone, we were invited to a party.

At the party, we met a couple and we had a lot in common and went back to theirs as the party wasn't her scene.

After some chat and wine, we retired to the bedroom and had a great 4some. I'm still friends with the couple we met, and though I'm no longer married I'm still well into 3somes and moresomes...

How did you get into this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site recomended by a meet from another site. Not looked back. Had some great meets and made some really good friends

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we had a very long talk, it lasted weeks then met a lovely man who introduced us to threesomes

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I was bored one night and maybe a bit tipsy. It's all Google's fault....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was bored one night and maybe a bit tipsy. It's all Google's fault.... "

damn that Google...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google...where would we be without internet? Sure I would be home bored or knitting instead of being on fab

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Watched a film years ago, convinced me it was for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How did you get into this? "

Started with a dare with us! enough said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had an unhappy relationship end badly. Didn't want another but we all have needs. Got invited to a private party and found NSA fun was better than angst and being hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Long story lol x

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By *aitinkCouple
over a year ago

York

Girlfriend was Bi and didn't want to give it up...

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

I stumbled upon la chambre when I lived in Sheffield about 8yrs ago and never looked back. Then I moved back down here and joined fab.

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By *othingbetterthansexCouple
over a year ago

Accrington

We both got a bit fed up of pretending Mrs's dildo was a real man and decided that you can't beat the real thing. So in we jumped. Had our first MfM Saturday gone and was amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brother of all people suggested I try it out for fun, so far it's definitely been a good laugh or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By accident, D slipped and fell onto another guys cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex partner introduced me, my first experience was a club, I was so nervous on the way there I had to have half a bottle wine for Dutch courage lol needn't have worried, I had a wicked time and never looked back

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By *olinn3000Man
over a year ago

Carlow

Was introduced to my bi side by a lifelong friend many years ago. that was a slow and gradual intro and I enjoyed it very much.

More recently my own situation changed and I now have no sexual activity at home at all for a number of reasons, mainly health related on her side. However we all have needs and the pressure does build up, so only thing to do was to start looking and found Fab.

New world but very difficult to find what you're looking for......perseverence is essential and it has paid off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be too shy to buy porn at the sweet shop ..and then our friend Mr Google somehow directed me to swinging and then FAB...and I then thought wouldnt hurt to send a message or 3...rest is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Andy was on here before we got together. He'd always been honest about his sexual preferences and that he had a profile on this site amongst others. A few months on and a few fantasies shared, so we decided to join as a couple. We've had lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got ill n tought fook it lets have some fun before i snuff it.

Got better and made full recovery and carried on

How can i leave i love fabs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Google...where would we be without internet? Sure I would be home bored or knitting instead of being on fab "

Internet...Where would we be without electricity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admir e couples that swap i think it takes a lot of courage as you dont know how it will work out

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?

used to enjoy escort magazine turned us on a lot with other real wives and stories,then bought the contact mags and decided to try and arrange a meet or two all very pre internet but set us on our way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was bored one night and maybe a bit tipsy. It's all Google's fault.... "

So true !

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London

had a meet with someone off another site and she told me i had to join fabswingers so i did

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By *orflondonerMan
over a year ago

Wood Green

Was working nights and had really bad shifts= no sex.Decided to try contacts,no success.Then moved on to phone lines(quite a bit better).Then from that got recommended a club in Stratford,London.Then the internet kicked in(for me anyway)Havent looked back,that was about 12/13 years ago now.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"This site recomended by a meet from another site. Not looked back. Had some great meets and made some really good friends"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw it in the history of my dad's laptop and no i kept quite about it

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

It was simple, my ex-fiancee introduced me to the scene back in the early 90's.

We broke up before getting married; years later, when my personal circumstances dictated my life, I made my return move here and have stayed since!

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

Delivered some pizzas to a swinging party, got invited to go back after work had finished, went back...and never looked back

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"By accident, D slipped and fell onto another guys cock."

