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pain after playing ? anyone else

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By *inx82 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Durham

im not sure this is the right forum im sorry if not,

i just played and after cumin about 4 times i stopped as soon as i removed my dildo i got a immense pain very similar to period pain, and i get really bad so i no what it feels like and it was worse, after crawling up the i seriously contemplated ringin a ambulance it was so bad

it eased up after about 25 mins but a bit worried about it and will be funny about playin that hard again even though i have done it harder before lol any help people xxxx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

That's happened twice to me. First time I ended up in A&E, second time I was curled in a ball for an hour. I think its when we just hammer the cervix too hard. I know the doc at A&E had no idea what caused it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How you gonna explain yourself to the doc?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Is masturbating illegal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is masturbating illegal? "

In a public park i would imagine it is

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By *inx82 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Durham

well i wasnt in a public park lol and i think i would have just been honest and told them id been masturbating i was curled in a ball for about 5 mins then the pain actually made me feel like i was going to vomit so had to crawl upstairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put toothpaste on it..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"well i wasnt in a public park lol and i think i would have just been honest and told them id been masturbating i was curled in a ball for about 5 mins then the pain actually made me feel like i was going to vomit so had to crawl upstairs "

If it happens again take a couple of painkillers. It really helped with mine.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Did the op say she was playing in a park?!

No idea why she should worry about 'explaining herself' to the doctor. Women are routinely asked if they experience pain or bleeding during or after sex when attending sexual health clinics so it's really no different from that, only it was a toy instead of a cock.

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By *inx82 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Durham

thank you for the pain killer advise, i felt ill pain killers would not have stayed down lol but ill defo try, i have had a bit pain before but like seconds notin like this im paryin it never happens again hate to sound like a bloke but i thought i was dying lol well seriously done somethin bad to my insides lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did the op say she was playing in a park?!

No idea why she should worry about 'explaining herself' to the doctor. Women are routinely asked if they experience pain or bleeding during or after sex when attending sexual health clinics so it's really no different from that, only it was a toy instead of a cock."

I never said it was illegal either

You did

so i answered your question?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I'm sure there's some link between cervical stimulation and uterine contractions. Possibly part of the reason they recommend sex to set off labour! Stick to a vibrator for a bit lol

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By *inx82 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Durham

and one second toothpaste?? lol

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Did the op say she was playing in a park?!

No idea why she should worry about 'explaining herself' to the doctor. Women are routinely asked if they experience pain or bleeding during or after sex when attending sexual health clinics so it's really no different from that, only it was a toy instead of a cock.

I never said it was illegal either

You did

so i answered your question?"

No I didn't say it was illegal, I asked if it was. I fail to see why 'explaining herself' to a doctor would be an issue.

Anyway no doctor required tonight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did the op say she was playing in a park?!

No idea why she should worry about 'explaining herself' to the doctor. Women are routinely asked if they experience pain or bleeding during or after sex when attending sexual health clinics so it's really no different from that, only it was a toy instead of a cock.

I never said it was illegal either

You did

so i answered your question?

No I didn't say it was illegal, I asked if it was. I fail to see why 'explaining herself' to a doctor would be an issue.

Anyway no doctor required tonight."

You said "is masturbating illegal"

I said in a public place

You gonna deny that as well?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Is masturbating illegal? "

I used a question mark. So it was a question.

I'm not arguing with you anyway. OP is ok now so that's me off this thread.

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By *inx82 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Durham

thank you everyone xx and i posted after it had happened just worried about it and wondered if anyone else had had this x anymore posts welcome xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried to reply privately but to no avail. If you are worried then go to your GP or local A & E it is important to check that there are no infections etc.

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

Sometimes it is possible to force air into the cervix. This can lead to extreme pain. The cervical muscles contracting during orgasm can actually open the neck allowing more air in there. If your using a standard shaped dildo but pushing against the front wall to stimulate your G spot it's easy to force air in there without knowing.

Try a different shaped vibrator or drop down a size. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like ur uterus and bladder went into spasm this happened to me the pain was worse than having a baby maybe use your vibrator for a bit as if this keeps recurring it can lead to cystitis

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By *inx82 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Durham

i doubt its a infection i was checked out after my last unprotected sex and was given the all clear and i clean my toy after every use x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is masturbating illegal?

I used a question mark. So it was a question.

I'm not arguing with you anyway. OP is ok now so that's me off this thread."

I know it was a question

Thats why i answered it

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By *inx82 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Durham


"sounds like ur uterus and bladder went into spasm this happened to me the pain was worse than having a baby maybe use your vibrator for a bit as if this keeps recurring it can lead to cystitis"

good to no ahaving a baby isnt as bad lol i dont have kids so if its less than that its not as a scary thought lol

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By *inx82 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Durham


"Sometimes it is possible to force air into the cervix. This can lead to extreme pain. The cervical muscles contracting during orgasm can actually open the neck allowing more air in there. If your using a standard shaped dildo but pushing against the front wall to stimulate your G spot it's easy to force air in there without knowing.

Try a different shaped vibrator or drop down a size. x"

its only a neon rabit im not downsizing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and one second toothpaste?? lol "

yes right over the clit, the gentle cool mint will cause a mild numbing sensation and travel throughout the body causing an easing to any pains...

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By *inx82 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Durham


"and one second toothpaste?? lol

yes right over the clit, the gentle cool mint will cause a mild numbing sensation and travel throughout the body causing an easing to any pains...

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this pain nearly made me barf i doubt that would have worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and one second toothpaste?? lol

yes right over the clit, the gentle cool mint will cause a mild numbing sensation and travel throughout the body causing an easing to any pains...

this pain nearly made me barf i doubt that would have worked"

lol well i was joking lolol

anyway nice tits

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Hope you're ok now

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By *inx82 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Durham


"Hope you're ok now "

i am now thank you but a bit worried about playin again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am unduly rough with myself it can happen to me.. the pain though is like bad period pain... And as someone that often suffers pain there..

sometimes sex or play can bring on uterine contractions.. which is what period pains are. Sometimes it's worse than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say its best to get it checked out.

Is your smear up to date?

Also best to get checked for fibroids, cysts or endro(can't remember what its called) etc

Better safe than sorry

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By *lippi WenwetCouple
over a year ago

tynemouth

I sympathise as I too used to suffer with this, especially after orgasm. After numerous hospital visits and tests over several years it was concluded that the cervix swells and pushes into bladder and bowel which if it goes into spasm is horrendous too, right over an ovary, youch! if its the same pain that I had only strong painkillers and heat helped either hot bath and orboth/ all heat pad/hot water bottle. it could last anything from 1 min to 5 days. I must also add that I also suffered endometriosis/adenomyosis, fibroids and cysts which could of also been responsible for the pain. if this is something knew to you, it may be wise to get checked, but even after a hysterectomy if I play too hard I am crippled for days, hubby calls me greedy haha, anyhoo hope this was a one off for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can give u a fright pain after playing ither with a toy or man as don't know how or why it's sore try lots water plenty lube,too much if poss. And even couple paracetamol or nurofen before/after try ease or prevent pain xx

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