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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok this morning got chatting to a hot girl I've spoken to in the past, who I would totally play with.

She is setting a scenario for a play, what she wants done and what she will wear. This is all happening very fast and we have not met or played before. Its going to happen this time, we was close to meeting before, so after showering I head off in my car. On arrival outside her house, she tells me to come in, up the stairs round to the side and start playing immediately. For me all was good up until this point. Its a house share, on route I had no idea she wanted me to enter the house uninvited, 1 other person is in the house and I've never actually met this girl only seen her once but didn't talk, n certainly never been in the house.

She said because she is in a thong I have to come in..... I replied basically with the above.

A short conversation later and I drive away, without entering the house.

What's your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds to me; that you have your head screwed on

Safety first. Was probably a bloke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds to me; that you have your head screwed on

Safety first. Was probably a bloke "

defiantly wasn't a bloke ive seen her before but just sounded to much like the R word if it went wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey don't ever let your dick override your brain when it comes to making sensible descisions regarding meets!!!

Scary.

What did she say when you didn't turn up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did thing right thing

What was stooping her putting a dressing gown on

All sounds sinister to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blimey don't ever let your dick override your brain when it comes to making sensible descisions regarding meets!!!

Scary.

What did she say when you didn't turn up? "

Try reading this again. My dick never rules a meet and I arrived at her house but didn't get out of the car.

After I said I could walk in a strangers house uninvited she said 'bye'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You did thing right thing

What was stooping her putting a dressing gown on

All sounds sinister to me "

Dressing gown, my thoughts exactly.

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

You did the right thing. I have 'talked' to one or two on here that have made my warning bells ring. If it feels wrong walk away, self preservation is rule number one in my book.

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By *estless in batterseaCouple
over a year ago

Wandsworth

My question is what did you think was gonna happen ha you walked in uninvited?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met with someone on here a few times in the past and would never think of asking him to enter my house without going to let him in, and I live alone He always rang from outside to check it was still ok and I would open the door, usually wearing a long cardi to cover my skimpy outfit! I think you did the right thing in driving away!

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Sounds like you made the right decision.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I would have done the same as you. I've walked from a meet too. My very first meet ever.

She was scary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was watching an old episode of the Bill last week and this was the scenario. jilted lover set up online account as ex, messaged guy, arranged guy to come in and play rough, plan was he would then "save her". Even when it came out in the interview he was charged even though set up. TV I know but ..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You done good, rule no1 in life, trust your instincts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you had dialogue since to explain the mismatch in expectations (from either of you)?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

red flag.......

man of "common sense" here....

if you have talked to here before did you not know the scenario before you left the house to drive?

if you did.... why did you still set off?

if you didn't... why did you not ask??

the dick did rule the head at some point... because you got to the house!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"red flag.......

man of "common sense" here....

if you have talked to here before did you not know the scenario before you left the house to drive?

if you did.... why did you still set off?

if you didn't... why did you not ask??

the dick did rule the head at some point... because you got to the house!!"

Exactly what I was saying" lust over mindfull process " equals disaster on occasions like this.

Well done for leaving but hey sex or the thought if it can make for fuzzy blurry moments .

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