FabSwingers.com forum: Birthday surprise

By *otshot14 OP Woman
2 days ago

tunbridge wells

Hey everyone just need some advice as I'm trying to sort out a birthday surprise for my Fwb,he wants a ffm.

I had one for my birthday mmf.

My problem I'm finding is that to find a girl who wants to do this,so maybe I need to look at couples,who would be happy for the guy to watch his missus and me and my Fwb play.

Though it could always go into something else as the night went on.

Any tips would be great,he doesn't like the club side,I've tried that.

Thanks

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By *abulincsCouple
2 days ago

near a bridge

Good luck in your search but unicorns are down the same aisle as rocking horse poop lol ,sorry ladies do have there pick of the crop and may not appreciate being classified as a pressie

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By *otshot14 OP Woman
2 days ago

tunbridge wells

Maybe I need to set up a couple profile aswell.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 days ago

East Sussex

"Maybe I need to set up a couple profile aswell."

I'd say that should be the first thing you should do.

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By *laytime_13Woman
2 days ago

Lincs

Couples profile with pics of you both is definitely a good shout.

A friend (a real life not from fab one) asked me if I'd join her and her bf as his birthday present, it was not the turn on I think she thought it was.

I love joining couples and with a couple I know I'd be well up for joining in birthday plans, but not as a one off, it's for him, anyone will do kind of vibe, sorry.

However we're all different, I'm sure there's others out there who would find it hot.

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By *aomilatteCouple
19 hours ago

Midlands

Lots of couples post similar in their status, it never seems to work. Good luck though.

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By *iss DevilWoman
18 hours ago

Bedford

Yep, definitely start with couple's profile. Be very clear what you're both looking for, and whether you're just looking for girl on girl play with him watching, or if he's going to be involved. If yes- to what extent?

You never know, you might get lucky in finding the lady that would be happy to meet, but the chances are rather slim. There is always an alternative route, involving hiring someone?

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By *aandLoCouple
18 hours ago

Southampton

There are women in couples who play solo also, and I agree you'll have more luck connecting with the right lady via a couples profile.

Imo a 'birthday surprise' narrows the chances of finding a willing lady. I'd only join a couple of I'd had a social and connected with both.

Do you want the hubbie to watch or are you thinking he'd more likely 'allow,' his wife to play if he's there?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
15 hours ago

East Sussex

Look at it this way, you want a woman to volunteer to help you with a birthday surprise for a man she doesn't yet know and can't see or a couple where the guy might have a chance to join in but can only be certain of watching still without seeing the guy. When you look at it like that it's not really a surprise that you're finding it difficult.

As has been said you might have more luck with a couples profile but from what I've read on here a lot of women aren't keen on being birthday surprises for men they don't know

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
14 hours ago

Newry

"Look at it this way, you want a woman to volunteer to help you with a birthday surprise for a man she doesn't yet know and can't see or a couple where the guy might have a chance to join in but can only be certain of watching still without seeing the guy. When you look at it like that it's not really a surprise that you're finding it difficult.

As has been said you might have more luck with a couples profile but from what I've read on here a lot of women aren't keen on being birthday surprises for men they don't know "

All of this ☝️

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