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By *iestro OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton

I've been on a while and sent a number of messages to people, some get back but most don't, what do women want in a message, do you want a chatty message or "I wanna fuck you all night" ??

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By *tryxxCouple
over a year ago

central

I despair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some pics and a brief profile works well for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on a while and sent a number of messages to people, some get back but most don't, what do women want in a message, do you want a chatty message or "I wanna fuck you all night" ??"

There'll never be a 'one size fits all' message guaranteed to get a reply!

And even the best message will be no use if the receiver views your profile and feels you're not what they're looking for or they're not attracted to you.

Just try and be interesting, amusing and make it individual!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on a while and sent a number of messages to people, some get back but most don't, what do women want in a message, do you want a chatty message or "I wanna fuck you all night" ??

There'll never be a 'one size fits all' message guaranteed to get a reply!

And even the best message will be no use if the receiver views your profile and feels you're not what they're looking for or they're not attracted to you.

Just try and be interesting, amusing and make it individual!

Good luck! "

This! Plus actually send a message rather than a one-liner. Show you have read the person's profile by mentioning how you fit into their requirements rather than telling them what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read profile, read profile again, write message showing you have read profile and that you match what they want, attach a facepic and send, if you get no reply move on and keep looking.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Show you have read the person's profile by mentioning how you fit into their requirements rather than telling them what you are looking for."

That is the advice I get when applying for a job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on a while and sent a number of messages to people, some get back but most don't, what do women want in a message, do you want a chatty message or "I wanna fuck you all night" ??"

I've always found that "oi you fuck now" works well

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By *urreyloverMan
over a year ago

Guildford

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By *urreyloverMan
over a year ago

Guildford


"Show you have read the person's profile by mentioning how you fit into their requirements rather than telling them what you are looking for.

That is the advice I get when applying for a job "

Well you are applying for a position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Back playing now the warts have cleared up" always seems to elicit a response

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By *iestro OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton

Thanks for your advice hopefully things will pick up.

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By *attykitWoman
over a year ago

leeds


"Thanks for your advice hopefully things will pick up."

Don't just write " I read your profile and it sounds great and think we'd be good together". Write something that PROVES you've read the profile!

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By *adydi66Woman
over a year ago

pittsburgh

N "I wanna shoot a load All over your face"...is not a good first message either....lol

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


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This! Plus actually send a message rather than a one-liner. Show you have read the person's profile by mentioning how you fit into their requirements rather than telling them what you are looking for."

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