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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, I was wondering if anyone could help me out; I'm bi, but I've only received anal sex twice and both times were very sore. First time I was very d*unk and finished, but the second time we had to stop as the guy I was with just stuck straight in and had no concept of gently.

I love to suck cock but am nervous about being screwed again, does anyone have any advice regarding this, ie should I purchase a toy, try and meet someone to introduce me gently or what?

Any ideas (or offers... ) would be gladly received!

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-toys/362-anal-sex-for-beginners-any-advice/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take things slowly.

Use lube - lots and lots of lube

When you think things are sufficiently lubed, apply more lube.

Use fingers to start to stretch and open yourself up. Once you feel comfortable, add another.

Apply more lube.

When you finally have 3 or 4 fingers in and you think you are ready, take things very slowly.

Make sure his cock is lined up properly with your hole - if things are not aligned right, it can make things more uncomfortable.

Did I mention lube?

Tell whoever you're playing with not to push in, instead, you should apply the pressure. This will let you go at your own pace. As things become comfortable, take a little more.

It can help if you push out lightly similar to when your pooping when you're taking it in. It will help open things up a bit and make it more pleasant but for the love of god, don't poop (unless the two of you are into that and in that case don't tell me!) lol

Lube!!!!

Me sure whoever you're with is good at following instructions. Tell them what you need. ie: pause, more, pull back slightly. I'd avise against telling him to pull out as that will reset things a bit but if its too much feel free to say out.

Thick lube stays in place better than thin lube.

Take things at your pace, try to relax and enjoy yourself. Once you learn to relax and take it, it feels great.

Also, you have a 2nd sphincter in there, if your guy has a big one, you'll have to take it slow to pass that one as well!

Did I mention lube?

Have fun!

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By *orsetandheelsWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

Lube!!!

When you think you've got enough, add more.

Take it really slowly, you can always hit the accelerator once things are under way.

Poppers are helpful, if you like that sort of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popper give me the worst headaches and never do much for me. I realize I'm probably in the minority on that one but take it easy if you do. Also, if you're taking Viagra - do NOT use popper. It can cause a very dangerous blood pressure problem - it can be fatal!

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By *hickenstripsCouple
over a year ago

tallahassee

The women I gave anal to told me what to do. Orgasm vaginally first, fore play, lube, insert one finger, lube, trim her with tongue and they begin to feel the pleasure. Tell her that the vagina and ass are made up of smooth epitheial cells and also contain the same nervesou and number. Around 2500 each.Tell her that hrr o

Rgssm will quite possibly be more pleasurable than ever before. The angle of the poop chute is such that your cock will be closer and therefore rub on her g spot more often. Copious eater solubule lube. If she asks, I give it, if she doesn't ask give it. Continue living and slowly keeping the pressure on and you will be rewarded when both spincters are dilated. Her moan or o my god I love it will be tour signal to increase tempo and depth of thrust into her ass hole.

When hyour cock is in and stroking smoothly her Meeks of pleasure and grunts of climax confirm that she may be experiencing an orgasm with every several thrusts into her. One women I corn holed became a believer of such conviction that they insisted I do them anally. They would suck and fuck me all I wanted and at any.time. lucky me. Comments afterwards of "why do I love it so?". "God, please do it again, now!" Will you ever come back? Oh yeah I will find the time. Should I call? Just get here let yourself in,eat, drink, shower and get naked for me. Oh let her tell you when to thrust and how hard.t I was tfucking my. Nieghbors. Wife, a nurse in the hospital at the hospital, and my liver. Who became addicted. Go slow, use lube, straight in And straight out. No stirring side punching or stepping to the side and thrusting sideways. That hurts. I was raped by a 30-40 y/o perv and my brother nearly killed him with a bat. He was a masochist and meant to torture me. Be gentle lube gently listen,gently,and she will be calling the guy who "knows" how.

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By *ancingtartWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Lube. Trust. Gentle. Listen. Then once used to it fuck fuck fuck dp is next step

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