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By *eebie OP   Couple
over a year ago

SWScotland

You meet other couples but after each meeting the other couple dont like your partner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds easy to answer

Get a new partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FFS move on to the next couple

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

do you mean the other cpl dont like your partner? ,if so move on find someone else we cant all click

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Say 'Cheers, good luck, hope you have fun out there'

Then 'Next!!'

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By *eebie OP   Couple
over a year ago

SWScotland

Well I did ask lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You meet other couples but after each meeting the other couple dont like your partner!"

What do you think should happen next ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe you need a new toy box

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By *eebie OP   Couple
over a year ago

SWScotland

Its a small area here gonna run out o couples lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eebie OP   Couple
over a year ago

SWScotland

Hes good at using the toyd in my tool box wi me

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"You meet other couples but after each meeting the other couple dont like your partner!"

Do they give you a reason or is this just a general impression you get if they don't want a subsequent meet?

If it's specific feedback - maybe your partner could take it onboard and adjust whatever it is they're doing wrong (in the views of the other couples) - or it could be that it's their issue and not yours!

If it's nothing specific but they just don't want to meet again - it's going to be hard to work out why! I suppose you could ask them but they may be reluctant to spell it out in clear terms and prefer to look for alternative, 'fuzzy' reasons as to why further meets are out of the equation!

Tricky one - but good luck!

(A)

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

couple swinging is the hardest thing in this world because 4 people finding each other attractive is just so hard to find. The reasons people find each other for relationships are often quite different to what they look for in casual sex partners as well so its even more complicated.

All you can do is ask why ? (if you really care enough) and change what you can (dress, haircut, shaving, etc) or just accept you are who you are and some people will like you and some wont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does depend on what you mean by not like your partner

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By *isceanguyMan
over a year ago

La La Land

It's ruder of them to say that they didn't like one of you I have had meets where i didn't really like one of them but i would never say it to them, would have just given them a polite excuse why i wouldn't meet again and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you inform them they need to 'take one for the team' and crack on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore the peeps who have said:-

~ get a new partner

~ take one for the team.

Just keep up your spirits - you will eventually find playmates who both of you want to play with.

Good luck xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is very hard to find couples that I truly click with both parties have met a few at clubs over the years but have only met one couple on my own the only have met them quite a few times at chams and they came to Peterborough the only down side is they live bloody miles away on the isle of wight lol x But we see each other about 4 or 5 times a year x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"You meet other couples but after each meeting the other couple dont like your partner!"

Couple meets can be tricky for everyone to like one another. Keep your chins up and don't let it get to you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not sure how you know or why they don't like your partner. Not enough information really but your relationship is the most important thing and if you're saying that other couples don't like your partner in open forum you might want to think about stepping back and examining why you think that and the effect it might have on your partner.

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