Damn! It's such an easy accident to happen isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to a guy on another site, was a bit depressed tbh, he told me to join fab. Its been fun so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had my first f/f fumble when I was 15, never forgot it! And wanted more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heart failure, couldn't satisfy squames and it turned me on and sometimes id even get a hard on!! lol

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Originally found an old contact mag and replied to an add and met a couple where he liked to watch her having sex... Then a break of 20 years while I was married but it never went away. After divorce just wanted NSA fun was on a dating site met a lady who suggested here, to be honest got more sex on the dating site as a single guy then I did off here. Met my partner and was honest with her and she fancied it too so we set out on this path.. Now nearly 30 years later I am the guy who likes watching!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy I met on a date site who took me to my first party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd chatted about fantasies and mine was always a mfm threesome. Curiosity took over and I put us on here to see what it was like and chat to people, now I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was 24 (yes.. a long time ago..) I met a girl who - unknown to me for the first 3 weeks - was into the scene... as were her Mum and Dad....

Took me to my first house party without telling me why we were going there.. which was interesting ... and the rest is history.

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Husband pestered me into it so one night I picked a guy that I wanted to have sex with and invited him round that was 2 yrs ago and still having fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both got a bit fed up of pretending Mrs's dildo was a real man and decided that you can't beat the real thing. So in we jumped. Had our first MfM Saturday gone and was amazing!"

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

I was always like that and when I met "the one" I still had another, so we discussed it and over time my, by then fiancee, accepted my nature and we have not looked back since.

I suppose we have been swinging since 1978.

Happy days.

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had enough of wondering about the fantasy side of things and decided to try it

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Like a lot of married men (I hope), when you're trying to start a family, you get sex day and night, anytime you want, and sometimes when you don't want.

When the kids come along, time to yourselves is a huge constraint, but also your wife becomes more content with being a mother than a lover.

I've trawled various sites on t'internet, ranging from exhibitionism, dogging, cheating wives, and finally salvation in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drink drugs and rock not roll. In are 20s started getting naked with friends at 1st mini orgys then contact mags sending pics and telephone nos to post boxes ..those were the days lol but thank god for Internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My forces fb asked me to set us up a profile & sort some fun out for us for his next lot of leave...... He met a lovely guy & decided that he wanted to play that way so I set up this profile

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

we met on a naughty site so had chatted a lot about fantasies before we even met for the first time. Plenty of saucy messages followed and exchanging ideas. Google is your friend, we found a club and as others have said never looked back!

I'd had bi experiences before and he'd had 3somes, we both have a laid back view to sex and experimenting and just can't get enough!

R x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A girl I met from pof showed me fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Google...where would we be without internet? Sure I would be home bored or knitting instead of being on fab

Internet...Where would we be without electricity"

Erm what about phones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girl I met from pof showed me fab"

Someone from POF told me about Fab too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A girl I met from pof showed me fab

Someone from POF told me about Fab too"

Pof gets a lot of hate on here

But it's great for meeting girls/guys

If you are looking for NSA fun on there, it's pretty easy to find

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"A girl I met from pof showed me fab

Someone from POF told me about Fab too

Pof gets a lot of hate on here

But it's great for meeting girls/guys

If you are looking for NSA fun on there, it's pretty easy to find"

I may try in there, may have more luck than in here, thanks!

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By *nly-AliceWoman
over a year ago

Chester / North Wales

Pure curiosity really. I was a little young and extremely inexperienced when I met my husband. He had dipped his toe in the scene before. Must admit, was his idea and I took some convincing, but here I am - never looked back since.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

got recommended to here from somebodoy i met on another site. Been here since and jacked the other sites in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We discussed fantasies after we got together. I wanted to have threesomes and group sex, and she had a desire for bondage/BDSM. We said lets do both

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By *ay N MazCouple
over a year ago

Market Harborough

Started off as chatting on cam to people and daring Maz to get her boobs out. Things escalated to having full sex on cam. Before we plucked up the courage to have a meet, excellent decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I followed a trail of breadcrumbs and it lead me here however he trail stopped but I am still here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a biker I tend to attract women with a wilder side than most. I was swinging for years before I knew what "swinger" truly meant.

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By *omeojulietCouple
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

Hi, with us we are married for over 19 years and we were both our first sexual partners. So we thought we dont want to die stupid without trying other partners but continuing with our healthy relationship. Shame with children time is not allowing as much as we would like... Kiss Kiss (choose where...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was bored one night and maybe a bit tipsy. It's all Google's fault.... "

Thank GOD for google

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