FabSwingers.com forum: Hot Husband

By *antasia star bomb OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Epping

Me and Mrs F have been looking at exploring Solo. Why is it such a difference when the male is looking at Hot husband. Very frustrating but also understandable that not all women believe that a guy from a married couple can play solo with his wife’s permission.

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By *iCurvCPLCouple
4 weeks ago

Newport

Yeah totally get this. My wife would never allow me to play solo she gets to jealous lmao but I respect that boundary so I don't want to play solo. I'd allow her to buy I'm into the stag cuck kinda thing. We've had messages from guys claiming that they play solo with partners consent but we never really know if we can trust them so we've made it a rule to just stick to single guys to avoid drama

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By *uddleTroubleMan
4 weeks ago

Hove

This is basically my situation though the term HH always feels weird where as HW seems to feel more natural? My wife doesn't play (yet) though may in future. In the meantime though she's happy for me to play solo with no hangups. We have a solid, clear, honest relationship; close friends know; all is fine for us. BUT trying to explain that to others is always a sticking point. Many people don't get ENM generally and those on the poly side also seem to take issue with those on the swinging side of that spectrum from time to time. Ugh people!

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By *aughty50sCouple
4 weeks ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

Interesting topic. We've been moving towards the hot husband dynamic recently as Mrs Y sadly now finds it too difficult to play due to her worsening medical condition, but she actively encourages me to continue. That's ok when I play solo with a couple we already know and there's existing trust between the four of us, but I imagine it would be a whole different ball game with anyone new (not that we're looking anyway).

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By *aandLoCouple
4 weeks ago

Southampton

We happily play solo but only after a relationship has been established as a 3/4 some.

Unfortunately, too many guys say 'playing with permission' but can't substantiate that. We've no issue with people playing away (their business) but liars, no thanks.

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
4 weeks ago

London

The reality is once you go solo you're playing the same game as every single guy on here.

And as is mentioned regularly, the imbalance is huge, and so the chances are very low.

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By *heSilverFox1701Man
4 weeks ago

Near Sleaford

We always play solo. Rarely as a couple it’s much more fun that way.

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By *aomilatteCouple
4 weeks ago

Midlands

"Me and Mrs F have been looking at exploring Solo. Why is it such a difference when the male is looking at Hot husband. Very frustrating but also understandable that not all women believe that a guy from a married couple can play solo with his wife’s permission. "

Because men massively outnumber women on here, so there's more competition. Many women prefer a single man to avoid any potential drama. Separate room swapping may suit you, many couples do it.

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By *etitehotwife4uCouple
4 weeks ago

Wirral

I like the idea of it but Mrs doesn’t.

I love the idea of her playing with a married man (with permission). Maybe the best way would be to video call the couple first so everything checks out.

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By *WB85Man
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

It is more difficult, we've been doing this for a few years since getting bored of couples and all the drama they bring.

Keep trying OP. Good luck

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By *rYoniMan
4 weeks ago

Essex ++

Are you really asking why it is much harder for single man to find fun rather a single lady? Obviously it's a much difference numbers game apart from anything else. I do also wonder about the term "Hot Husband" and whether that in itself is off-putting. Perhaps ditch the term and just say male half looking to play alone with permission. I don't hugely like the term Hot Wife either but obviously so many men it doesn't matter. Perhaps as somebody else as said you should focus on separate room swapping or going to club/parties and splitting up and playing separately.

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By *antasia star bomb OP Couple
4 weeks ago

Epping

Thanks for all the replies. Maybe separating at events and parties is the way to go, we like to mix up our dynamics and are open to all of them. Just think it keeps it exciting rather than sticking to 1.

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By *parky123Man
4 weeks ago

Lincoln

Were able to attend events for solos/singles, that’s where I’ve had my luck. Trying to arrange meets here feels impossible some days

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By *rightonsteveMan
4 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…

I’ve found a niche market by being a ‘luke-warm husband’ - it’s a lot less stressy than being a ‘hot husband’.

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By *aughty50sCouple
2 weeks ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

"I’ve found a niche market by being a ‘luke-warm husband’ - it’s a lot less stressy than being a ‘hot husband’. "

LOL I like that! Actually, I might nick it... 😁

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By *dwkmlcrpCouple
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

If we are playing solo we are always happy to do a quick video call so they know we ain't telling porkies

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By *estinysswingersCouple
2 weeks ago

Worsley

A hot wife is in demand by couples, single guys. Basically everyone on this site.

A hot husband is just another single guy joining the thousands of others on here all chasing the same.

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By *aughty50sCouple
2 weeks ago

Yorkshire - but we travel a lot

"A hot wife is in demand by couples, single guys. Basically everyone on this site.

A hot husband is just another single guy joining the thousands of others on here all chasing the same. "

For us at least, it's not as black and white as that. We don't as a rule play with single guys, but we have played with the male half of a couple simply because we already knew his wife personally and there was established trust all round between the four of us.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Single men and hot husbands are very different.

I now only meet men that are married with consent.

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By *ister-mischiefMan
2 weeks ago

Trafford

As a husband very much allowed to play with permission, we have a couples profile and Mrs has a solo profile. It is very difficult to find someone close, whom we can build that trust with to move forward with potential play. Ideally a hotwife for this hot husband or a single lady looking for a married man with permission

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By *lueKitchenMan
2 weeks ago

Warrington

Oh to fit the classification of HH would be something to attain. Ah I can but dream.

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By *elonbreadCouple
2 weeks ago

Stafford

I always thought HH was high and horny?

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