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Oh the joys of being a single fella here | |||
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I think a few days for myself. | |||
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"So what’s the longest you’ve gone without a message ? I’m currently at 2 months
Oh the joys of being a single fella here "With all due respect, your profile is an example of the things a lot of couples find off-putting. Firstly, your photos are just cock pics and flesh, people like to see a bit of creativity and class...also you say discretion is your middle name, yet you have a random lady displayed in your pics. Can appreciate she may have given you legal consent, but it doesn't exactly show discretion on your part. Remember, your profile is the first thing people see, so make it stand out. | |||
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"So what’s the longest you’ve gone without a message ? I’m currently at 2 months
Oh the joys of being a single fella here
With all due respect, your profile is an example of the things a lot of couples find off-putting. Firstly, your photos are just cock pics and flesh, people like to see a bit of creativity and class...also you say discretion is your middle name, yet you have a random lady displayed in your pics. Can appreciate she may have given you legal consent, but it doesn't exactly show discretion on your part.
Remember, your profile is the first thing people see, so make it stand out. "Good points , I’ll take on board and make some changes  | |||
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"You’ll get one eventually, from admin reminding you about your Site Supporter renewal etc
I think a few days for myself. "Haha yes always quite exciting before the realisation | |||
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"I don’t think it helps with the feet on your profile pic. Most people despise feet I find. " They don’t. People on the forum might, but trust me, a LOT of people have a thing for feet. And to be fair, that pic is well taken and quite erotic. | |||
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"So what’s the longest you’ve gone without a message ? I’m currently at 2 months
Oh the joys of being a single fella here
With all due respect, your profile is an example of the things a lot of couples find off-putting. Firstly, your photos are just cock pics and flesh, people like to see a bit of creativity and class...also you say discretion is your middle name, yet you have a random lady displayed in your pics. Can appreciate she may have given you legal consent, but it doesn't exactly show discretion on your part.
Remember, your profile is the first thing people see, so make it stand out. "Doesn't make a huge difference. You can have the best possible profile and are still unlikely to get messages very often unless you've got something very special. - like a big black cock for example | |||
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"Doesn't make a huge difference. You can have the best possible profile and are still unlikely to get messages very often unless you've got something very special. - like a big black cock for example "This is partly true. But this game is all about odds. So why reduce the odds with profile photo? We would never send or even read a message from anyone with cock profile photo (photos in gallery is a different story). So good profile photo does not guarantee a message but definitely would increase the odds. | |||
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"So what’s the longest you’ve gone without a message ? I’m currently at 2 months
Oh the joys of being a single fella here
With all due respect, your profile is an example of the things a lot of couples find off-putting. Firstly, your photos are just cock pics and flesh, people like to see a bit of creativity and class...also you say discretion is your middle name, yet you have a random lady displayed in your pics. Can appreciate she may have given you legal consent, but it doesn't exactly show discretion on your part.
Remember, your profile is the first thing people see, so make it stand out.
Good points , I’ll take on board and make some changes "I'd have to agree with this! As a solo female I'm seeing hundreds of cock shots weekly. It's a turn off. Sorry! I hope you get more messages with the change! | |||
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" Doesn't make a huge difference. You can have the best possible profile and are still unlikely to get messages very often unless you've got something very special. - like a big black cock for example "Well, we can't speak for others, but if a guy (or anyone) sends a message, as long as it ticks a few essential boxes then we always reply, even if it's a simple no thanks. A lot of the time we even just have a friendly chat. But so many don't get a response from us for these few reasons. Blank profile or very little effort/info in bio Bio riddled with mistakes because they've written it with the wrong hand Absolutely no pics or just close up dick picks. Clearly haven't read our profile, which takes only a minute. Sends a very low effort first message e.g. "Hey" or "Delicious" or "you free tonight?" We honestly dont see a BBC as something very special, what we see as very special is a guy that has a good level of respect, humour, understanding and patience. We want to enjoy your company, and we want you to enjoy ours. Otherwise it just feels like a transaction. Make your profile enticing, make your messages enticing, and read the profile you're messaging, if they don't seem like a good fit then don't waste your time. Everyone has different desires, tastes, dynamics and they're at varying stages of their journey which will affect the odds of a reply greatly. And above all else, remember, messaging is time consuming, and sometimes, like us....we don't always come on here to read messages. Sometimes we look at updates, chat in forums or even just chat with friends, we can take weeks to reply, especially if we haven't got time or plans to meet, and we've seen many messages where guys have lost patience, assumed we're not interested and blocked us or sent a rude message. | |||
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