FabSwingers.com forum: possible married couple

By *aulfitz19951 OP Man
4 weeks ago

kirkby

So I have spoken to my wife about my fantasy of wanting to do a mutual swap while in same room or possible separately, never thought she would go for it but she said she will try it once, any advice appreciated

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

East Sussex

Advice about what in particular? I'm assuming you and your wife have discussed how you want things to pan out and any boundaries you both have. After that you just need to find a couple

By *rightonsteveMan
4 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…

Talk it through with your wife and see what’s comfortable for her. Take it slow and explore at your own pace.

By *antra MassageMan
4 weeks ago

rural

It has a better chance of wory if she chooses the couple, not you. It's hard to find 4 people who all find each other attractive. Go to a club or social together, with no agenda no requirement to play, and see how she feels. She will get much more attention than you, you might be surprised at your own reaction.

By *abulincsCouple
4 weeks ago

near a bridge

Communication is key

By *Sm69funCouple
4 weeks ago

Coventry

Does she know you have a single male profile on here?

By *ophieslutTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Central

As it was you who suggested it, you could be very wise to take a back seat and let her know that it's about her, first and foremost. Your relationship is vital and thus you both need to make this work for both of you to be stronger.

Ensure that you don't push anything and that you have clear rules and communication before.

An exploration at a club could also help you to discuss things between you as well as chat with others, to learn. You could go, with a no sex there rule, for example

By *aomilatteCouple
4 weeks ago

Midlands

"So I have spoken to my wife about my fantasy of wanting to do a mutual swap while in same room or possible separately, never thought she would go for it but she said she will try it once, any advice appreciated "

Start a couples profile and/or go to a swinging club.