FabSwingers.com forum: Advice for a young guy

By *hocmanx OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hi Everyone!

It seems that at 22 I'm one of the youngest guys on this site. And I think that this massively limits my chances of getting a meet.

Even socialising and communicating is almost impossible since I can't message anyone because of their age filters.

Can anyone tell me how, if at all possible I can get to know people on the site? It seems like everyone I try to message has me filtered out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Everyone!

It seems that at 22 I'm one of the youngest guys on this site. And I think that this massively limits my chances of getting a meet.

Even socialising and communicating is almost impossible since I can't message anyone because of their age filters.

Can anyone tell me how, if at all possible I can get to know people on the site? It seems like everyone I try to message has me filtered out

Lie about your age, everyone else does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Everyone!

It seems that at 22 I'm one of the youngest guys on this site. And I think that this massively limits my chances of getting a meet.

Even socialising and communicating is almost impossible since I can't message anyone because of their age filters.

Can anyone tell me how, if at all possible I can get to know people on the site? It seems like everyone I try to message has me filtered out

age isnt everything as people do meet young guys n girls on here.

like anyone..depends on your time and effort u put in to anything. and case of trying to chat with those looking for same etc.

if can travel look at local events as is a good way to socialise..even clubs as its not all about the sex sometimes.

like anyone it takes time and frustation on many occasions..but they wil be peeps on here looking for same...now go forth n find em! good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

were both 21 and have found some people hate the fact were young, we have even had people have a go at us lol

but some people love the fact were young.

give going to clubs a try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im youngish and have no luck either lol age has Nowt to do with it

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I think in general people come into the swinging life style later on in life. There are exceptions to it (like us and many others)

You just have to accept that there are those that will find you too young and look for others that wont mind it!

We had a similar problem with "older" couples and men (in that they wanted to play but we just felt they were to old for us and the attraction wasnt there), so it very much swings both ways!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you think it is your age that is the Problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get yourself to a club - plenty in n/w and so on - and have a blast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both have to ask ourselves when contacted by a younger person, wtf do they want with us old fat and wrinkled farts

Saying that if we are lucky and they are desperate, age wouldn't stop us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi Everyone!

It seems that at 22 I'm one of the youngest guys on this site. And I think that this massively limits my chances of getting a meet.

Even socialising and communicating is almost impossible since I can't message anyone because of their age filters.

Can anyone tell me how, if at all possible I can get to know people on the site? It seems like everyone I try to message has me filtered out

It may seem obvious, but stop trying to message the people who have filtered you out and concentrate on those who haven't...there are filters for searches for age, use them...it doesn't matter if you want to meet thenm, if they've gone so far as to filter you out, like we used to, they aren't interested in you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im youngish and have no luck either lol age has Nowt to do with it "

For some of us it does as when I look at a profile, the first thing I do is check their age, if they are not in my preference I don't read further, no point

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By *hocmanx OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"What makes you think it is your age that is the Problem?"

I can't message anyone because the age filters block me.

Going to clubs is nice but it's always hit n miss whether you'll find anyone you like there. It's always better to go there with someone you know. It'll also be good to chat to people on here then go clubs on the same days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message younger people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"were both 21 and have found some people hate the fact were young, we have even had people have a go at us lol

but some people love the fact were young.

give going to clubs a try."

Really? How rude of them! I hope you stood your ground.

To the OP - move to Newark

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Message younger people?"

So simple, yet it seems so difficult for people to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What makes you think it is your age that is the Problem?

I can't message anyone because the age filters block me.

then as I said earlier, they don't want to meet you or even hear from you...so it would be pointless to message them wouldn't it?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Your profile is set to show you're only looking to meet 18 year olds! So maybe when you message a 30 year old she looks at that and wonders why you've messaged her?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i was going to say... if you have a age range of 18 to 18 only... i am sure no one is going to be able to mail you anyway.......

but rome wasn't built in a day.... time, patience and basic common sense go a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile is set to show you're only looking to meet 18 year olds! So maybe when you message a 30 year old she looks at that and wonders why you've messaged her? "

Add to this your only looking for females or ff couples means that most people won't mail you either as we are sure you have found out by now they are very much the minority on here.

Plenty of people on here meet younger people just target you attentions at them

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I'm young - and I hit the age filters too..

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By *hocmanx OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Message younger people?"

I haven't found any young people in my area

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By *hocmanx OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Your profile is set to show you're only looking to meet 18 year olds! So maybe when you message a 30 year old she looks at that and wonders why you've messaged her? "

Must have been a finger slip. It's meant to be 18 to 50...I'll change it now thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lie about your age, no harm no foul.

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