FabSwingers.com forum: 20 people a day looking

By *umsayhi OP Man
4 weeks ago

brighton

About 20 people a day look at by profile but no one says "hello" is my words wrong or am wrong

Any advice welcome

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By *icecouple561Couple
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4 weeks ago

East Sussex

Around 200 a day look at ours and we receive hardly any messages.

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By *heonixrising500Man
4 weeks ago

Barnsley

Thats fab

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By *WB85Man
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

20 people a day....

You're clearly doing something better than me. Keep up the good work

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
4 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

We get people look all the time but don’t wink or message.

We put it down to a few things, they may have seen a forum post we have started or commented on and curious about us.

They view our profile either don’t like our pics, don’t like our bio , don’t match up with our preferences or an any number of things not compatible with them.

We just get on with our day. If they end up looking multiple times a day over days and weeks we block them.

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By *ersatilefoxMan
4 weeks ago

Notts

"About 20 people a day look at by profile but no one says "hello" is my words wrong or am wrong

Any advice welcome "

I have around 80 a day with little or no interaction. But at least they've looked.

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By *umsayhi OP Man
4 weeks ago

brighton

"We get people look all the time but don’t wink or message.

We put it down to a few things, they may have seen a forum post we have started or commented on and curious about us.

They view our profile either don’t like our pics, don’t like our bio , don’t match up with our preferences or an any number of things not compatible with them.

We just get on with our day. If they end up looking multiple times a day over days and weeks we block them. "
its the Duck abuse that would put me off sorry

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
4 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

"We get people look all the time but don’t wink or message.

We put it down to a few things, they may have seen a forum post we have started or commented on and curious about us.

They view our profile either don’t like our pics, don’t like our bio , don’t match up with our preferences or an any number of things not compatible with them.

We just get on with our day. If they end up looking multiple times a day over days and weeks we block them. its the Duck abuse that would put me off sorry"

Gemma the duck is quite fond of playing I’ll have you know :p

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By *abulincsCouple
4 weeks ago

near a bridge

We got 150-200 a day look but only 1 maybe 2 messages and non from couples it would seem but hey ho

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By *umsayhi OP Man
4 weeks ago

brighton

"We got 150-200 a day look but only 1 maybe 2 messages and non from couples it would seem but hey ho "

Im surprised with your pictures x x

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By *aandLoCouple
4 weeks ago

Southampton

A lot of things have to line up for us to message: basic physical characteristics, their bio, photo content, interests, veris and preferences.

We discount profiles more often than 'oh, let's see if they might be interested in us.'

Plus, our schedule has to have space in which we can take time to connect when we do see a profile we like.

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By *eyeYCouple
4 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Looking means just that for us, without being pointed how would you gauge anything from a profile without 'looking' at it..

Whether that's a positive or negative impression.

We don't bother even investigating, however utterly understand why a single guy would.. 😘

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By *udbieMan
4 weeks ago

Midlands

"Around 200 a day look at ours and we receive hardly any messages. "

Assumed you (and others here) would have too many messages to manage already.

But what about fabbed fotos? They’d count?

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By *umsayhi OP Man
4 weeks ago

brighton

"Around 200 a day look at ours and we receive hardly any messages.

Assumed you (and others here) would have too many messages to manage already.

But what about fabbed fotos? They’d count?"

Iv had none

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By *homas400Man
4 weeks ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo

I get a lot less than 20 a day and very few interact. The Internet can be a lonely place.

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By *oyalewithcheeseCouple
4 weeks ago

Stoke

we have around 100 + a day look at ours and we receive hardly any messages,and the ones we do ,are not what we are looking for xx

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By *orthampton jamesMan
4 weeks ago

Northampton

I got 4 today

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By *.D.Man
4 weeks ago

Rochdale

I dont get 20 people a day look at mine .

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By *acky RacersCouple
4 weeks ago

Lincoln

We have people who look multiple times a day, every single day or within seconds of us getting a new veri or putting up a new status...they never message...maybe they're just curious, maybe they're living vicariously through us, maybe they hate us...who knows...its part of the wonderful mystery that is Fab...

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By *agic hands52Man
4 weeks ago

Leicestershire

I have had only 5 in a week...

