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By *atsby22 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

BOLTON

age seems to be problem i guess but still very active any tips on how to approach prospective meets

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
4 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)


"age seems to be problem i guess but still very active any tips on how to approach prospective meets"

Try searching for people in your age range nearby and see if they are also happy to play with someone in your age bracket , if they are read their profile to check your aligned and then send them a message.

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By *aomilatteCouple
4 weeks ago

Midlands

Age is a thing and there's nothing anyone can do about it. Most people get less interest as they get older.

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By *rightonsteveMan
4 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…

Go to a social and talk to people. Don’t be a knobhead.

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By *ove Swindon FABMan
3 weeks ago

Wales


"age seems to be problem i guess but still very active any tips on how to approach prospective meets

Try searching for people in your age range nearby and see if they are also happy to play with someone in your age bracket , if they are read their profile to check your aligned and then send them a message. "

Can we become friend please ? Not for any specific proposals . Just get to know you more

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By *oiluvfunMan
3 weeks ago

Penrith


"age seems to be problem i guess but still very active any tips on how to approach prospective meets"

Try another contact site with a better male:female ratio. Age is less of an issue, when there’s more ladies of a similar age to potentially match with 👍

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By *enandJadeCouple
3 weeks ago

yeovil


"age seems to be problem i guess but still very active any tips on how to approach prospective meets

Try searching for people in your age range nearby and see if they are also happy to play with someone in your age bracket , if they are read their profile to check your aligned and then send them a message.

Can we become friend please ? Not for any specific proposals . Just get to know you more"

If I’m wrong I apologise, but are you a scammer? Looking at some of your posts and the way you beg strangers to be friends it just seems sus. Also noticed you use the endearment ’dear’ on occasion which is a red flag in my experience.

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By *rYoniMan
3 weeks ago

Essex ++


"Go to a social and talk to people. Don’t be a knobhead. "

That is very location dependent. Most of the organised socials within a reasonable distance of me severely restrict the number of single men and very hard to be one of the chosen few. Sadly the older you get the less likely it becomes.

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By *rYoniMan
3 weeks ago

Essex ++


"age seems to be problem i guess but still very active any tips on how to approach prospective meets"

It is very difficult. Hard enough for a single man of any age and the older you get the harder it becomes sadly. I'm a touch younger than you but been on places like this for 20 years and it's really obvious. As others have said focus on people also a bit older and perhaps try to get to organised socials or clubs if any will have you but that is far from easy either.

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By *ousteau72Man
3 weeks ago

Wombourne

It's just how it is.

Due to the abundance of men on here, the choice for women and couples is plentiful.

I suppose it's the kid in a sweet shop scenario.

Look at it this way, if you were bombarded with a hundred messages a day from women ranging from 20 to 60, which ones are you more likely to message back?

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By *oiluvfunMan
3 weeks ago

Penrith


"It's just how it is.

Due to the abundance of men on here, the choice for women and couples is plentiful.

I suppose it's the kid in a sweet shop scenario.

Look at it this way, if you were bombarded with a hundred messages a day from women ranging from 20 to 60, which ones are you more likely to message back?

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Never, in a million years, is ANY man in Fab, ever going to be "bombarded with a hundred messages a day from women aged 20 to 60".....lmfao

Out of the 2 or 3 that might (against all the odds) message him first, he might respond to the ones who have a bio reading more than the ubiquitous 'I'm a xx year old woman looking to meet men'.....pmsl

Welcome to Fab

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By *laterMan
3 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"Out of the 2 or 3 that might (against all the odds) message him first... "

He'll reply them to them all with:

"YES PLEASE OMIGOD YES YES YES! "

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By *tlanshiaWoman
3 weeks ago

Medway

There is a box in the search page that says something along the line of “i am the age they are looking for”

Click that and fish there.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
3 weeks ago

Worsley

If age is a problem.

I heard that owning a DeLorean and accelerating to 88mph might be a solution.

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By *oiluvfunMan
3 weeks ago

Penrith


"If age is a problem.

I heard that owning a DeLorean and accelerating to 88mph might be a solution. "

Failing that, keep an eye on EBay for a used Tardis 😎👍

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By *rightonsteveMan
3 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…


"Go to a social and talk to people. Don’t be a knobhead.

That is very location dependent. Most of the organised socials within a reasonable distance of me severely restrict the number of single men and very hard to be one of the chosen few. Sadly the older you get the less likely it becomes. "

Create tour own social so people come to you.

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