FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie looking for tips

By *emonlick OP Man
6 days ago

Banbury

Heya,

Just wanted to see if any fabbers could give me tips on what to do and don't do.

Ultimately I just want to safely shag

By *layfullsamMan
6 days ago

Solihull

"Heya,

Just wanted to see if any fabbers could give me tips on what to do and don't do.

Ultimately I just want to safely shag

As a bare minimum you’ll need a Hi-Vis jacket and appropriate PPE (helmet,mask, gloves) etc for safe shags or a Hazmat suit

Good luck

By *onathanjonesMan
6 days ago

Chester

"Heya,

Just wanted to see if any fabbers could give me tips on what to do and don't do.

Ultimately I just want to safely shag

If you just want to shag, this is not the best place for you. Social clubs and the likes of Hinge are a lot better. I suppose it’s paradoxical really. Women go to social clubs to socialise, but get sexual. Women join sex sites thinking they want sex, but they often don’t.

But if you fancy your chances here;

Get rid of all dick pics and never send them. They have a negative effect.

Don’t write “send lemon if you read the profile” - that doesn’t work. Only women say that stuff. You’re male. You’re lucky to get any message at all.

The ratios here are absolutely horrific. Make sure you stand out. Go to social events.

Funnily enough, just as you would in the non-fab world. Actually this message appears to be completely incohesive, but it is what it is.

Act non-sexual on a sex site. Go to settings where women don’t expect you to be sexual. I’ll need to read that to myself a few times tbh.