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By *eediousMan
3 weeks ago

Smallville

"We got 150-200 a day look but only 1 maybe 2 messages and non from couples it would seem but hey ho "

Same here. Average about 200 views a day but boils down to a couple of messages. People are allowed to look and it doesn’t necessarily mean they aren’t interested. They may be browsing in the middle of work and make a note of OP for later, or intimidated by your profile and may think they don’t measure up, or they may think you don’t measure up!

Hard to say, but it’s all part of the journey.

Don’t take it too seriously, as you can’t control how people communicate their interest to you.

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By *estinysswingersCouple
3 weeks ago

Worsley

Plenty of people look in shop windows. It doesn’t mean they’re going to buy anything.

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By *oupleInSyncCouple
3 weeks ago

Falkirk

"Around 200 a day look at ours and we receive hardly any messages. "

Similar for us. Currently around 150 views for today. I suspect there are a lot of people hoping for public photos.

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By *ohnsayshi2016Man
3 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

"About 20 people a day look at by profile but no one says "hello" is my words wrong or am wrong

Any advice welcome "

You're doing well

I average a few views a day

Messages .... lol, now that's another story

And its not a long story

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Central

Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. If your profile educates well, it will help them to take the right decision but it's still likely to be a little minority who are interested

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By *irky_coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Kirky

20? Count yourself lucky, we rarely make double figures

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By *maginitivemindMan
3 weeks ago

notts

If the profile is well written it can be clear if there will be any interest if you send a msg so why bother if you’re obviously not what they want others have filters set to block which stops some genuine people too. On balance it’s better to have a few quality msgs rather than hoards of people not your type chancing their luck

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By *adybird303Woman
3 weeks ago

Sheffield

I get over 2k viewers a day its very intense. Cant have a convo with people as their message gets buried.

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
3 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

A lot of people just like to look.

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By *WB85Man
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"20? Count yourself lucky, we rarely make double figures

I rarely make single figures

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By *aldaVelvetTV/TS
3 weeks ago

London

I had about 4000 the other day when I posted a video and got a lot of drivel back. It doesn't mean a thing. You just need one good one.

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By *istersomethingtomeMan
3 weeks ago

Royston

You just need that one connection or three but anything more is just being bloody greedy!

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

At least get people looking 😄. But its a huge site, people are maybe dubious , cautious, or there is so much choice you need to stand out, and im.new, just gettinga feel and letting it develop ( I tell myself)

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By *ustus5555Woman
3 weeks ago

playa del ingles

Around 200 views a day, with around 15ish inane messages.

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By *onyh43Man
3 weeks ago

North East

I get about 40 or 50 views a day.

A few messages. Also have friends here who will keep in touch.

Generally works for me.

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By *pindle1986Man
3 weeks ago

ickenham

Went to reply privately. Just to say Hi, not to be a look and not message. Comment that your photos are great.

Sadly out of range...

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By *igtittysCouple
3 weeks ago

Bristol

I only got 8 views today. Is this maybe because im only looking for couples and women?

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By *ymbunny99Woman
3 weeks ago

sheerness

I’ve had 159 views today and about 5 messages, I really only use the site for club info and club meets

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By *uriousCouple14Couple
3 weeks ago

West Lothian

We get hundreds a day..

Mostly I assume having wank over June.

Our profile is clear though . So I appreciate the discreet views that dont meet our chat criteria and leave us alone.

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By *skarMan
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yeah i get this, from the other side, ill look at profiles and see something that the person isn't after, single male etc etc so then won't bother messaging

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By *ove Swindon FABMan
3 weeks ago

Wales

I’m going through some personal things in my life, and I’m looking for someone I can build a genuine friendship with. Someone I can talk to, share thoughts with, and enjoy good conversations. I’m not looking for anything specific or expecting anything from you — I’d just like to connect with someone, have a nice friendship, and see where things naturally go.

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By *acky RacersCouple
3 weeks ago

Lincoln

Also, its massively skewed by filters and being hidden...nobody can see if we've looked at them and we can't see if single men have looked...its not a very good factor for measuring your appeal...

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By *r SensualMan
3 weeks ago

London

Most people view in 🥷 mode so you don’t even know the true number… most of the profiles that view mine have minimal on theirs; silhouettes, no written bio etc. so I don’t put much emphasis on this as it means diddly squat.

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